Karolyn Ruffin

I’m a literacy coach, not a TikTok trend. “Teacher Bae”? Please. They call me Ma’am.

It’s 1986. I am standing in the drugstore aisle, trying to choose which fragrance to sample. Whitney’s on the radio, my bangs are defying gravity, and the perfume I'm about to choose will become part of my story. Waitaminute. 1980s! Is that you? (Yes. And we want our perfume back.) Too bad. 😏. Alrighty. Ladies, introduce yourselves!

Some of these shoes I’ve worn. Others I’ve researched carefully based on what helps me walk with less pain. I’m not a doctor or a product tester—I’m just someone trying to stand a little longer, and I hope this helps someone else do the same.

These items really help to balance my daily living with warmth and care!

Start the school year off right with essentials that keep you both on point and put together. Whether it’s a statement backpack, sleek notebooks, or other everyday must-haves, this list has everything to help you stay organized and show up in style. With gear that’s as functional as it is good-looking, you’ll feel confident and ready to take on whatever comes your way!

Whether you're brand new to the game or just upgrading your gear, this list covers everything you need to play smarter, safer, and with more confidence. I’ve researched the top-rated products for beginners and casual players, and added honest, practical notes from a newcomer’s perspective.

Spending the night inside your vehicle is not just for van-lifers or weekend adventurers—it’s become a necessity for many people having a hard time right now.. This guide offers practical tools to stay safe, clean, and discreet while sleeping in your car—whether by choice or necessity.

When you're navigating tight budgets or transitional living, every dollar counts—and every product needs to work. After years of trial, error, and real-life messes, I’ve found that Dollar Tree offers more than just convenience—it delivers results. These are my go-to cleansers and tools that punch above their price tag, no delivery wait time required.

This list is designed for anyone living in a dorm, extended stay, or transitional housing. Each item supports comfort, organization, and self-care in small spaces. Whether you're rebuilding stability or starting fresh, these essentials help create a space that feels like your own!

(My sister made up that title. LOL.) Anyhow, having a variety of pots and pans makes me feel prepared and capable. Whether I’m simmering soup or crisping leftovers, the right tool turns a simple meal into something meaningful. It’s a quiet reminder that I’m still creating, still caring, and still worthy of comfort.