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The Creative Mom’s Daily Favorites

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Welcome to my master list of everyday essentials! As a creative soul and a busy mom, I’m always looking for that perfect balance between growth and beauty. Here, I’ve curated my tried-and-true finds from Amazon to Ulta—including the hair care routin...
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Curly Hair Friendly (The "Holy Grails")

My Holy Grail Curly Routine                                                                                                   If you've been on the curly girl journey, you know the struggle to find products that actually hold without the frizz! This is my personal lineup of ‘cannot -live - without’ stylers. From my $2 drugstore miracle gel to the weightless oil I use to ‘s...

 
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This is my go-to for refreshing my curls! It gives my curls amazing frizz free definition, and a firm hold without feeling heavy. Just add a drop in your hand and run some water on it and run it through your curls and WALLAH perfect curls on refresh ...
6.0 oz Curl Talk Frizz Control Hair Sculpting Gel - Not Your Mother's | Ulta Beauty
 
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My secret weapon for perfect curls! I use a few drops of this weightless oil to 'scrunch out the crunch' once my hair is 100% dry. It breaks the gel cast perfectly without adding weight, leaving my curls incredibly soft, shiny, and frizz-free. It tru...
2.0 oz Ghost Weightless Hair Oil - Verb | Ulta Beauty
 
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Don't let the prince fool you! This has been my holy grail for 20 years. It's only about $2.50 at Walmart and provides the strongest hold I've ever found for my curls. I use this to create a solid 'cast' while drying, then I scrunch it out with the V...
L.A. LOOKS Extreme Sport Tri-Active Hold Gel, for All Hair Types, Men, 20 oz
 
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If you love the sunflower aesthetic as much as I do, this is a must have! I always recommend satin hair ties for my fellow curly girls because they prevent the pulling and breakage you get with the regular elastics. It's the perfect way to keep your ...
Sunflower Bow Satin Hair Tie Scrunchies

Hair Growth & Volume Essentials (The Solutions)

Scalp Health, Growth & Volume ​Let’s be real—hair changes! Whether it’s due to stress, hormones, or just the 'mom life' glow-down, I’ve dealt with thinning and loss of volume too. This section is dedicated to the products that helped me get my co...
 
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This is a game changer for thinning hair! It's sulfate-free (essential for curly girls) and uses Rosemary and Redensyl to stimulate the scalp. I love the peppermint tingle. It makes my scalp feel incredibly clean and invigorated without that 'strippe...
16.9 oz HG Shampoo for Thinning Hair - Bondi Boost | Ulta Beauty
 
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Finally, a thinning-hair conditioner that doesn't weigh my curls down! It's silicone-free and aloe-based, so it gives amazing hydration and shine while fighting hair fall. It has great slip, which makes detangling in the shower so much easier. Since ...
16.9 oz HG Conditioner for Thinning Hair - Bondi Boost | Ulta Beauty
 
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The ultimate power couple for growth! If you're looking to stop shedding and see real volume, I highly recommend using the full HG system. I'm linking this duo set from both Ulta and Amazon so you can choose between grabbing your reward points or usi...
HG Shampoo & Conditioner Set for Thinning Hair - Bondi Boost | Ulta Beauty
 
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The ultimate power couple for growth! If you're looking to stop shedding and see real volume, I highly recommend using the full HG system. I'm linking this duo set from both Ulta and Amazon so you can choose between grabbing your reward points or usi...
BondiBoost HG Anti-Thinning Shampoo & Conditioner Set 10.14 fl oz
 
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These drops are my secret weapon for thinning areas! I love that this serum is water-based, so it doesn't make my roots look greasy or weigh down - which is a huge deal for us curly girls. I apply it directly to my scalp at night, and it feels so lig...
1.0 oz HG Lock Drops Scalp Serum for Thinning Hair - Bondi Boost | Ulta Beauty
 
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To really tackle thinning hair, I love an inside - out approach. These vitamins are packed with Biotin and Lustriva , which I've found so helpful for strengthening my hair and nails. It pairs perfectly with the Bondi Boost topical system we talked ab...
Force Factor Hair Growth Accelerator Multivitamin
 
