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Low-Spoons Existence Kit: Stuff That Lets Me Be a Person
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items Stuff that lets me be a person when I have no spoons.
No hacks. No shame. Just things that help me exist in my body without a performance review. House-dress approved.
Zero judgment, chill staff, good prices. I was anxious my first time and they walked me through everything without making me feel dumb. House-dress tested. Anxiety approved.
a Cannabis Dispensary in Laurel, MD - Green Point Wellness
Ooze pens don’t clog, die, or make me fiddle with settings when my hands are full. The Twist batteries last forever and colors are cute. I buy direct so I know it’s real.
Ooze || Online Vape Shop & Home of the World's Best Vapes
Bombshell skinny jeans. Size 18. No lies. I own 4 pairs. Where I shop when I want to feel hot, not hidden.
Torrid | Trendy Plus Size Fashion, Outfits & Apparel
Where I buy everything from toilet paper to dopamine. Prime means it’s here before I change my mind. I filter by ‘plus size’ and ‘4 stars & up’ so I don’t have to think too hard.
Amazon.com. Spend less. Smile more.
Emotional support in plush form. I’m 30 and own 6. They’re soft, washable, and make my bed look less like a laundry pile. No age limit on comfort objects.
Squishmallows - Jazwares
Where I find weird, specific stuff that feels like me. Custom plus-size house-dresses, crystal goddess statues, gifts for people who ‘don’t want anything.’ I filter by ‘Star Seller’ so I don’t get scammed.
Etsy - Shop for handmade, vintage, custom, and unique gifts ...
Staff here don’t make you feel weird for asking for samples. Where I go when I need to feel pretty on purpose.
Beauty Store & Services in Columbia | Sephora Columbia Mall
Where I hunt discontinued Torrid, plus-size Eileen Fisher, and house-dresses under $30. I filter by ‘NWT’ and ‘2X-3X’ and lowball offers because that’s the culture. Shipping is fast if you bug the seller nicely.
Poshmark: Buy and sell fashion, home decor, beauty & more
Laurel Walmart is my emergency-everything store. Cat litter, snacks, $12 Time & Tru house-dresses, and plus-size leggings that don’t see-through. I do pickup in pajamas and never go inside.
Walmart | Save Money. Live better.
Dangerous in a good way. I go for ‘one thing’ and leave with house-dresses, candles, and snacks I didn’t know I needed. Ava & Viv actually fits. Drive Up saves me from my own chaos.
Target : Expect More. Pay Less.
Drugstore and prestige in one spot, plus rewards that actually add up. I grab my ELF concealer, Olaplex, and migraine-brain candles here. Staff doesn’t judge my house-dress and greasy bun on pickup runs.
Ulta Beauty | Makeup, Skin Care, Fragrance, Hair Care ...
I use Macy’s for plus-size INC and Alfani when I need to look like a functional adult. Their clearance house-dresses hit $14, and the return policy means I can try stuff on at home without leaving my couch.
Macy's - Shop Fashion Clothing & Accessories - Official Site ...
My inner child has a credit card here. I buy Spirit Jerseys in 3X that double as house-dresses, plus-size villain tees, and mugs for my migraine tea. Sales are solid if you wait 2 weeks after a movie drops.
Disney Store: Official Disney Merchandise
It’s the mall you hit when you need everything done in one trip. Torrid and Lane Bryant actually carry my size, plus Dave & Buster’s for stress relief and the casino if I’m feeling chaotic. I can spend 4 hours here in a house-dress and nobody not...
Arundel Mills
Not the cheapest, but it’s the one I can hit at 10pm in a house-dress when my migraine meds run out. App tells me when scripts are ready, drive-thru pharmacy means no small talk, and the ExtraCare coupons actually stack on heating pads and Epsom salt...
CVS - Online Drugstore, Pharmacy, Prescriptions & Health Information
CVS’s twin, but the photo counter actually works and the clearance aisle hits different. I use it for Eucerin, migraine ice packs, and last-minute 4x6 prints of my cat. App refills are painless and I can grab meds in a house-dress without leaving the...
