Benable — create shareable lists of things you recommend!
E.g., products you love, local businesses, travel recs - you can add anything to a Benable list!

I Finally Found Nursing Pillows That Don't Slide Off My Lap

Purple Star emoji 30 items
Breastfeeding with a pillow that keeps slipping down your waist while you're trying to hold a squirmy newborn at 3am is a special kind of frustrating. I went through four different nursing pillows before landing on a setup that actually stays put, su...
Sections
6
 
 
 
 
 
 

Nursing Pillows That Actually Stay on Your Body

Every pillow I tried before these slowly migrated south until it was basically sitting on my thighs doing nothing. These are the ones that finally locked in around my waist and let me relax my arms.

 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Grab this if you're tired of your pillow sliding into your lap mid-feed. The clip in the back locks it around your waist and it stays flat, not rounded, so baby doesn't roll toward you. I could actually eat a sandwich with one hand while nursing. Lif...
My Brest Friend Original Nursing Pillow Slipcover
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Keep this one around for the parent who wants something simple and lightweight. It doesn't clip on, but the C-shape tucks around your torso snugly enough if you're petite to average. I used it more for bottle feeding and propping baby up after meals....
Boppy Original Nursing Pillow and Positioner
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Try this if you've got a longer torso and other pillows feel too short. The adjustable strap actually cinches tight enough to hold firm. My sister-in-law borrowed mine and immediately ordered her own. Works great in a recliner where everything else t...
Momcozy, Nursing Pillow, 27" x 24" x 8", Cotton
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Use this when you want to change the height without stacking blankets underneath. The adjustable layers let you add or remove foam so baby is at the right level for your chest. Saved my neck completely. Before this I was hunching over like a question...
Nursing Pillows for Baby Feeding Support
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Snag this for those first few weeks when your body is still figuring out positioning. The waist strap is firm without digging in, and it has a little pocket for your phone or nipple cream. Nobody tells you how much you need your phone within reach at...
Frida Mom Adjustable Nursing Pillow for Breastfeeding

Arm and Back Support for Long Feeding Sessions

Twenty minutes of holding a baby with zero arm support turns your shoulders into concrete. I started adding these to my nursing station and the difference was immediate.

 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Toss this behind your lower back while you nurse in bed. It wedges between you and the headboard and keeps you from slumping. I was waking up with back pain every morning until I started using this as lumbar support during nighttime feeds. Simple fix...
Boppy Side Sleeper Pregnancy Pillow with Removable
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Wrap yourself in this for those marathon cluster feeding nights. Both arms get propped up, your back is supported, and you can basically fall asleep sitting up without worrying about tipping over. For anyone doing contact naps while nursing, this is ...
PharMeDoc Pregnancy Pillow U-Shape Body
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Pair this with any nursing chair that has a gap between your lower back and the seat. It fills that dead zone perfectly. My glider looked comfortable but left my spine unsupported for months before I stuck this behind me. Three dollars' worth of comf...
DMI Lumbar Support Pillow for Chair to Assist with Back
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Get this for nursing on the couch when you don't have a rocker nearby. The side arms prop up your elbows so you're not holding the full weight of baby plus pillow with just your core muscles. My arms stopped going numb during feeds. Sounds dramatic b...
Customer reviews for Milliard Reading Pillow ...
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Sit on this during feeds if you had a rough delivery and sitting on hard surfaces feels awful. It takes pressure off exactly where you need it. Nobody warns you that nursing means sitting for hours a day on surfaces your postpartum body hates. This m...
ComfiLife Gel Enhanced Seat Cushion – Office Chair

Nursing Pillow Covers and Protectors

Spit-up, leaked milk, drool. My first nursing pillow smelled like sour cheese within a week because I didn't think about backup covers. Learn from my mistakes.

 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Grab at least two of these before baby arrives. You will need to swap covers at midnight and not have time to do laundry. The jersey cotton ones feel softer against baby's face than the printed cotton. I rotated three covers and still barely kept up ...
Boppy momkind™ Nursing Pillow, Taupe Gingham
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Get the spare cover now, not after your original one is crusty. It zips on and off in seconds which matters when you're one-handing everything. The dark colored ones hide stains way better. Learned that lesson after my cream-colored cover looked perm...
My Brest Friend Nursing Pillow - Deluxe
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Try these if you want something that feels more like a soft t-shirt than stiff cotton. They stretch over the Boppy without bunching. My baby would fuss against scratchy fabrics and these were smooth enough that she'd settle right in. Comes in a two-p...
IHXIMCI Nursing Pillow Covers in Feeding | Yellow
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Swap to this when you want a cover that's actually cute enough to leave out in your living room. The prints are fun without being obnoxious. It's buttery soft bamboo material. For anyone who's hosting visitors and doesn't want their nursing station l...
Nursing Pillow Covers in Feeding
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Tuck this under your nursing pillow cover as a barrier. Milk leaks through fabric faster than you'd think and soaks into the foam. I ruined my first pillow's inner cushion in under a month. This thin pad saved the replacement. Cut it to size if neede...
American Baby Company Waterproof Fitted Pack and Play

Nighttime Nursing Station Setup

Feeding in the dark while half-asleep was a disaster until I organized a little station next to my bed. Knocked over water, couldn't find burp cloths, sat on the TV remote. These fixed all of that.