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This Rosemary + Mint Scalp Scrub is a revitalizing 2-in-1 treatment designed to deeply clarify and exfoliate the scalp. Infused with refreshing mint oil, it effectively removes product build-up while soothing the scalp with the included silicone mass...
Rosemary Scalp Scrub & Exfoliator Shampoo 10.6oz
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If you're looking to target thinning hair and want something super easy to use every single day, you have to try the Bondi Boost Intensive Spray! It's a daily scalp serum formulated with rosemary, and it is a total game-changer for promoting thicker,...
Intensive Spray Daily Scalp Serum for Thinning Hair with Rosemary - Bondi Boost | Ulta Beauty
 
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If your hair is in need of some serious rescue, the Bondi Boost HG Miracle Hair Mask is a total lifesaver! It is designed to target dry, damaged strands, and it claims to improve split ends by up to 84% after just 4 uses. I love how incredibly rich a...
HG Miracle Hair Mask with Rosemary for Thinning Hair - Bondi Boost | Ulta Beauty

Hair Care (The Basics)

The Foundation: Daily Cleansing & Moisture                                                                         Every great hair day starts in the shower! These are the reliable, everyday essentials I reach for to keep my hair clean, hydrated, and healthy. Whether it's a quick wash and go morning or a dedicated self-care evening, these products provide the pe... 

 
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If you ever use a blow dryer, flat iron, or a diffuser, this is a non-negotiable! Heat can be really damaging to any hair and can stall your growth journey by causing split ends. I love this CHI spray because it is lightweight, doesn't leave my hair ...
44 Iron Guard Thermal Protection Spray - CHI | Ulta Beauty
 
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If you're on a hair growth journey, a good bond-repairing leave in is a must! I love this one because it focuses on strengthening the hair from the inside out. It's perfect for detangling and protecting against breakage, which is essential when you'r...
Marc Anthony Bond Repair Leave-In Conditioner
 
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This is a total hidden gem for simplifying your hair routine! I love that it's a 3-in-1, it works as a heat protectant, a leave-in conditioner, and a styling cream all at once. It's perfect for adding that extra bit of shine and smoothing out frizz w...
5.5 oz All Eyes On Me 3-in-1 Hair Styling Cream - Not Your Mother's | Ulta Beauty
 
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This in one of my favorite budget-friendly secrets for keeping my hair healthy! Argan oil is incredible for adding shine and sealing in moisture, which is key for preventing those pesky split ends. I love that this formula is sulfate and paraben free...
HASK Argan Repairing Hair Oil, 2 Pack
 
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This is my absolute favorite 'time-saver' for busy mornings! This dry shampoo is incredible for absorbing oil and adding instant volume without leaving that heavy, white residue. It makes my hair look and smell fresh in seconds, which is a total must...
Refreshing Dry Shampoo Spray, Oil-Absorbing, 7 oz
 
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This scalp scrub is a total game-changer for refreshing your hair routine! I love the rosemary and mint combination—it feels so cooling and invigorating on the scalp. It’s perfect for removing product buildup (especially after using dry shampoo!) and...
Rosemary Scalp Scrub & Exfoliator Shampoo 10.6oz
 
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If you want that glass-hair shine, this is the secret! I’ve used CHI Silk Infusion for years because it’s a total powerhouse for strengthening and protecting your hair from heat styling. It’s a leave-in treatment that doesn't weigh your hair down—jus...
CHI Silk Infusion Reconstructing Complex 50ml
 
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The All Eyes On Me Instant De-Frizz Hair Spray by Not Your Mother's is a game-changer for sleek, manageable hair. It works instantly to tame flyaways and frizz, leaving your hair looking polished and smooth without feeling heavy or greasy. It's a mus...
All Eyes On Me Instant De-Frizz Hair Spray - Not Your Mother's | Ulta Beauty