Walgreens: Pharmacy, Health & Wellness, Photo & More for You
Sephora is one of my comfort stores when I feel like treating myself 😌✨ I love that they always have trending products and so many options to choose from. Being able to test things in-store is a big plus, and I’ve found some of my go-to staples here...
Makeup, Skincare, Fragrance, Hair & Beauty Products | Sephora
Michaels is one of those stores I go into “just to look” and end up leaving with a whole project 😭✨ they have SO many options from art supplies to seasonal decor, and it always sparks creativity. I love catching their sales and coupons too. It can b...
Michaels: Arts & Crafts, Frames, Seasonal Décor | DIY & Inspiration
Chewy has honestly been one of the easiest pet sites to rely on. The prices are usually better than in-store, and the auto-ship option is a lifesaver so I never run out of food or treats. Shipping is super fast, and everything always arrives well pac...
Chewy
PetSmart is one of my go-to spots when I need pet supplies fast. They’ve got a solid selection of food, toys, and essentials, and it’s nice being able to just run in and grab what I need the same day.
The prices can be a little higher than online so...
Pet Supplies, Accessories, and Pet Food - Pet Stores | PetSmart
Petco is a solid go-to for pet essentials. Good selection, easy to shop, and I can usually find what I need quickly. Prices can vary, but it’s convenient and reliable.
Petco: Pet Supplies, Pet Food, & Pet Products
Rainbow Shops is a great spot for affordable, trendy pieces when you want something cute without spending a lot 💖
They always have a wide variety of styles, and it’s easy to find something fun, comfy, or a little bold depending on your mood. The qu...
Rainbow Shops | Affordable Plus Size & Women's Fashion
e.l.f. is one of my go-to affordable brands 💗
good quality, trendy products, and you don’t have to spend a lot to find things that actually work ✨
a lot of their stuff has gone viral for a reason… it actually performs 👀
e.l.f. Cosmetics: Affordable Makeup & Skincare - Cruelty Free | e.l.f. ...
Fenty Beauty is one of my go-to high-end brands 💗
I’m guarded with my face and my money. This brand earned percentage based access.
Great quality, super inclusive shade range, and products that actually perform — not just pretty packaging. The foun...
Fenty Beauty by Rihanna | Beauty for All
Sephora is one of my go-to spots for high-end beauty 💗
I’m guarded with my money and my sensory bandwidth. Sephora gets percentage based access because it earns it.
Great selection, trending products, and everything feels worth it ✨💸 — but here’s t...
Makeup, Skincare, Fragrance, Hair & Beauty Products | Sephora
Shein is great for affordable, trendy pieces 👗
I’m guarded with fast fashion because sizing roulette and decision fatigue are real. Shein gets percentage based access — and it stays in its lane.
Tons of options and easy to switch up your style witho...
Women's Clothing, Women Fashion Sale | SHEIN USA
Wayfair is great for home finds and cozy upgrades 🏡
I’m guarded with big home purchases because decision fatigue + delivery chaos eats spoons fast. Wayfair gets percentage based access — it earns it with filters and free returns.
Tons of options and...
Wayfair
Anthropologie is perfect for unique, cozy pieces 🌿
I’m guarded with pretty, pricey stores because “aesthetic” shouldn’t require debt or sensory overload. Anthro gets percentage based access — and it stays in its lane.
A little pricey, but everything...
Anthropologie - Women's Clothing, Accessories & Home
West Elm is perfect for modern, cozy home pieces 🏡
I’m guarded with aesthetic furniture because pricey + pretty doesn’t automatically equal functional. West Elm gets percentage based access — and only for pieces that earn it.
A little pricey, but gr...
West Elm: Modern Furniture, Home Decor, Lighting & More
CVS is super convenient for quick essentials 🛒
I’m guarded with errands because fluorescent lights + long lines = spoon bankruptcy. CVS gets percentage based access because it’s predictable and transactional.
Great for last-minute runs, snacks, and ...
CVS - Online Drugstore, Pharmacy, Prescriptions & Health Information
Walgreens is perfect for quick stops and everyday essentials 🛒
I’m guarded with convenience stores because “quick trip” can turn into sensory overload and receipt regret. Walgreens gets percentage based access because it’s predictable and close.
Eas...
Walgreens: Pharmacy, Health & Wellness, Photo & More for You
Five Below is my migraine-day dopamine run. Everything’s $5 or less so I don’t spiral if it’s a bust. I grab squishmallows, fuzzy socks, heating pads, room lights that don’t sear my retinas, and random snacks for low-energy days. Tech wall is janky b...
Five Below | Trendy, Fun & Affordable Finds – Shop Great Deals ...
PowerSoft biker shorts. I live in these. House dress 2.0. Sales every week so I never pay full price.
Old Navy | Affordable Clothing for Women, Men, Kids & Baby
H&M+ actually carries my size in-store, which is rare enough that I forgive the fitting room lighting. I hit it for basic layering tanks, wide-leg trousers, and jersey house-dresses that survive multiple migraine days. Kids’ section is soft cotto...
H&M | Online Fashion, Homeware & Kids Clothes | H&M US
F21 is a migraine gamble, but the cheap-trend payoff hits sometimes. Plus-size goes to 3X online and I stock up on jersey house-dresses, soft cardigans, and going-out tops I’ll wear once. Sizing is pure chaos and seams quit after three washes, but fo...
Forever 21 | Shop The Latest Trends & Must-Have Styles
Aerie is one of my favorite spots for comfy, feel-good basics 🖤
super soft, body-positive vibes, and actually made to relax in ✨💸
Aerie Bras, Undies, Leggings and More for Every Woman
UO is where I go when my closet and my living room both feel boring. Their BDG plus-size jeans actually fit my thighs, and the oversized graphic tees become instant house-dresses. Home section is a migraine gamble: cute but sometimes the patterns scr...
Urban Outfitters: Men's & Women's Clothing, Homeware & Decor
ASOS Curve and Plus are why I still have browser tabs open. Size 18-26 actually exists and isn’t just a tent with a floral print. I filter by ‘Tall’ for dresses that cover my butt and ‘Petite’ for sleeves that don’t eat my hands. Shipping is slow but...
ASOS | Online shopping for the Latest Clothes & Fashion
The no-questions returns desk is elite, which matters when a migraine means I ordered three sizes and forgot. Nordstrom Rack gets me the same brands for less, but the main store is where I splurge on one good coat, wide-calf boots that actually zip, ...
Nordstrom Online & in Store: Shoes, Jewelry, Clothing, Makeup ...
Kohl’s Cash is my Roman Empire. I plan whole migraine-friendly outfits around it: Sonoma plus-size house-dresses, Tek Gear leggings, and those The Big One towels that survive endless washes. Sephora inside means I can grab a lip balm during a flare w...
Kohl's | Shop Clothing, Shoes, Home, Kitchen, Bedding, Toys & More
Dreamy Drape and Airflex denim are why I keep coming back. Stretchy enough for bloating and migraine days when real pants are a crime. Plus sizes go up to 24 in-store and the X-Long inseams actually exist. Soft tees and oversized flannels double as h...
American Eagle: Men's & Women's Jeans, Clothes & Accessories
The rebrand actually stuck. Their cotton bralettes and seamless underwear are migraine-day MVPs: no underwire digging in when I’m already sensitive. PINK has plus sizes that don’t treat 2X like an afterthought, and the robes are soft enough to count ...
Victoria's Secret - Official Site
RIP to the blue coupons, but the online version still comes through for weighted blankets, blackout curtains, and storage cubes that make my chaos look intentional. I live for the ‘Beyond’ section: random migraine gadgets, heating pads, and bedding i...
Bed Bath & Beyond | The Best Deals Online: Furniture ...
The 2000s rebrand glow-up is real. Their Curve Love jeans actually fit my hips without gaping, and the soft tees don’t shrink to doll size after one wash. Dresses have pockets and stretch, which is migraine-day gold. It’s pricier, but sale + student ...
Abercrombie & Fitch | Effortless Classics, Quality Clothing
Open-box is where the real deals hide. I check it online first for monitors, keyboards, and whatever gaming handheld is on sale. In-store, I’m there for SD cards, HDMI cables, and to physically touch the laptops before my migraine decides if the scre...
Best Buy | Official Online Store | Shop Now & Save
Where I find the $6 candle that makes my house smell like I have my life together. No cart minimum for serotonin.
Home Decor Store and More | HomeGoods
Organized chaos, but the good kind. I go for plus-size house-dresses that don’t look like tents, discounted Torrid jeans, and candles that smell like Target’s but cost half. The home aisle is a migraine trap with all the patterns, but I’ve scored UGG...
Marshalls Official Site | Shop Shoes, Clothing, Home Decor & More
Where I find the $6 candle that makes my house smell like I have my life together. No cart minimum for serotonin.
TJ Maxx Official Site | Shop Clothing, Home Decor, Handbags & More
An endurance event disguised as furniture shopping. I fuel up with meatballs, get lost in the marketplace, and leave with 6 candles, a houseplant I’ll probably kill, and zero of the shelves I came for. The BESTA units actually hold all my cozy games ...
IKEA: Shop Affordable Home Furnishings & Home Goods
Office Depot’s red sibling, but the rewards program hits better and the sticky notes are cheaper. I live off their Tru Red pens and legal pads for migraine brain-dump lists. Print center turns around flyers fast when I’m too foggy to fix my printer. ...
Staples® Official Online Store
My emergency print shop when my home printer dies mid-meltdown. 18¢ copies and same-day posters actually happen if you upload before noon. I’ve emailed PDF migraine journals at 9am and picked them up in a house-dress by lunch. Also the only place tha...
Office Depot OfficeMax | Official Online Store
House of Sport is overkill but I’m not mad at it. I go for Brooks shoes in wide widths, plus-size activewear that doesn’t ride up, and heating pads when my back taps out. Curbside pickup works when migraines say ‘absolutely not’ to indoor tracks. Hou...
DICK'S Sporting Goods - Official Site - Every Season Starts at DICK'S
Where I go when I need to trade in old games for store credit and pretend it offsets the Switch 2 bundle I just bought. Staff actually knows the difference between cozy games and soul-crushing ones. I’ve pre-ordered in a house-dress at midnight launc...
GameStop: Consoles, Collectibles, Video Games, and More – Buy ...
The $65 membership pays for itself in paper towels and my migraine meds alone. I show up in a house-dress, grab a rotisserie chicken, spend $200 on ‘bulk deals’, and eat the samples like it’s my job. Gas is cheaper too. Worth the trip even when my br...
Welcome to Costco Wholesale
Everything’s $1.25 now but the chaos math still works. I hit it for cleaning supplies, storage bins, and snacks I don’t have to feel guilty about. Best place to test if a migraine gadget is worth buying the real version. Absolutely house-dress approv...
Dollar Tree
Get measured. Cry. Buy 3. Your back will thank you. Bras that actually hold everything up without digging.
Lane Bryant: Plus Size Clothing for Women
Their jeans go to 24W and the crotch doesn’t betray me by noon. Expensive, but I stalk sales and only buy the Perfect Vintage. Worth the splurge for 1 good pair.
Madewell: Women's + Men's Clothing | Jeans, Tees, Sweaters + More
International snacks + weird chairs + rugs. I go when I need a $4 chocolate bar from Belgium and to sit in a papasan to remember joy exists.
World Market: Furniture, Home Decor, Rugs, Outdoor & More
Size 1X-3X that’s actually designed for bodies, not scaled up. Elation 7/8 tights don’t roll when I sit. I wear them to exist, not to work out. Worth it on sale.
Shop Athleta for Women's Yoga Clothing, Technical Athletic ...
Where I commit my box-dye sins in peace. Employees actually know color theory and won’t shame you for covering grays at home. Gloves + developer + vibes.
Sally Beauty
The only thrift near me with a real plus section. Tuesdays = new color tag drops. Found a Le Creuset mug for $3. Go with iced coffee and low expectations.
2nd Ave: Second Hand Used Clothing Thrift & Vintage Store
Bigger than B&N, emptier than B&N. Cafe seating where no one rushes you. I buy romance novels and tell myself it’s ‘market research.’ Joe Muggs > Starbucks.
BAM! Books, Toys & More | Books-A-Million Online Book Store
$25 socks felt criminal until my feet stopped being cold for 4 years straight. One pair outlived 3 relationships. Girl math says they’re free now.
Merino Wool Socks & Apparel in the U.S. | Smartwool®