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Anger & Stress Management: Books, Calm-Down Tools for Kids & Adults, and Free Help

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Short fuse lately? Whether it's you, your partner or your kids, this list gathers popular anger management books and workbooks for men and women, kids' books for big feelings, calm-down corner tools, healthy ways to release stress at home, and free m...
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Books & Workbooks for Adults

 
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Same fights with your partner or family over and over? The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner shows how to use anger to change patterns instead of exploding. Tip: start with chapter one.
The Dance of Anger: Woman's Guide to Change
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Temper flaring at work or home? The Anger Management Workbook for Men gives simple exercises to spot triggers and cool down fast. Tip: do one short exercise a day.
Anger Management Workbook for Men: Master Emotions
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Snapping at the kids and feeling guilty after? The Anger Management Workbook for Women has a 5-step plan to understand and manage anger. Tip: keep a trigger log for one week.
Anger Management Workbook for Women: 5-Step Guide
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Helping Kids With Big Feelings

 
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Little one having big meltdowns? When Sophie Gets Angry, Really, Really Angry shows a child calming down in her own way. Tip: after reading, ask what helps your child feel calm.
When Sophie Gets Angry - Really Angry (Scholastic)
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Need words to help kids handle anger? A Little SPOT of Anger teaches simple calm-down steps like deep breaths and counting. Tip: practice the steps when your child is already calm.
A Little SPOT of Anger: Managing BIG Emotions
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Tween with big emotions she can't explain? The American Girl Feelings Book helps girls understand anger, stress and moods with quizzes and tips. Tip: leave it where she can read alone.
The Feelings Book: Care & Keeping of Emotions
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Need a calm-down corner that works? Colorful sand timers give kids something to watch while they breathe and reset. Tip: use the 3 or 5 minute timer instead of a time-out.
KISEER 6 Pcs Colorful Sand Timer Set
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Hard to teach slow breathing? The Hoberman Mini Sphere opens as you breathe in and closes as you breathe out, a visual calm-down tool. Tip: do five slow breaths together.
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Release Stress at Home

 
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Need a healthy way to let off steam? The Everlast Elite punching bag turns stress into a workout at home. Tip: wear wraps or gloves and pair it with a short cool-down stretch.
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Stress stuck in your body? The Gaiam 6mm yoga mat cushions knees for stretching, yoga or floor workouts at home. Tip: 10 minutes of stretching after a hard day helps you unwind.
Gaiam Premium Yoga Mat, 6mm Thick Print Mat
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Tense hands during stressful calls or homework? These slow-rising stress balls give you something to squeeze instead of snapping. Tip: keep one at your desk and one in the car.
12 Pack Slow Rising Stress Balls for Adults
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Restless hands when frustrated? These quiet twisty fidget toys help kids and adults burn off nervous energy and refocus. Tip: give one to kids during long waits or car rides.
Sensory Fidget Toys - 6PCS Multicolor Twist
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Free Help & Support

 
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Want to calm down in minutes without paying for an app? Insight Timer has thousands of free guided meditations, including short ones for anger and stress. Tip: search 'anger' or 'stress'.
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Not sure if stress or anger is becoming too much? Mental Health America has free, private online screenings and coping tools. Tip: share your results with a doctor or counselor.
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Want real help managing anger? The Psychology Today therapist finder lets you search counselors by ZIP, insurance and specialty. Tip: filter for anger management or family conflict.
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