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Motherhood Survival Guide
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items Everything that's helped me through pregnancy, postpartum, and my motherhood journey ❤️
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Playtime 0-6 Months
Favorite Maternity Clothing for Spring/Summer Due Date
Postpartum Essentials every mom needs
Mealtime Essentials
Bath time Essentials
Playtime 0-6 Months
As my baby's wake window became longer in between naps, I realized I needed to find things to help keep him engaged and active. Here are some of my favorites!
This aesthetically pleasing bouncer went with me EVERYWHERE in the house! I love that I could sit at the table and work while rocking him with my foot! Plus is that it's way more affordable than some of the others out there!
Baby Delight Alpine Deluxe Portable Bouncer - Organic Oat
Such a great toy to help your little one start to develop those fine motor skills in the early months. An extra bonus is that it is lightweight!
Bright Starts Oball Easy Grasp Infant Toy
This was used daily the first few months to help with tummy time and brain/vision development! Super easy to take on the go with its foldable feature. And what baby doesn't love a mirror? 🤩
Black & White Baby Toys 0-6 Months Montessori
Another great lightweight toy to improve your baby's fine motor skills!
Bright Starts Oball Shaker Rattle Toy
This play/tummy time mat didn't take up much room at all and it kepy my son BUSY! so many fun little things to grab to keep his brain stimulated AND the little pillow that came with it was perfect for propping him up to strengthen those neck muscles....
Bright Starts Tummy Time Activity Mat - Polar Bear
We still use this! This mat is waterproof so perfect for your baby/toddler at any stage to use for tummytime/playtime. No more worrying about that red juice spilling on your light carpets!
JumpOff Jo Baby Play Mat - Galaxy Bears
These wrist rattles and foot finder socks are an absolute lifesaver for keeping your little one busy (and giving you 5 minutes to drink hot coffee!). The bright colors and cute animals immediately grab their attention, and the soft, plushy feel is pe...
SSK Baby Wrist Rattle & Foot Finder Socks Set
Perfect for tummy time and play, this Baby Einstein light bar keeps my baby engaged with lights, music, and animal sounds while teaching colors and languages. It grows with them and helps with motor skills—an absolute must-have!
Baby Einstein Glow & Discover Light Bar Toy
The music, crinkles, and rattles will keep your baby entertained while supporting their sensory and motor development.
LIGHTDESIRE Musical Caterpillar Baby Toy
This water mat will help your baby build strength with fun visuals. It’s leak-proof, easy to use, and makes tummy time way less stressful!"
Infinno Inflatable Tummy Time Water Mat
This silicone teether is baby-safe, lightweight, and perfect for little hands to grab. It soothes sore gums, doubles as a sensory toy, and is easy to clean (just don’t boil the wooden ring!)
Arudyo Baby Teething Toy Silicone Rudder
This helps boost concentration, sensory development, and cognitive skills—all while being safe and baby-friendly.
Montessori Early Learning Toy for 0-6 Months
This remote-shaped teether soothes gums and keeps babies busy—plus, it will save your real remote when they get older!
Hooku 2 Pack Silicone Teething Toys for Babies
This playmat is everything! The piano, toys, and music will keep your baby engaged while sneaking in some developmental skills. Plus, it grows with them, and the mat is washable—and let's be real, what parent doesn't love a baby toy with some banger ...
Fisher-Price Deluxe Kick & Play Piano Gym
This activity center keeps your baby busy, learning, and growing while giving you a breather. It adapts as they grow, so it’s a win for both of you! We now use this as a coloring table for my toddler and he loves it!
Skip Hop Baby Activity Center, 3-Stage
Favorite Maternity Clothing for Spring/Summer Due Date
These were some of the clothing items I wore during my pregnancy (August Due Date) that helped me feel comfy and cute at the same time!
I literally lived in this outfit during the summer! Cute to show off that baby bump, comfy, and was flowy enough to keep me cool on those hot summer days! Comes in so many colors! I paired it with a tank top! You can also pair it with a long sleeve s...
ANRABESS Women's Sleeveless Jumpsuit Romper
For all my working mamas that don't want to wear a dress to work everyday- these pants were the BEST! I loved that they had an adjustable waist band, so I could keep wearing them as my bump grew up until the baby was born. Love that they came in a va...
Maternity Stretch Over-Bump Casual Capris
Another jumpsuit brand that I love to wear! I got the tan colored one and pair it with a white tshirt or thick strap tank! Another summer staple for third trimester mamas!
Tongmingyun Womens Sleeveless Jumpsuit Romper
For the mamas that wanna do their hot girl walks- these biker shorts feel buttery smooth and were so light and airy for those nightly summer walks I did. 10/10 recommend!
Buttergene Maternity Over Belly Biker Shorts
I probably wore this twice a week in the summer! My absolute favorite summer jumpsuit because it was so versatile! I would usually wear it with a shacket, button down, oversized tshirt, or by itself. The belly is built in, so I was only able to wear it a little after postpartum, but still got lots of good use of of it in the third trimester!
