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HEY LADIES...Dress To Look Your Best This Winter!

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In my line of work, I see a lot of women dressed to turn heads for business or a good girl's night out. Here are some of the fashions that puts all eyes on you!
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The Best Outfits For Keeping Warm!

Look your best this Winter! Elegant, sexy, or relaxing at home, stay warm!

 
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I walked into a grocery store and I couldn’t help but notice a striking woman in a sexy leopard print V-neck slit dress. The fabric hugged her curves perfectly, accentuating her figure, while the daring slit added an alluring touch that drew my eyes ...
Leopard Print V Neck Slit Dress
 
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At a family cookout, a friend of my cousin walked into the house and I couldn’t help but notice that she was rocking a plus-size solid color patchwork jumpsuit. The jumpsuit embraced her curves beautifully, showcasing her figure while the vibrant pat...
Plus Size Solid Color Patchwork Jumpsuit
 
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 I spotted a woman in a plus-size solid color patchwork jumpsuit before, and she immediately caught my eye. The jumpsuit flowed effortlessly, accentuating her figure in all the right ways while exuding an air of elegance. The mix of solid colors and u...
Plus Size Asymmetrical Hem Solid Color Dress
 
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While attending a friend’s outdoor gathering, I met a nice young lady who knew that she had it going on! She wore a pair of form-fitting jeans that perfectly showcased her style. The jeans hugged her curves just right, creating a flattering silhouett...
High Waist Ripped Wide Leg Jeans
 
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I saw this sweater on a lady once and she looked so comfotable in it and I could tell it was her go-to piece for staying cozy and fashionable as the temperature dropped.   That is why I recommend this sweater. because winter is coming soon!
Y2K Star Pattern Color Contrast Sweater
 
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I like the way that this looks on this young lady, and I know that it would look great on you as well as keeping you warm on those chilly days that are coming!
Letter Printed Design Sweatshirt Set
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I recommend this outfit for keeping warm as well as looking good even if you are staying at home for the evening.
Patchwork Hoodies & Solid Color Pant Set
 
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I like this because it is a classy way to go to the gym or out on a jog on  chilly morning! I recommend this jogging suit for such a purpose!
Plus Size Cold Shoulder Jacket+Pants Sets
 
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I highly recommend this outfit if you are going out on a date and you want his jaw to drop when you come out of the house! This is both elegant and sexy, and you would look great in it! Perfect for a variety of occasions such as parties, weddings, an...
Plus Size Cape Sleeve Ruched Dress
 
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I LIKE IT! Speaking as a man, there is nothing more attractive than a woman who has all of the confidence that she needs to know that she is the bell of the ball! This plus sized dress is guaranteed to make you look and feel great with that confidenc...
Plus Size Two Piece V Neck Crop Top & Ruffle Wide Leg Pants
 
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I really like the way that this outfit is not too revealing, but sexy none-the-less! I recommend this for the nights when your date is coming over to your house because you've cooked him a nice romantic meal!
Plus Size Two Piece Bodycon Tops & Long Pants
 
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I am not a fashion expert, but I really think that this would go great with any pair of jeans or even perhaps some leotards (if I spelled that correctly!)
Plus Size Irregular Drawstring Midi Dress
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I can look at this and can see that these young ladies are very cozy in these dresses! They look good, fits well, and easy to tell that the material is very soothing against the skin!
Plus Size Ribbed Pullover Knit Sweater Dresses
 
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One thing that I've always loved about a woman is the way that she carries herself when out in the public! This outfit says to me that she is independent and all about her business! I LIKE IT A LOT!
Open Front Cardigan Long Pants Three Piece Outfits
 
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I know how it can be to be hot one minute and cold the next! Ladies, if that happens to you, here is a great solution! Just throw is shirt on and it is safe to leave it open, balancing the temperature just right. Not too hot, not too cold!
Plus Size Wool Plaid Shirts
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I'm really feeling this right here! I don't like bats, but I think that I can deal with this look! This is sure to keep you cozy and looking good! I think that any man would be happy and excited to take you out on a date with this amount of elegant s...
Two Piece Batwing Sleeve Tops & Skinny Pants

Great Places To Go On Chilly Nights!

I have been to many places across the U.S., and these places are sure to please on cold a chilly nights if you are in those areas. Whether with friends or looking for that perfect date venue, here are my personal recommendations!  

 
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I recently had a great time at Bar Louie in Hampton, VA. The atmosphere was laid-back and fun—perfect for a casual night out. I ordered their signature burgers, and they didn’t disappoint—juicy, flavorful, and cooked just right. Although I do not con...
Bar Louie - Hampton
 
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I recently had an amazing experience at Iron Gate in D.C. The ambiance was absolutely perfect—whether you’re seated in the cozy, intimate dining room or in the charming courtyard under twinkling lights, the whole vibe is just magical. I went with the...
Iron Gate - Washington, DC on OpenTable
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My wife and I had so much fun in D.C. and really enjoyed the scenery and the places to go. One cozy spot was the heated rooftop restaurants, as we got to enjoy the fresh evening air but still staying warm. I recommend checking one out for yourself!
TOP 10 BEST Heated Rooftop in Washington, DC - Updated 2024
 
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Yorktown is about 20 minutes from where I live and I am in that area quite a bit. My wife enjoys it as well because it is a very historical area. Another nice feature about it is the Chilled Ponds Ice Skating Rink. It may be chilly out, but not to wo...
Chilled Ponds, Yorktown, Va.
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'Stay In The House On a Chilly Night' Music!

I want you to relax after a hard day, and here is the perfect way to unwind!

 
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I find that staying at home on a chilly night with a little smooth jazz is very mind relaxing, taking away the stress of your busy day. Go on and treat yourself!
Your Smooth Jazz Ticket
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