Art & Photography

 
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This is one of my favorite original designs from my Etsy shop! I created this piece to a daily reminder of hope and new beginnings. The warm watercolor tones and the sunflower field bring such a cozy, intentional vibe to any room. It's available as a...
Sunflower Wall Art Watercolor Sunflower Uplifting Wall Art Sunflower Sign Wildflower Prints Fall Porch Decor
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How cute is this design? I love using this tote for my everyday bag. It's sturdy, spacious, and that Highland cow print always gets so many compliments. It's a great way to carry all of your essentials in style!
Highland Cow Bag with Sunflower Yarn Crochet Design Everyday Tote Boho Style Bag Farmers Market Tote Western Style Tote Bag
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I have a total soft spot for Highland Cows—they are the ultimate symbol of cozy, rustic charm! This poster is one of my favorite designs because it brings an instant sense of warmth and personality to any room. Whether you're styling a nursery, a hom...
Cow Poster Highland Cow Wall Art Texas Longhorn Cow Cow Canvas Print Cattle Cow Painting Wall Art Wall Art Cow
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Skin Care Must Haves

 
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This is a total game changer for your skincare routine! As we focus on self-care, we can't forget the neck. This GoPure cream is specifically formulated to help firm and smooth the skin, using powerful ingredients like Hyaluronic Acid and Caffeine. I...
goPure Tighten & Lift Neck & Chest Cream 1.7oz
 
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This is my go to for deep moisture and anti-aging! It's a 3-in-1 powerhouse with Collagen, Retinol, and Hyaluronic Acid, so you're getting hydration, firming, and skin renewal all in one jar. I love how it simplifies my routine without sacrificing re...
Anti-Aging Face Moisturizer with Retinol & Collagen
 
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This is a total treat for your skin! I love that it's formulated with Squalane. It's incredibly nourishing and locks in moisture without feeling heavy or sticky. The "Exotic Pulp" scent is so refreshing and bright, making it the perfect way to finish...
Exotic Pulp Nourishing Body Oil with Squalane - Saltair | Ulta Beauty
 
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​Palmer's Cocoa Butter Formula is a rich, dermatologist-recommended daily body lotion designed to deeply hydrate and smooth the skin. This 'Firms & Tones' formula is enriched with Vitamin E, Collagen, Elastin, and Q10 to help visibly improve skin...
Palmer's Cocoa Butter Skin Firming Lotion
 
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The Medicube Collagen Jelly Cream is a viral Korean skincare favorite for a reason! It features a unique, bouncy jelly texture formulated with freeze-dried hydrolyzed collagen and Niacinamide to deeply hydrate the skin barrier. It’s perfect for achie...
medicube Collagen Jelly Cream Niacinamide
 
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If you're looking for a total game-changer for your skin texture, you have to try the Medicube Zero Pore Pads! They are my go-to for keeping my pores tight and my skin feeling incredibly smooth. I love that they have a dual-textured side so you can g...
medicube Toner Pads Zero Pore Pad 2.0, 70 Pads
 
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If your skin ever feels thirsty or dull, this serum is a total lifesaver! I love how lightweight it is—it sinks in instantly without feeling sticky. The purified hyaluronic acid really does the trick to plump up my skin and keep it feeling hydrated a...
Neutrogena Hydro Boost Hyaluronic Acid Serum

Intentional Home Decor

 
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Is there anything cuter than a Highland cow? This mug is one of my favorites for morning coffee. It perfectly blends that rustic farmhouse feel with a bright sunflower pop. It makes a wonderful gift for any animal lover or sweet addition to a cottage...
Highland Cow Mug with Sunflowers Love You Till the Cows Come Home Cute Cow Mug, Gift for Cow Lover Hot Chocolate Mug
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For my girls who love that 'Coastal Cowgirl' aesthetic! This design is all about that breezy, western-meets-beach vibe. It's trendy, fun and looks so cute sitting on a desk or bedside table. A perfect little treat for yourself or a bestie! But wait! ...
Coastal Cowgirl Mug Wild Soul Salty Heart Design Western Floral Coffee Cup Cowgirl Hat Boho Mug Gift Rustic Country Drinkware
 
