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My favorite book recs

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Books that have helped me level up, improve my self love,worth and awareness.
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BOLD, CONFIDENT AND UNAPOLOGETIC READS

Books that will help you become the it girl that you really are.
 
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This book really gives reasons why good girls with no boundaries and sense of self get themselves in messy relationships
Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide ...
 
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A confidence boost in book form that'll make you believe you really can have it all
You Are a Badass: Stop Doubting Your Greatness
 
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A powerful look at how to reclaim your voice, boundaries and sensual self in romantic relationships especially if ever felt silenced or overlooked.
The Bitch in the Bedroom: A Guide to Men
 
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This book gives you the no excuses mindset and tools to stop playing small and start owning your life. My 2024 fave written by co-founder of quest-nutrition.
Radical Confidence Book | 2024

Feminine energy & Attraction

 
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Love it or hate it,this one's iconic it's all about keeping your standards high and never chasing anyone.
The Rules II: Fein & Schneider
 
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A soulful,self healing journey that helps you break toxic cycles and attract love rooted in self-worth.
I'm Regena Thomashauer
 
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Not just about sexuality this is a wild, liberating manifesto on feminine energy and power.
Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer
 
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Smart , strategic and emotionally aware_ This is dating advice from a guy "who actually gets women".
Matthew Hussey: Dating & Relationship Tips For Women
 
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Smart , strategic and emotionally aware_ This is dating advice from a guy "who actually gets women".
Matthew Hussey: Dating & Relationship Tips For Women

Relation & dating dynamics

These books are exactly what the title say.
 
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Controversial, this one breaks down how many men think when it comes to love set and commitment.
Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man
 
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A classic for a reason_ it's all about understanding communication styles and emotional needs in relationships.
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus John Gray, Ph.D.
 
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Blunt but freeing. If he's not calling or chasing, this book tells you why and why you deserve better.
He's Just Not That Into You: No-Excuses Truth

Growth&Self-worth

Simple, powerful reads to help you reconnect with yourself,build better habits and grow with intention. 🌟Clear your mind ☘️ Strengthen your habits 🔥Own your worth
 
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This book isn't about overnight transformation, it's about tiny,practical changes that compound into a big life shift. Clear makes habit-building feel achievable, even if you've struggled with consistency before.
Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
 
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If you ever feel like you're your own worst enemy. This one lut's deep. Wiest beautifully explains self- sabotage and how to transform it into self-mastery. It's both poetic and practical. A true emotional reset.
The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage
 
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This one is for when you're tired of pretending to have it all together. Brown gives you permission to embrace vulnerability and live more authentically. It's self worth redefined in the most healing way.
The Gifts of Imperfection
 
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Goggins' life is wild,abuse, obesity,navy SEAL training,ultra marathons but his mental toughness strategies are what stick with you. If you need a hardcore,no excuses kind of motivation,this one delivers.
Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind - David