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From Bows to Bros: My 3rd Baby Newborn Must-Haves
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items After two girls, I’m finally navigating the world of little boys! This list combines my 8+ years of 'pro-mom' experience with the specific items that have been game-changers for my first son.
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New Territory: First Time Boy Mom Gear
The Naptime Survival Kit
Out The Door In Five
Feeding Time Favorites
Bath & Wellness Must-Haves
Happy Hands & Busy Feet
New Territory: First Time Boy Mom Gear
I’ve been a girl mom for years, but 2025 finally brought me my first son. I quickly realized that while the love is the same, the diapering and clothing needs are a whole different world! Here is my curated list of staples for navigating life with a ...
I’ve tried the big, expensive brands like Pampers, but as a third-time mom, I’ve officially switched to Up & Up for my son. They are 100% my preferred choice! They have a great 'pocketed' waistband that actually catches blowouts (a must for boys!...
Disposable Diapers - up&up™ (Select Size and Count)
Even though I’ve switched to Up & Up for diapers, these are still the 'gold standard' for wipes in our house. They are incredibly soft and have been the best for my son’s sensitive skin. After three babies, I’ve found these are the most reliable ...
Pampers Sensitive Baby Wipes Unscented, 2 Pack, 168 Total Count ...
A very close second to the Pampers wipes! I’ve been using these with my son as well and they work great. They have a slightly different texture that I actually prefer for 'bigger' messes because they have a bit more grip. If you’re a first-time boy m...
Huggies® Natural Care® Sensitive Baby Wipes
Third-time mom tip: Save your money and skip the name brands. This CVS version works just as well to clear up redness and create a solid barrier. Pro-tip: Many insurance plans offer an OTC (Over-The-Counter) benefit where you can get health staples l...
CVS Diaper Rash Ointment
The Naptime Survival Kit
In a house with two big sisters, peace and quiet are hard to come by! This section is my 'secret weapon' for helping my son find his zen in the middle of the chaos. By the third baby, you realize you don't need a million gadgets—just the right ones t...
I never used the Halo SleepSack with my first two daughters, but after using it with my son, I will never go back! I honestly don’t know how I survived the newborn stage without it before. It’s so much more secure than a standard swaddle blanket, and...
HALO Plush Dot Velboa Sleepsack Swaddle Wrap - Cream - S
For my third baby, I wanted something functional and reliable without the crazy price tag of those 'smart' bassinets. The Fisher-Price bassinet has been perfect for my son. It’s the ideal height for bedside sleep, and the gentle vibration/rocking fea...
Fisher-Price Baby Bedside Sleeper Bassinet
Listen to me: DO NOT buy sleepers with snaps! As a third-time mom, I only buy the Cloud Island brand from Target now. They have an inverted zipper, which means you unzip from the bottom up. For my son, this is a game-changer because his chest stays w...
Cloud Island : Sleep n Play
Out The Door In Five
With a new baby boy and two big sisters, my hands are officially full! This section is dedicated to the gear that lets me actually move, multitask, and manage the chaos while keeping my son close. Whether we're running errands, heading to the park, o...
With three kids, I needed a travel system that was versatile but not over-complicated. We went with the Graco Modes Pramette and the SnugRide XL car seat, and it’s been amazing for my son. The best part: The stroller seat converts into a true pram (b...
Graco Modes Pramette Travel System with Snugride LX - Black
As a mom of three, this is the 'mom station' I can’t live without. It fits my Graco Modes Pramette perfectly and is sturdy enough to carry both of my older daughters' water bottles for school while keeping my coffee secure. It is a total family organ...
Momcozy Stroller Organizer - All-in-One Cup Holder & Pet Strollers
I’ve gone through my fair share of diaper bags, but for my third, a backpack was a non-negotiable requirement to stay hands-free. This one is a total game-changer! It has a built-in portable changing station that folds out, which is a lifesaver for b...