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To match the tote, I also have this cozy pillow in my shop! It's the perfect accent piece for a farmhouse or cottagecore living room. The sunflowers bring so much warmth to a space, and the Highland cows add the perfect touch of whimsical charm.
Highland Cow Sunflower Crochet Pillow Sunflower Pattern Textured Yarn Crochet Thread Country Nursery Pillow Yarn Texture Crochet Pillow
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I am absolutely in love with the vintage, cozy feel of this patchwork lumbar pillow! It's the perfect addition to a farmhouse or rustic-themed room, adding that touch of 'Americana' charm without feeling over the top. The detail in the patchwork give...
Rustic American Flag Patchwork Cushion, farmhouse lumbar pillow, Fourth of July decor, cozy cottage accent
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This printable art is such a simple way to refresh your home for the season! I love the blend of rustic sunflowers and the American flag, it creates a 'Rustic Summer' vibe that feels both patriotic and peaceful. Since it's a digital download, it's an...
Patriotic Wildflower Printable Wall Art – Rustic Summer Americana Digital Download
 
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This pillow is the perfect companion to the Patriotic Wildflower art also in this list. I love finding ways to carry a theme through a room, and this matching piece makes it so easy. It has that rustic, Americana charm that feels cozy and intentional...
Patriotic Sunflower Throw Pillow, American Flag Home Decor, Vintage Floral Lumbar Pillow, Boho Chic Accent Pillow, Rustic Farmhouse Cushion
 
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I am obsessed with how this Highland cow design looks on a tote! It’s the perfect way to carry that rustic, 'coastal cowgirl' vibe with you wherever you go. Whether you're heading to the farmer's market or just need a sturdy bag for all those 'mom es...
Cow Print Tote Bag Highland Cow Design Printed Tote Bag Farmhouse Style Bag Reusable Tote Fluffy Cow Highland Cow Gift
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If you love the Highland Cow wall art, you are going to adore this matching pillow! It brings that same rustic, 'coastal cowgirl' charm right onto your sofa or favorite armchair. I love how the soft neutral tones fit into almost any decor style while...
Cow Print Pillow Highland Cow Print Highland Cattle Cow Throw Pillow Scottish Cow Lover Gift Animal print Country Farm Home Decor
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This Rustic American Flag Patchwork Pillow is the perfect way to bring a cozy, farmhouse feel to any living space. The intricate patchwork design adds a layer of vintage-inspired texture and warmth, making it a beautiful statement piece for a sofa, b...
Rustic American Flag Patchwork Cushion, farmhouse lumbar pillow, Fourth of July decor, cozy cottage accent
 
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This Fourth of July Wheat Bouquet Wall Art is a stunning way to add a rustic, patriotic touch to your home. The natural wheat textures paired with the vintage-inspired American flag ribbon create a warm, farmhouse aesthetic that feels both festive an...
Fourth of July Wheat Bouquet Wall Print, American flag bow artwork, Patriotic poster, USA country decor
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I am so excited to share one of my favorite creations from my Etsy shop, RustAndWildflower! If you love that cozy, primitive farmhouse aesthetic, this Rustic Patchwork American Flag is the perfect statement piece. I designed it with layers of texture...
Rustic Patchwork American Flag Wall Art Print, vintage USA decor, farmhouse patriotic printable, Fourth of July poster
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Kitchen & Cafe Essentials

 
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I am absolutely obsessed with this ceramic cookware set! Not only does the white and wood-grain look beautiful on my stovetop, but the performance is incredible—literally nothing sticks to them. As a busy mom, I love that they are non-toxic (PFAS/PFO...
SENSARTE 16-Piece Nonstick Ceramic Cookware Set
 
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I am completely charmed by this cast iron tetsubin! It’s such a versatile piece—I use it as a stovetop teapot, but it’s also amazing as a milk steamer for lattes or even warming up wine. The textured black cast iron paired with the wood handle gives ...
Cast Iron Teapot Stovetop 20oz Tetsubin