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things that help me feel better 🤍

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ttle things that help me slow down, reset, and feel like myself again 🤍
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Things that help me stay grounded 🤍

Everyday tools that make it easier to take care of your mind — from mindfulness to motivation.
 
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this helps me slow my mind down when it won’t stop… I use it when I just need a reset
Headspace
 
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this helps me slow my breathing down when I feel anxious… it’s small but actually makes a difference 😌
Breathing Necklace for Anxiety
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I use these when I need a little reminder that I’m actually doing better than I think… they hit when you need it
Badass Era affirmation cards
 
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this helps when I feel anxious and need something to focus on instead of my thoughts
Crunchy Squishy Stress Ball
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I drink this when I need to relax and just slow everything down
Yogi Tea-Blueberry Sage Stress Relief
 
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I use this when I feel overwhelmed… it’s small but actually helps me calm down
Essential oil roller

Comfort for those anxious days ☁️

When your thoughts feel loud or your body needs grounding, these little comforts can help you find calm.
 
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Sensory calm for restless moments.
Infinity Cube Fidget for Adults - Weighted, Ultra Quiet, Black, White, Grey, Fidget, ADHD, Autism, Adult Desk Toy, Sensory Tool
 
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Gentle light boost for low energy days.
Carex SunLite Light Therapy Lamp
 
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this helps me feel calmer when I’m really overwhelmed… it’s like instant comfort
Bare home-Cotton Weighted Blanket
 
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These are one of those things I throw on when I just want to feel safe & comfortable
Wild fable comfy sweats
 
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Wear this on those days I just wanna comfy
Oversized Sweatshirt - Wild Fable
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this is my comfort blanket 🤍 I always grab it when I’m not feeling okay
Cozy Knit Throw Blanket

Books that actually helped me 📚

Words that validate, comfort, and inspire growth.
 
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Breaking self sabotage cycles ⛓️‍💥
The Mountain is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery
 
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Science of self compassion
Good Morning, I Love You: Mindfulness & Self-Compassion
 
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Human, messy, and healing advice
Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love & Life
 
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Everyday tools for the ups & downs
Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? - by Julie Smith (Paperback)

Mindful Tech & Digital Boundaries 💻

Digital tools that help you reconnect with yourself instead of your screen.
 
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Gentle productivity rhythm (work + rest)
Pomodoro Timer
 
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Grow virtual trees while staying off your phone 🌳
Forest - Stay focused, be present
 
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Music as therapy 🎶
Calm Music for Studying
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Clutter-free reflection space
Best Journaling Templates from Notion | Notion Marketplace
 
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These help when I’ve been on my phone to long… especially at night
Blue light glasses 👓
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this helped me stop reaching for my phone first thing in the morning
color changing alarm clock

Journaling & getting my thoughts out ✍️

Writing, prompts, and tools for healing — because your thoughts deserve a safe place to land.
 
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Build gratitude and reflection into your mornings ☀️
The Five Minute Journal® - Simplest, most effective way to be happier.
 
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Deep self-reflection prompts
Shadow Work Journal | 200+ Anxiety and Inner Child Healing Prompts and Exercises | Spiritual Digital Workbook for iPad, GoodNotes
 
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Small daily reminders of what’s good 😊
Leather Bound Gratitude Journal: Daily Prompts for Mindfulness & Happiness
 
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Mirror motivation 🗒️
Mental Health Reminder Sticky Notes | notepads | colourful sticky notes | mental health reminders | 3x3
 
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Make journaling something you look forward too 🤩
Aesthetic Gel Pen Set
 
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Creative ways to explore feelings.
Scribble Deck | Prompt cards for mental health | Drawing and journaling guide | Illustrated art therapy cards | Art journal
 
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Keep your self care tools tidy 📂
Notebook organizer
 
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See your emotional patterns clearly
Daylio - Journal, Diary and Mood Tracker

Winding down at night 🌙

Tools and habits to help your mind slow down before sleep.
 
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Cozy herbal blend for better rest 💤
Celestial Seasonings Sleepytime Extra Wellness Tea Bags - Caffeine Free - 20ct
 
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Blocks light + calms the body 😌
Weighted Eye Mask, Heated & Soothing Warm Compress for Stress Relief
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Device has its own bed, not yours! 😂
Clip-on beside organizer
 
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this helps me actually wind down instead of just laying there 💤
Magnesium Sleep Spray
 
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I drink this at night when I need help relaxing before bed
Yogi-Bedtime Tea
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lighting this just makes everything feel calmer at night and the smell- vanilla & oud 😩 yesss
Amber Sunrise Candle
 
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these are part of my night routine now, just make everything feel more comfortable
Goldtoe Comfy socks