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If I Wasn’t Romanticizing My Life, I’d Lose My Mind

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A cozy make-up of soft survival tools for the emotionally exhausted 🫠 but aesthetically committed 💅. This is for the girls who heal in pajamas 🛏️, cry under candlelight 🕯️, and find rebirth in a fresh face mist 💦. Pretty, peaceful, slightly dram...
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For My Face (and Feelings)💐

A gentle start to your routine: products here nurture both skin and spirit. Think of your morning skincare as a small ritual that soothes and uplifts - a little dreamy moment of self-care to set a positive tone for the day.

 
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A creamy, milky cleanser that literally melts away makeup and impurities-no harsh rubbing needed. Leaves skin calm, clean, and hydrated
Magic Melt Micellar Milk - Bubble | Ulta Beauty
 
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Pop this metal roller in the freezer, then glide it over your face anytime; it instantly wakes you up.  Puffy eyes, bad sleep, crying session at 2am? This little frozen miracle says: “girl, no one has to know.” 🧊🥹
ICE ROLLER
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The way this makes my face bounce like I actually drank water today?? 💧😭 Instant ✨glow-up illusion✨
Hydra Vibes 3 - Hyaluronic Acid Cleanser - I Dew Care | Ulta Beauty
 
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 My water bottle but make it cottagecore bestie. Who knew hydration could be cute?? 🐰💖
Miffy and Melanie Crochet Boot Cover for Owala Accessories for Cute Crochet Tumbler 24 oz 40 oz Accessories Crochet Gift for Bestie

For My Body (that I’m learning to love)💖

This section is all about tender-loving care for the body - think of it as wrapping yourself in comfort.

 
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 Whipped. Like frosting. For your legs. You’ll moisturize once and then spend the next 3 hours petting your own arm like “wow, is this… me??” 🧁🫶
Whipped Body Butters 70+ Scents and Sample Sizes, With Shea Butter BUY 2 Get 1 FREE (Thermal Wrap included FREE)
 
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A spritz that turns my bathroom into a meadow. Mood: ✨romantic lead in a 90s film running through flowers.✨
Rose Glow Mist - Pixi | Ulta Beauty
 
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This smells like delight and your safe place in a bottle.  Spray this on your sheets and suddenly your life has a soundtrack. Rain outside, candle lit, me: crying but aesthetic. 🛏️🎧
North Bondi Eau de Parfum Travel

For My Space (my safe place)✨️💓

Your surroundings are a sanctuary,feel utterly at peace.

 
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TSC has my heart with this non toxic candle ♡ Soft light + cozy scent = proof the world isn’t fully evil. 🕯️💭
NON-TOXIC CANDLE
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It came exactly as seen, and it's so therapeutic to watch. A 10 out of ten in my books💓
Snow Night Lamp - Winter Wonderland LED Night Light, Minimalist Table Lamp, Unique Gift, Cozy Room Decor, Aesthetic Bedroom Lamp
 
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The comfiest! This chair IS the hug. I sit, I melt, I forget the group chat drama. 🪑🥑
Cream avocado style lazy sofa chair light home living room balcony simple modern leisure single chair
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For The Mind (when it’s loud)💆🏽‍♀️

Quiet tools for noisy thoughts. Little rituals that whisper, "it's okay, take a breath"😌
 
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Baths with this bath bomb are just my go-to after a long, stressful day. Or moments when i can't get my thoughts to stop
Fairy Buttercup Bath Bomb - Da Bomb | Ulta Beauty
 
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Tiny pep talks in a jar. It’s giving “bestie wrote me love notes in advance.”
Affirmation Jar for Sending You Sunshine | 100 Uplifting Affirmations for Self-Care and Positive Vibes

For The Heart (the one that’s healing)

Tiny rituals that feel like love letters to oneself
 
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A peptide + ceramide-rich glossy balm that makes even my heartache feel a little smoother. Lip balm but feels like therapy in a tube. I apply it 50x a day for ✨emotional support.✨ 💋
Slick Salve Lip Balm - Mint
 
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A book that literally dares me to pretend my iced coffee = cinematic moment. Honestly? Needed. 📖☕
Romanticize Your Life: 365 Simple Ways to Embrace the Beauty of Every Day (a Self-Care Guide to Greater Contentment, Inspiration, Purpose, Affirmation, and Personal Growth)
 
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Turns journaling into fanfic therapy. Sometimes I write about fake boyfriends just to cope. Don’t @ me. 📝💘
500 Romance Writing Prompts: Workbook

For My Aesthetic (because it helps)🌸💙

Sometimes, healing means being pretty on purpose. 🎀 a reminder that enjoying pretty things is a valid form of self-care.
 
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This is literally the cosiest socks ever😭- Socks that make my feet feel like they’ve been to a spa. Cozy = strategy, not laziness. 🧦✨
TheraSoft Ultra Plush Moisturizing Socks - Earth Therapeutics | Ulta Beauty
 
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I was skeptical about getting this, but the smell?😫😍 Makes my hair smell like I actually have my life together. Spoiler: I don’t. 🌬️🌹
Aura Hair Mist™
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Bubble adventures await. My tub becomes a Lisa Frank notebook. Unicorn vibes = depression who?? 🛁🦄
Best Of Bath Bombs Bath Bomb Duo - LUSH | Ulta Beauty