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My personal recs for life saving books💯 Self help

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This is a curated collection of self-help books that feels like a journey through personal growth, mindset shifts, and practical life skills. It’s the kind of list I’ve built from both curiosity and experience — books that challenged the way I think,...

This book actually made me realize that small, almost invisible actions stack up more than I thought. I tried applying the habit stacking method to my study and design routines, and even tiny tweaks — like starting my day with 15 minutes of focused s...

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones

Reading this opened my eyes to how mindset shapes financial life. I never thought much about assets vs liabilities before, but it made me reflect on how I spend, save, and plan for independence. It’s a little motivational and idealistic, but it plant...

Rich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Kids

Honestly, this one felt like it was written for me. I could see my own patterns of overthinking, self-doubt, and moments when I hold myself back from connecting with people. It was comforting and challenging at the same time — like someone gently tel...

The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage

I tried applying the “begin with the end in mind” habit to both my architecture projects and life goals. It helped me prioritize tasks instead of getting lost in unnecessary details. Some parts felt a bit corporate, but the underlying framework made ...

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

At first, the language made me skeptical, but the bluntness hit me. I realized how much energy I waste worrying about social perception, overthinking, or trying to please everyone. It felt like permission to pick my battles and focus on what truly ma...

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

: This one resonated with my goal-oriented side. The idea that clarity of purpose and persistence can move mountains reinforced my motivation for self-learning, hustles, and creative projects. Some sections felt a bit dated or repetitive, but the min...

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

Vulnerability is something I struggle with, so reading this was like a lightbulb moment. It helped me accept that being quiet or reserved doesn’t make me less, and that embracing imperfections can actually make connections more genuine. It subtly hel...

The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go & Be You

This book spoke directly to my inner need for focus. I often feel restless or distracted, especially with multiple projects, study prep, and side hustles. Implementing even small deep-work routines gave me a sense of control over my time and output. ...

DEEP WORK: Rules for Focused Success

A light yet meaningful read about finding purpose and balance. It’s the kind of book that quietly stays with you after finishing.

Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Happy Life

I realized that a lot of my self-doubt and overthinking comes from old subconscious patterns I never questioned. This book taught me that by guiding my inner thoughts intentionally, I can change how I feel, believe, and act. Discipline shapes what I ...

The Power of Your Subconscious Mind - Classic