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The No-Boyfriend Massage List
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items I created this list because sometimes you don’t want conversation, coordination, or a massage with benefits. You just want your shoulders to stop hurting. This is for the nights when you’re tired, or simply not in the mood to explain where it hurts. No sighing, no falling asleep halfway through, no “is this good?” every two minutes. Just solid, dependable relief that shows up when you need it and does exact...
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Here are some tools that will get the job done if he can't or won't… or you just don't want him to. I get that!
You won't need a boyfriend to get a good neck and shoulder massage. This one works wonders.
InvoSpa Shiatsu Massager with Heat - Neck & Back
No waiting for a good foot massage, this one will take care of you when he won't.
MOUNTRAX Shiatsu Foot Massager with Heat,
Overworked hands from writing, typing, knitting or braiding, this hand massager will give you relief without waiting for him to feel like it.
Hand Massager with Heat & Compression for Pain Relief
This one heats and cools! A boyfriend can't do THAT at the same time! And it's FSA approved!
BOB AND BRAD T2 Pro Massage Gun with Heat and Cold, FSA Eligible
Your. boyfriend's fingertips or patience. will wear out before this head massage will, and it feels DIVINE!!!
Electric Scalp Massager, Cordless Head Massager Scalp for Hair Growth and Stress Relief
We listen and we don't judge… your boyfriend might though.
iDOO Personal Massager, Wand Massager Powerful with 20 Vibrating Patterns 8 Speeds Body Massager Cordless USB Rechargeable for Back Neck Shoulder Sports Recovery, Black
No power needed for this one. Just a good ol' man free massage!
AIMIKE Scalp Massager Shampoo Brush, 100% Soft Silicone Scalp Scrubber, Scalp Exfoliator Brush
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Take a load off your feet and get the massage you deserve, and if you want, you can let your boyfriend use it.
RENPHO Foot Massager Machine with Heat [2026 Upgraded], Shiatsu Foot Massager for Plantar Fasciitis, Valentines Day Gift
This! All of this! Instead of somebody's son's crusty dry hands!
Lavender Sensual Massage Oil with Collagen and Stem Cells, Skin Tightening Therapy for Bum, Thighs, and Belly, Fast-Absorbing Cellulite Oil, 8 fl oz by M3
This almond oil is AMAZING!!! Fast absorbing and soooo good on your skin!
Brooklyn Botany Sweet Almond Oil | for Skin, Hair and Face | 16 Fl Oz | 100% Pure and Natural | Carrier Oil for Essential Oils, Aromatherapy and Massage | Hexane Free
Only room for 1 in here. It's the perfect escape when your boyfriend wants to watch the game instead of give you attention.
Portable Sauna for Home Easy Setup Quick Heat-Up Foldable Sauna for Home Spa
Your boyfriend could NEVER!! This on the lower back will do you way better! Just sit it in your favorite chair and lean back.
VIKTOR JURGEN Neck & Back Massager with Heat
Now do you REALLY want your boyfriend rubbing on your eyeballs with his big ol' thumbs? I didn't think so!
BOB AND BRAD Eye Massager FSA/HSA Eligible
A Chi machine with red light therapy? Yes please! No boyfriend needed.
LifePro Chi Machine Lymphatic Massager 12 Speed
Spas
If you want to be super indulgent and there is room in the budget, gping out to a spa is also a boyfriend-free way to get the massage you need.
You could always just go to a spa, if your boyfriend is not taking his good boyfriend meds.
Massage Spa
I've not tried a Korean Spa, but I know they are all the rage right now. Let me know what you find out.
Sharinda Williams | Travel Creator + PTO Queen on Instagram: "What do I do at a Korean spa? #selfcare #koreanspa #spaday"
Here are some tips if you're thinking of going to a Korean spa… without him!
All You Need to Know Before Visiting a Korean Spa | bye:myself