Benable — create shareable lists of things you recommend!
E.g., products you love, local businesses, travel recs - you can add anything to a Benable list!
The Books That Changed Me When I had Nothing Figured Out
27
items A collection of the books that held me together when life felt messy and uncertain stories and voices that helped me see things differently, gave me comfort, and reminded me I wasn’t alone.
Sections
4
Books for self-love
That Girl Must Reads
Reads for a mental glow-up.
Books to read at least once
Books for self-love
Stories and guides that remind you to put yourself first and books that celebrate confidence, healing, and the art of truly loving who you are.
Brianna Wiest’s latest collection is a gentle guide to transformation—perfect for anyone navigating change and becoming their truest self.
When You're Ready, This is How You Heal|Paperback
A soulful read on self‑love, connection, and healing from the poet who took Instagram by storm.
The Path to Self-Love: Heal Your Heart, Set Healthy Boundaries & Unlock Your Inner Strength|Hardcover
A must‑read on overcoming self‑sabotage and climbing the mountains that once felt impossible.
The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery (English)|Paperback
For anyone feeling lost in the chaos—this read is a reminder that you’re not alone.
How to Stop Breaking Your Own Heart: THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER. Stop People-Pleasing, Set Boundaries, and Heal from Self-Sabotage|Paperback
A groundbreaking guide to replacing self‑esteem with self‑compassion—helping you quiet self‑criticism and grow into your fullest self.
Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself|Paperback
A no‑nonsense guide to setting boundaries, saying no, and reclaiming your life from guilt and pressure.
How to Establish Boundaries: Protect Yourself, Become Assertive, Take Back Control, and Set Yourself Free|Paperback
The bestselling guide to healing your life through the power of your mind—now in a stunning gift edition.
You Can Heal Your Life: 40th Anniversary Edition|Paperback
That Girl Must Reads
Books that give off that girl energy—smart, stylish, inspiring reads that make you feel like you’ve got your life together (or at least on the way there).
A transformative guide to relationships, control, and personal power—built on the simple idea of ‘let them
The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About|Hardcover
A powerful reminder that lasting transformation comes from expanding your consciousness, not temporary tactics.
Don't Believe Everything You Think (Expanded Edition): Why Your Thinking Is The Beginning & End Of Suffering|Hardcover
Brianna Wiest’s most beloved essays—each one a perspective shift that could change your life.
101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think|Paperback
A witty, heartfelt memoir about love, life, and the messy baggage of growing up.
Everything I Know about Love|Paperback
A bold, empowering guide to self‑love and becoming the best version of yourself.
Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers: The self-love guide to growing, healing and learning to put yourself first|Hardcover
James Clear takes his bestselling Atomic Habits one step further with this interactive workbook. Packed with guided exercises, habit‑tracking templates, and journaling prompts, it’s designed to help you not just understand habits—but actually live th...
The Atomic Habits Workbook: Official Companion to the #1 Worldwide Bestseller|Paperback
A bold guide to finding peace and reclaiming your life through the power of letting go.
The Art of Letting Them: A Radical New Way to Find Peace, Break Free from Control, and Reclaim Your Life|Paperback
Jennie Allen’s bestselling book is all about breaking free from the spiral of toxic thoughts. With practical tools and faith‑based wisdom, she shows how to stop negative thinking from taking over and instead choose peace, joy, and clarity. This is a ...
Get Out of Your Head: Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts|Hardcover
“Packed with practical advice from clinical psychologist Dr. Julie Smith, this bestseller is like having a therapist in your pocket. Covering everything from managing low moods and anxiety to building resilience and motivation, it’s a straightforward...
Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?|Paperback
Reads for a mental glow-up.
Books that recharge your mindset—helping you clear the clutter, boost confidence, and level up your inner world
Discover the Japanese concept of ikigai—your reason for being. This international bestseller explores how finding purpose can lead to a longer, happier, and more fulfilling life. Drawing on wisdom from Okinawa, home to some of the world’s longest‑liv...
Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy Life|Hardcover
A beautiful guide to embracing imperfection and finding peace in simplicity. Wabi Sabi draws on ancient Japanese philosophy to show how life’s cracks and flaws can be sources of beauty, wisdom, and authenticity. With gentle insights, it teaches us to...
Wabi Sabi: Japanese Wisdom for a Perfectly Imperfect Life|Hardcover
Drawing on centuries of Japanese philosophy, Kokoro explores how to live with heart, balance, and authenticity. This inspiring guide blends timeless wisdom with practical lessons to help you cultivate inner peace, deeper connections, and a more meani...
Kokoro: Japanese Wisdom for a Life Well Lived|Hardcover
Inspired by Japanese wisdom, The Book of Ichigo Ichie is a guide to savoring life’s fleeting moments. It teaches the art of being fully present, embracing spontaneity, and finding joy in experiences that will never happen the same way twice. With gen...
The Book of Ichigo Ichie: The Art of Making the Most ...
Books to read at least once
Timeless reads that leave a mark—stories and ideas so powerful, everyone should experience them at least once.
“This international bestseller reveals the Japanese philosophy that happiness comes from the courage to live authentically. Through a powerful dialogue between a philosopher and a young man, The Courage to Be Disliked shows how to break free from the...
The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness|Paperback
A groundbreaking classic on breaking free from the trap of overthinking. Women Who Think Too Much explores why so many women get caught in cycles of worry and self‑doubt—and offers practical strategies to reclaim peace, confidence, and joy. With comp...
Women Who Think Too Much: How to Break Free of Overthinking and Reclaim Your Life|eBook
“A moving collection of stories about love, loss, and letting go. The Goodbye Process explores the many ways we say farewell—whether to people, places, or chapters of our lives—and how each goodbye carries its own lessons. With honesty and heart, the...
The Goodbye Process: Stories by Mary Jones, Paperback
A practical and inspiring guide to cultivating daily habits that strengthen faith, character, and purpose. Habits of a Godly Woman offers timeless wisdom and actionable steps to help women grow spiritually, nurture meaningful relationships, and live ...
Habits of a Godly Woman|Hardcover
An insightful guide to how the brain makes decisions and absorbs new information. Neuro Thinking explores the science of learning, memory, and choice, showing how our minds shape the way we experience life. With practical explanations and accessible ...
Neuro Thinking: How your Brain Decide and Learn|Paperback
Discover how happiness is wired into your brain. Neuro Happy explores the science behind joy, showing how thoughts, habits, and neural pathways shape the way we feel. With practical insights and easy‑to‑apply strategies, it reveals how to train your ...
Neuro Happy: Your Happiness Begins in the Brain|Paperback
A practical guide to beating procrastination and building a more productive, fulfilling life. Do It Today offers strategies to help you stop delaying, focus on what matters, and achieve meaningful goals. With actionable tips and motivational insights...
Do It Today: Overcome Procrastination, Improve Productivity, and Achieve More Meaningful Things|Paperback