POSHDIVAH Women's Maternity Bodysuit Romper
Comes in so many colors! I got it in dark gray! This gown/robe set was so comfy for lounging around the house in the summer and I loved that I could take the robe off if it got too hot. I also wore it a lot post partum too as it was easy to nurse in.
SWOMOG Maternity Nursing Gown & Robe Set
Another comfy gown I wore in third trimester to lounge around and sleep in. Also used for the hospital/postpartum for easy nursing.
Ekouaer 3 in 1 Maternity Nursing Nightgown
Just because your pregnant, doesn't mean you can't enjoy a day on the beach! I used this for my grandparents lake during the summer to cool off on those hot summer days. I got the black/white polka dot design and it was cute, comfy, and helped me fee...
EastElegant Maternity Cutout Swimwear
I wore this dress to work a lot during late 2nd/3rd trimester often with a cardigan. I also wore it for my baby shower becuase it made for a cute bump pic! Super light and airy!
Tobrief Women's Boho Maxi Dress Spaghetti Strap
Loved that these leggings supported my bump for days where those spring/summer walks were a little chillier.
Maternity Full Panel Leggings
another basic- wear it alone or with a cardigan! super comfy and supports the bump!
Maternity First-Layer Rib-Knit Tank Top
For the mamas who like overalls:) Loved the stretchy band that was on the side!
Bhome Maternity Denim Overall Shorts
My feet started swelling even before the baby was born and these were SO COMFY! Easy to slide on and go about your day. These were the shoes I also wore home from the hospital and still wear to this day when I just need to slide on some shoes. Comes ...
BRONAX Pillow Slippers | House Slides Sandals
Skip the pumping bra and get these! I started wearing these before the baby was born and they still fit me after. They are perfect for nursing and you can even clip your pumps to the straps to be hands free! I still wear them to this day!
Suekaphin 5PACK Wireless Nursing Bra Set
I lounged around in this outfit all summer! Was also my outfit I wore home from the hospital and through the first few months postpartum!
MakeMeChic Women's Maternity Pajama Set
You probably can see the pattern, but I lounged A LOT during the last few months of pregnacy. Another cute lounge set I absolutely loved!
KIRUNDO Women's 2PC Summer Lounge Set
Another go to outfit for work! I have the red#2 and love pairing it with a black tank and cardigan. I would just pull it over the bump and it was nice and flowy, not to mention, super cute!
ZESICA Women's Bohemian Floral Maxi Skirt
One of my outfits for my baby showers! The theme was “Here Comes the Son” ☀
Mustard Floral Smocked Maternity Maxi Dress
Postpartum Essentials every mom needs
I had a 3rd degree tear, so sitz baths were my best friend the first month postpartum. Always check with you OBGYN, but I loved these sitz bath salts to help bring some relief!
Pure Body Naturals Sitz Bath Salt, 10 Oz
Just get it. You won't regret it. Plus the underwear is SO nice! Also the peri bottle is way better than the one the hospital gives you
Frida Mom Postpartum Recovery Kit (11pc)
If you have a tear, get hemmorhoids, or have both, these will bring so much relief down there. Do not skip these!
TUCKS Medicated Cooling Pads, 100 Count
Definately recommend having this as those first couple times you try to nurse may be painful.
Earth Mama Organic Nipple Butter™ 2oz
This probably helped me the most during recovery. Helps relieve the itchy feeling and provides cooling relief. Don't skip this- the hopsital should also provide you with one!
Dermoplast Pain & Itch Relief Spray, 2.75 Oz
I was in so much pain postpartum, and often times, baths were my only time for relief. This sitz bath for the toilet was even more convenient. Def reccomend!
Pochik Sitz Bath for Hemorrhoids & Postpartum
These bags were the best for storing milk in the freezer!
Lansinoh Breastmilk Storage Bags, 100 Count
Once I started using pumping spray, pumping finally wasn't that bad. any spray will do, this is just the one I used. Coconut oil also works, but I found that messy, so the spray was much more convenient!
Legendairy Milk Pumping Spray 4 oz., Organic
if you plan to pump for more then a few months, its always good to replace certain parts! I loved this option!
PumpMom-us Spectra Breast Pump Parts
I used this when I was lazy and didn't feel like pumping. It would be just enough to give me some relief. Works great!
haakaa Manual Breast Pump, Silicone 4oz
loved this for saving space in the freezer!
Milkies Freeze Organizer for Breast Milk Bags
These worked great and also saved me money since I nursed for a long time- didn't have to buy refills.
wegreeco Nursing Breast Pads 14 Pack + Bags
This is the main pump I used- I absolutely loved it! The parts were easy to clean and it also had a long battery life. Make sure to check with your health insurance- you may be able to get this for free!
Spectra S1 Plus Electric Breast Pump
I knew I also wanted a portable, hands free pump for work, without breaking the bank. This one worked great!
Hands-Free Wearable Breast Pumps, Pink
helped prevent clogged milk ducts
Legendairy Milk Sunflower Lecithin 1200mg
Mealtime Essentials
These plates are a must if you want to keep your floor clean! I loved that they suction to the high chair and separate the food. 10/10!
