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Everything in my “just in case” bag (a sentimental girl’s daily carry)

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People always ask why my bag is so heavy. The answer is I’m a “just in case” girl through and through…journals (yes, plural), a camera or two, a book I might not even read, and every little ritual item that makes a coffee shop feel like home. I’ve be...
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The Bag

The vessel matters. I’ve tried the trendy ones and the practical ones, and these are the two I actually reach for. Both leather, both age beautifully, both forgive me for carrying way more than I should.
 
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The one I keep coming back to. Fits two journals, a book, a camera, and still closes. Soft leather, ages beautifully, has lived through a lot with me.
Gather Collection - Songmont
 
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My smaller carry for solo dates when I want to pack lighter. Still fits a journal and pen because, well, non-negotiables.
Luna Bag | Full-Grain Leather Crescent Shoulder Bag - Songmont
 
Oakley Olive Suede Tote | Dolce Vita
 
Dilba Bag in Sand

The Writing Essentials

The non-negotiables. If I leave the house without a pen and something to write in, I genuinely feel off all day. I keep one “real” journal for the big stuff and one scrappy notebook for the half-thoughts — both earn their weight.
 
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The sentimental journal. Where the real writing happens.
Wilde House Paper Open Journal
 
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My “dump journal.” For grocery lists, half-formed thoughts, things I’ll transfer later (or won’t).
Muji High Quality Paper Open-Flat Notebook A6 Black x5
 
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Lives in every bag I own. Cheap, smooth, perfect.
Muji Gel Ink Ballpoint Pen 10-Pack 0.38mm
 
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For when the moment calls for it. Yes, I know which moments call for it.
Kaweco Classic Sport Bordeaux Fountain Pen M
 
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Keeps the pens from rolling around and stabbing me when I dig for keys.
Lightweight Cute Slim Cotton Canvas Pencil Case

Reading + Capturing

A bag without a book feels incomplete to me, even on days I don’t crack it open. The camera is the same…most days I won’t use it, but the days I do are the ones I’m grateful for years later.
 
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A Book I’m Currently Reading. Currently rotating through Letters to a Young Poet. Always at least one in the bag.
Letters to a Young Poet (Penguin Classics)
 
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Tiny, instant, the photos go straight into my journal.
Polaroid Go Gen 2 Mini Instant Camera + Film
 
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Backup pack always, because running out mid-day is a tragedy.
Fujifilm Instax Mini Film Twin Pack 40EXP
 
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Bringing them back. Better for journaling sessions, no charging anxiety.
Apple EarPods with USB-C Plug, Wired Earbuds

The Little Extras

The ritual stuff. The pieces that turn a coffee shop into a writing desk and a long errand into a solo date. None of these are “necessary” but they’re the ones I’d miss most if my bag got stolen.
 
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Where I stash ticket stubs, pressed flowers, notes from friends. Empties into my journal at the end of the week.
PAZIMIIK Large Cotton Makeup Bag Red Stripe
 
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The one that’s been in every bag I’ve owned since I was 16.
Burt's Bees 100% Natural Lip Balm
 
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For long days when I need to feel human again. Heritage Store is my go-to.
HERITAGE STORE Rosewater Face Mist 4oz
 
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My signature. Dab on wrists before walking into a coffee shop, instant ritual.
Replica By The Fireplace EDT Spray 3.4 oz
 
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For when the wind wins.
2PCS Tortoise & Leopard Hair Claw Clips
 
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I stopped carrying a full wallet years ago. Cards, ID, one folded twenty.
Vaultskin MOORGATE Slim RFID Leather Card Holder
 
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Coffee shops dry my hands out and I’m not above being dramatic about it.
Amande Hand Cream
 
La Crème Main Hand Cream
 
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Genuinely the only one I haven’t lost or hated.
Bink Mini 17 oz Glass Water Bottle