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Tips On How To Feel Confident
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items I know being confident takes time and isn't easy. So here a few tips that I've personally used and have helped me 😊🤍
Leaving your "insecure girl era" is all about self-awareness, confidence, and setting higher standards for yourself. Here are seven solid tips to help you level up
How to stop being in your insecure girl era
You don’t need constant reassurance from others to feel worthy. The only validation that truly matters is your own.
Stop Seeking External Validation
Your inner dialogue shapes your confidence. Replace “I’m not good enough” with “I am constantly improving.” Watch how your mindset shifts.
Speak to Yourself with Respect
People-pleasing weakens your self-worth. Learn to say no, stand your ground, and only allow people into your space who uplift and respect you.
Set & Enforce Boundaries
Confidence often comes from feeling good in your skin. Dress in a way that makes you feel powerful, maintain good posture, and carry yourself with purpose.
Work on Your Image & Presence
Insecurity fades when you know you can stand on your own. Whether it’s financial independence, a new hobby, or a business move—own your success.
Master a Skill & Become Independent
Energy is contagious. Spend time with people who exude self-assurance and who push you to be your best version.
Surround Yourself with Confident People
Ask yourself: “What would the most confident version of me do?” Then, do that. Fake it till you make it, and eventually, you won’t have to fake it anymore. (This is something I've personally used, and let me tell you it really does work! One day I wa...
Act like the woman you want to become 🤍
• I am enough, just as I am.
• I deserve love, respect, and kindness—starting with myself.
• My value is not determined by others’ opinions of me.
• I am growing, evolving, and becoming the best version of myself.
• I release self-doubt and welcome confidence.
• I am worthy of success, happiness, and peace.
• I choose to love myself unconditionally.
• I am in control of my own happiness.
• My flaws make me unique, and I embrace them fully.
• I attract positivity, love, and abundance into my life.
Say these daily, especially when doubt creeps in. Which one resonates with you the most?
• I deserve love, respect, and kindness—starting with myself.
• My value is not determined by others’ opinions of me.
• I am growing, evolving, and becoming the best version of myself.
• I release self-doubt and welcome confidence.
• I am worthy of success, happiness, and peace.
• I choose to love myself unconditionally.
• I am in control of my own happiness.
• My flaws make me unique, and I embrace them fully.
• I attract positivity, love, and abundance into my life.
Say these daily, especially when doubt creeps in. Which one resonates with you the most?
Self-Love Mantras to Help You Shake Self-Doubt | Shine
Cut the self-hate. Say: “I’m not there yet, but I’m working on it.”
Speaking to yourself like you would to a best friend
Shoulders back, chin up. You’ll automatically feel and look more powerful.
Improve Your Posture
Whether it's a workout, a 5-min study session, or waking up earlier — every promise kept is proof you can trust YOU.
Keep Promises to Yourself
Shower, skincare, clean clothes. Even if you’re home all day. You respect what you take care of.
Groom Yourself — Every Damn Day
Waiting until you feel ready is a trap. Confident people start before they’re fully prepared.
Reframe “I’m Not Ready” → “I’ll Learn While Doing”
The shit you’ve been through? The mistakes? The awkward phases? That’s your armor now, not your shame.
Own Your Story
Introduce yourself clearly. Correct people when they mispronounce it. Your name is your brand. Own it.
Use Your Name with Power
Speak your mind respectfully. Confident people aren’t afraid to disagree.
Your Opinion Is Valid — Even If It’s Not Popular