WeeSprout Silicone Suction Plates - 3 Pack
This high chair is SO easy to clean! I love that you can just take the top tray off to rinse and that the seat cover easily comes out to get all the food that drops in between. It's great that it grows with your baby too!
Ingenuity SmartClean Trio Elite 3-in-1 Chair
The only bottles we used. They had a lot of parts to clean, but I loved how they helped control the flow of the milk. And washing them was at times very therapeutic!
Dr. Brown's Anti-Colic Baby Bottle 8 oz, 4 Pack
This helped me keep my head straight the first few weeks, helping me to log every feeding, diaper change, naps, etc. Definately a must for new moms who need help with getting organized for the first time.
Baby's Daily Log Book - A5 Tracking for Newborns
This helped keep the baby's bottle parts/my pump parts separate from all the other dishes. It was so nice to keep by my bedside at night too to place any dirty bottles/pump parts.
SAMMART 7.7L Collapsible Dish Tub - Blue
loved the length of these spoons and the fun colors! great for feeding baby purees!
6-Piece Soft-Tip Silicone Baby Feeding Spoons
I still use these bibs with my toddler for meals to protect his clothes. The long sleeves help to protect his sleeves and I love the pocket that catches any food. Helps save a lot of time with laundry!
Tiny Twinkle Mess Proof Baby Bib, 2 Pack
We brought this to the lakehouse a lot when my son was 9-12 months old. Super easy to bring along and fold up when done.
Bright Starts Pop 'N Sit Booster, Teal
Use these for purees or storing snacks! We also use these for storing salad dressing, sauces, etc
Moonkie Silicone Baby Food Containers 4 oz
Love that these have a place for your little one to grasp, making it super easy to hold.
2 Pack Soft Spout Sippy Cups 10 Oz - BPA Free
another favorite sippy cup! These ones open and close, making them spill proof!
Nuby 2-Pack Flip-It Easy Grip Cups, 10 Oz
Use this to slowly train your baby from sippy to regular cup! Such great quality too!
mushie Silicone Baby Sippy Cup - Cambridge Blue
Silicone sippy cups are our fave and we love that these come with handles and straws. They don't get worn out like the plastic ones and are much safer
Cuddle Campus 2 Silicone Baby Training Cups
Your toddler will be obsessed with these. These are a GREAT snack as they have very few ingredients.
That's it. Mini Fruit Bars Variety 35 Pack
THis sterilzer makes it super easy to sterilize multiple bottle/pump parts at once. It has a few different settings/cycles, which i loved for the times I was running short on time. Also super easy to clean!
Dr. Brown's Sterilizer and Dryer for Baby
Simple and easy to use bottle warmer that did the job without taking up a bunch of counter space
Philips Avent Fast Bottle Warmer SCF358
Bath time Essentials
Hands down the best thing to use for your newborn during bath time. I love that you could hang it up to dry and that it had holes, so there was no need to worry about water mold. Also kept the baby secure and in place during bath time
Angelcare Baby Bath Support (Aqua) 0-6M
really came in handy for the newborn days and was a fun toy as he grew older.
Yookidoo Baby Bath Shower Head - Elephant Pump
Another great way to rinse of the baby during baths. The holes allow you to control the water follow and the indents of the container make it easy to grasp
Frida Baby Control The Flow Bath Rinse Cup
Muslin washclothes/towels were so gentle on the skin. Loved these!
Yoofoss 2 Pack Hooded Baby Towels 32x32
My baby has sensitve skin, so non scented shampoo/body wash was a must!
CeraVe Baby Wash & Shampoo, 8 Ounce
Make bathtime a lot of fun with these cute turtles! We love to race them!
SEPHIX Cute Swimming Turtle Bath Toys 3 Pack
This non slip bath mat helped keep my son safe, especially when he first learned how to stand up.
Upgrade Baby Non Slip Bath Mat 40x16 Inch Blue
Who doesn't love a good bubble bath?
Burt's Bees Baby Bubble Bath, 12 Oz, 3 Pack
Have the piece of mind knowing that your baby will be playing with bath toys without water mold.
HYSZXUS Floating Bath Toys - 9pcs Set
I used this religiously as a new mom to make sure I got the temperature just right. I love that it flashes red when the water becomes too hot.
b&h Baby Bath Floating Duck Thermometer
Loved this color and fun design for keeping my son safe from the faucet
mushie Bath Spout Cover | Soft Silicone Guard
Another fun bath toy he enjoys!
Sassy Whirling Waterfall Bath Toy - 12+ Mo
The best way to store bath toys! This allows the water to drain and collect in the bottom where you can then dispose of the water to help prevent mold.
OXO Tot Stand Up Bath Toy Storage – Gray
We used these not only for baths, but also to help clean him when he had a really bad diaper rash (with warm water) instead of using wipes
MUKIN Baby Washcloths - 5 Pack Cotton Wipes
These towels help to dry your baby quickly and keep them warm and snuggled as they are super soft (not the scratchy cheap kind). They were great quality
Bamboo Queen 2 Pack Baby Bath Towels