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Ways to Reset when you just need a break.

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Sometimes it helps to have something small and simple to focus on. Not something that fixes everything—just something that gives your mind a place to rest for a few minutes. These are a few ways I’ve found to step away during harder seasons.
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🎨 Coloring Books

There’s something calming about having your hands busy while your mind slows down. Coloring doesn’t require a lot of energy or focus, which made it something I could come back to even on the days when everything else felt like too much.

 
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This was one of my favorites. The patterns were simple and repetitive, which made it easier to just sit and focus without thinking too much.
Mandala Coloring Book - Crayola
 
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I found that simple coloring books with short, encouraging quotes were easier to come to without having to think too much.
The Coloring Book of Mindfulness: 50 Quotes

🔢 Sudoku & Word Searches

Sometimes I needed mental focus in addition to a way to pass time between appointments.

 
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Puzzles like this helped me shift my focus without adding pressure.
Puzzler's Giant Book of Sudoku - Penny Dell Puzzles
 
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This is something I could do even when my energy was low but I still needed a mental break.
Word Search Puzzles (Word Find) - Free puzzles

📱 Phone Games

There were also small moments throughout the day—waiting for an appointment, winding down at night, or just needing a mental break—when simple games on my phone helped me step away for a few minutes. 

 
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This was one of my favorites because it didn’t require much thought, just something light to focus on for a few minutes.
MONOPOLY GO!
 
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Some games required a little more focus, but still gave me a way to unwind. This was one I could come back to when I wanted something a little more engaging.
Match Factory! - App Store

🌍 “Mini Escapes”

I love to travel. On days I could barely get out of bed, I would watch travel videos or imagine planning a trip, like a cruise, a Disney getaway, or even a quiet train journey. It wasn’t about actually going. It was just a way to step outside of ever...

 
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One of the biggest distractions for me was to imagine booking the most expensive suite.  Then I would plan all the details of my trip.
Cruises – Amazing Cruises and Cruise Deals | Royal Caribbean ...
 
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This is the kind of video I would turn to when I needed a small escape. It gave my mind somewhere else to go, even if only for a few minutes.
3 Nights on Japan’s Most Luxurious Train (7 Stars)

🎨 Creative Focus (Painting & Diamond Art)

There were also times when I needed something creative to get lost in.  I learned painting and tried as many different surfaces as I could.

 
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Diamond Dotz gave me a set pattern to follow and I didn't have to think much beyond that.  The challenge became what to do with a completed picture. :D
Diamond Painting Kits - diamond dotz
 
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Painting was something I turned to when I needed a little more focus, but I found that anything too detailed felt overwhelming. What helped most was keeping it simple—just following along with something calm or letting myself paint without worrying a...
Everything You Need to Know About Acrylic Painting

🌿 Final Thoughts

If you’re walking through a hard season, you’re not alone. Sometimes even small things can make a difference. 

 
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This list doesn’t fix everything, but it can help you breathe and take the next step when you’re ready.
CONTEMPLATION Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster