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Cozy Chaos: My Go-To Vibe Setters

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For the emotionally unstable but gorgeous power girls
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Vibe Setters (Mood + Space)

Your environment sets the tone for your healing, your spiral, your art, and your glow-up. These are the things I keep around me when I want to feel cozy, mysterious, safe, and a little seductive. Think: “romantic cave, but cute.”
 
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for that romantic cave energy
Velvet Blackout Curtain
 
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My Dark Femme Energy playlist
Dark Femme Energy
 
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Cute for Halloween or spooky vibes
Goth Candle Warmer
 
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Fall Scents 🫶🏻🫶🏻
2025 Fall Scents, Candles, Fragrances & More
 
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moody, warm light for late nights
Sun Lamp

Emotional Girl Essentials

For the girls who feel everything, these are the books, tools, and emotional anchors that help me make sense of it. Whether I’m romanticizing my life or spiraling on the bathroom floor, these picks always get me through
 
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spicy and moody fantasy romance
A Touch Of Darkness by Scarlett St. Clair is one of the worst books I have ever read.
 
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for late-night journal entries
Goth Notebook
 
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Can't manifest in a journal without pens
WRITECH Gel Pens Journaling Highlighters Set
 
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Everyone needs a good romance
Hooked (Never After, #1) by Emily McIntire

Dark Girl Beauty

Makeup that hits different when your soul is somewhere between healing and unhinged. These are the products I use when I want to look like the best version of my mess. Think: soft glam with a bite.
 
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grungy but wearable
Cold Brew Suede Matte Lip Liner Velvet Soft Vegan Lip Pencil - NYX ...
 
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cheap, dramatic, never fails
Shop Mascara: Length, Volume & Eyelash Makeup
 
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pop of emotion on the cheeks
Soft Pinch Liquid Blush | Long-Lasting Dewy & Matte Blushes
 
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Smell so good when Im relaxing with a cup of coco
Cinnamon Roll Wax Melts
 
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Everyone loves their lashes
False Eyelash Kit

Comfort-Indulgence

A little indulgence goes a long way—especially when your mental state is holding on by a thread. These treats are warm, rich, and vibey. The kind of stuff that makes crying feel cinematic.
 
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for those 2AM breakdowns or breakthroughs
Fudge Rounds
 
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for those 2AM breakdowns or breakthroughs
HERSHEY'S Milk Chocolate Dipped Pretzels 8.5oz Candy Bag
 
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for tea, coffee, or just aesthetic pics
Bookworm Mug
 
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Comfy on Period Days too
Amazon Best Sellers: Best Body Pillows

Digital Tools / Downloads

When I want to feel like I’ve got my life together—or at least aesthetic while figuring it out—these are my digital go-to’s. From journaling to manifesting, it’s giving main character with emotional depth.
 
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My ultimate journaling download. This bundle includes mood check-ins, cozy affirmations, and shadow work prompts that feel like a warm hug and a reality check in one. It’s for the girls who cry, heal, glow-up, and repeat.
Lemon8 · ✨ Cozy Girl Journaling Bundle ✨ · @Destiny
 
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Soft but structured. This a digital template that helps you track your daily mood, power moves, and just lets you focus on yourself. Designed to keep your life together even if your mascara is running.
Digital Self-Care Planner
 
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My free daily self-care planner
Daily Self-Care Planner