 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Keep this on your nightstand during feeds. The warm orange glow is dim enough that nobody fully wakes up but bright enough to see the latch. I was using my phone flashlight before this and blinding both of us every time. My husband stopped complainin...
Customer reviews for Hatch Rest+ Baby Sound Machine
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Use this next to your bed so baby goes right back down after a feed without you standing up. The soft glow on the side helps you see what you're doing. For anyone doing that half-asleep feed and transfer move, having baby within arm's reach cuts the ...
Munchkin® Brica® Night Light™ Baby In‑Sight® Pivot Car
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Tuck this between your mattress and bed frame. It holds your water bottle, nipple cream, burp cloth, and phone all within reach. Before I had this I was setting things on the bed and sitting on my lanolin tube at 4am. Not a fun surprise. Everything h...
USUERY Bedside Caddy Organizer For Bunk Bed Single
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Bring this to bed every night because breastfeeding makes you thirstier than you've ever been in your life. The autoseal lid means you can knock it over half-asleep and nothing spills on your pillow setup. I went through three open-top cups and a soa...
Contigo Fit Water Bottle with AUTOSEAL Lid, 32oz., Bolt
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Drape one over your nursing pillow before every feed. These absorb spit-up fast and wash soft over and over. I tried regular towels and they were too bulky. For the parent who's doing laundry every other day already, these hold up through dozens of c...
Comfy Cubs, Muslin Burp Cloths, 6 Layers, 20"x10", Pack of 6

Nursing Support for Twins and Bigger Babies

When my friend had twins she called me crying because her regular pillow couldn't hold two babies at once. And once my singleton hit 12 pounds, my original setup started feeling cramped too.

 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Get this immediately if you're expecting twins. It wraps all the way around with enough surface for two babies side by side. My friend went from needing her partner present at every feed to handling tandem nursing solo. The back support is firm enoug...
My Brest Friend Supportive Nursing Pillow For Twins 0-12
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Try this as a feeding and lounging hybrid for twin parents. Both babies can lay on it during feeds and then you can use it as a floor lounger afterward. It's massive, fair warning, but twin parents don't have time to swap between five different pillo...
Twin Feeding Pillow Cover
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Switch to this once your baby outgrows the standard pillow around 4 to 5 months. It's wider and gives bigger babies more room to stretch out while feeding. My son started kicking off the regular Boppy and this gave him enough space to sprawl. Wish I'...
Customer reviews for Boppy Total Body Pillow
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Use this when you need extra height for a bigger baby without stacking random couch cushions. The adjustable incline brings baby up to you instead of you bending down to baby. Saved my neck once my daughter hit the chunky phase around three months. Y...
Leachco Natural Boost Basic Denim │ Adjustable Nursing
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Grab this for the parent with a longer torso who finds most pillows too narrow. It's wider than average and the organic cotton cover feels nice against sweaty skin during summer feeds. If you run warm or live somewhere hot, the breathability matters ...
Parent's Choice Nursing Pillow, Green Leaf Design

Portable Nursing Pillow Options for Feeding On the Go

Nursing at home was one thing. Nursing in a restaurant booth, at the pediatrician's office, or in the backseat of my car was a whole different challenge. I needed something that actually traveled.

 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Toss this in your diaper bag for feeding anywhere. It doubles as a light arm support and a cover so you're not juggling two separate things in public. I used it at my in-laws' house when I forgot my full pillow and it worked well enough that I stoppe...
Infantino Fold & Go 2-in-1 Lightweight Carrier
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Bring this when you want arm support without the bulk of a full pillow. It straps to your forearm and props baby up just enough. Fits in a diaper bag easily. I kept one in the car for appointments and errands. For the parent who nurses in parking lot...
The Boppy Company, Travel Nursing Pillow, Gray, Polyester
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Snag this compact pillow for travel and public feeding. It's firm enough to actually support baby's weight but small enough to shove in a tote bag. Used it on a flight and it was the only reason that trip didn't end in tears. Way better than trying t...
Itzy Ritzy Milk Boss Infant Feeding Pillow
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Try this if you want a travel pillow that doesn't look like baby gear. It's sleek, rolls up small, and the cover is easy to wipe clean. I brought it to coffee shops without feeling like I was setting up a whole nursery at the table. For the parent wh...
Parent's Choice Nursing Pillow, Green Leaf Design
 
Ella Brielle profile picture
Use this at home or on the go because it's light enough to carry but supportive enough for a full feed. The angled shape keeps baby tilted slightly which helped with my daughter's reflux. Pediatrician actually recommended the angle. Packs flat in a l...
ErgoBaby Natural Curve Nursing Pillow