Baby Diaper Bag with Changing Station, Waterproof, Backpack , USB Charging - Black
Feeding Time Favorites
By the time you get to baby number three, you’ve tried every bottle on the market, and you know what actually works. This section is all about high-quality, low-stress feeding. I’ve leaned into glass bottles because they last forever, stay sanitized,...
For my third baby, I made the switch to glass bottles and I’ll never go back. These Philips Avent bottles are durable, easy to clean, and I love that I don't have to worry about chemicals leaching into the milk. Since they are glass, they heat up muc...
Philips Avent Glass Baby Bottle with Natural Response Nipple - 4oz/3pk
This isn't just a brush—it's a full travel cleaning kit! It comes in a compact case that doubles as a drying rack, which is essential when you're traveling with three kids. The silicone brushes are much more hygienic than sponges and dry quickly so y...
Momcozy Portable Bottle Brush Set - Baby Bottle Cleaner Kit with Silicone Brush, Drying Rack - 6 in 1 Bottle Cleaning Tool for Home and Travel Green 1 Set
If you’re using the Philips Avent glass bottles, these silicone sleeves are a mandatory 'insurance policy' for your gear! They provide a non-slip grip that makes it so much easier to hold the bottle during those sleepy midnight feedings. Veteran Mom ...
3 Pack Silicone Sleeves for Avent Natural Glass Baby Bottles, Anti Breakage Baby Bottle Holder, Compatible Philips Avent Glass Natural Baby Bottle
Bath & Wellness Must-Haves
Keeping a newborn healthy and clean doesn't have to be expensive or complicated. This section is my 'insurance hack' list! By the third baby, you learn that so many essentials—from gentle lotions and gas drops to nasal aspirators—can actually be cove...
I upgraded to this collapsible tub for my son and I wish I had it for my first two! The built-in digital thermometer takes all the guesswork out of bath time—no more wondering if the water is too hot or cold. Veteran Mom Tip: Because it folds down fl...
MoreFeel Collapsible Baby Bathtub with Thermometer & Towel
I wish I had these for my first two! Most washcloths get rough after a few washes, but these microfiber coral fleece cloths stay incredibly soft. This 24-pack is such a great value because you use them for everything—baths, wiping faces after feeding...
HOMEXCEL Baby Washcloths 24 Pack - Soft Microfiber
This has become a staple in our nighttime routine for our son. The foaming pump is so much easier to use one-handed while I'm wrangling a wiggly baby in the tub. It has a light, lavender scent that isn't overpowering but really helps him settle down ...
Baby Jergens Calming Head-to-Toe Tear-Free Foam Shampoo and Body ...
If you have a gassy baby, these are non-negotiable. They work fast to break up gas bubbles and settle his tummy. Veteran Mom Hack: Don’t pay full price! I get mine through my insurance OTC benefits, but even if you don't have that, CVS is the best pl...
CVS Infants' Gas Relief Drops, 1 OZ
Happy Hands & Busy Feet
This is my favorite stage! 'Happy Hands and Busy Feet' is all about those first developmental milestones where everything is a discovery. I’ve curated this section with toys and accessories that encourage him to reach, kick, and explore his world. Wh...
If your baby struggles with tummy time, this mat is a total game-changer. It features a large, baby-safe mirror and high-contrast images of Ms. Rachel and her friends that naturally encourage babies to lift their heads. Veteran Mom Tip: It’s super li...
Tummy Time Activity Bus
I call this the 'Funny Time' station because it’s the only way to get through tummy time without tears! This set is perfect for newborns because it features high-contrast black and white graphics that actually grab their attention when their vision i...
URMYWO Tummy Time Mirror & Learning Cards
I’m adding these just because mommy loves them! After two girls, I was so excited to finally get some cute 'boy' styles, and these Harry Potter socks are my absolute favorite. They are tiny, cozy, and just bring me so much joy every time I put them o...
Harry Potter Dobby Foot Baby Rattle