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Midlife Essentials

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There are so many changes that happen in midlife, let me help you! All of the things below are tried & verified by moi. I LOVE them! Skin, hair, clothing, anything you need to thrive in midlife!
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Midlife Fashion

The pieces you need in your closet to help you feel confident & ready to take on the world!

 
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The quality is worth the price! The high waist doesn't fold down & the buttery texture makes you feel comfy & covered! Wear them to workout in or just to lounge.
Women's High Waisted Leggings
 
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My menopausal friends, I have lived in an oversized tee on the days when the bloat is just to much! Every women needs one just to lounge in or dress up with a great necklace & a pair of boots!
Oversized Tees For Women
 
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A pair of ankle boots or booties is essential in the fall/winter! A pair of low heeled or flat boots is essential for those of us who have hit the point where we can't physically handle the high heel. A low heel is sheek, functional & goes with j...
Women's Low (1"–2") Ankle Boots & Booties
 
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Every women needs a little black dress. If you're like me you like a little tummy control. These choices from Amazon are sexy, comfortable & gives you the peace of mind you're looking for. Pair it with a great coat or kimono.
Little Black Dress
 
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Jeans are hard for any women, now add in the body changes that comes with being menopausal. It's nearly impossible! These choices from Amazon are trendy & comfortable. There are great high waisted choices & my favorite part is I can find stre...
Best Women's Jeans
 
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Coats can be tricky. We tend to go big, when we should be looking for fitted. The pictures show a guide to getting the right coat fit. You can find some great choices at Amazon, Nordstrom or Target.
The Complete Coat Guide for Women Over 40

Midlife Skin/Hair

Hydration, lash breakage & menopausal hair loss… the skin & hair essentials you need!

 
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Menopause did me dirty with my eyelashes, they broke off! I've been using Grande lash serum for about a year & it's amazing! People ask if I have on falsies!
GrandeLASH - MD: Lash-Enhancing Serum
 
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Apply after your toner & don't forget to put on our neck, chest & hands
Hyaluronic Acid 2% + B5
 
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Soothing & cooling. Decreases puffiness
30 Pairs 24K Gold Under Eye Patches
 
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Kimuse Hydrating Moisturizing Stick
KIMUSE Hydrating Moisturizing Stick, Multi Balm
 
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Great to use with Gua sha
Pure Cold-Pressed Rosehip Seed Oil
 
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Spray on your damp hair before styling, it makes the frizz less & it protects your hair!
Mizani 25 Miracle Milk Heat Protectant Leave-In Conditioner
 
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This is the only conditioner that has hydrated my post-menopausal dry hair!
Frizz Dismiss Conditioner for Smooth, Shiny Hair
 
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Best shampoo hands down!
Frizz Dismiss Shampoo for Smooth, Shiny Hair
 
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Having post-menopause hair thinning or loss? Nutrafol can help! I have started using it & have heard & seen only good things. You can follow my journey on my IG or TT @living_the_midlife
Nutrafol Core for Women