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Grieving Gifts that aren't flowers
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items My husband and I have recently lost our first born to preterm labor. It has been by far the most difficult, traumatic event we have every gone through. Nothing can take away the grief that will follow us forever. But here are so of the gifts that our...
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Food and Snacks
Self Care
Memorial Gifts
Hot Drinks fix things
Food and Snacks
We had so much food dropped off it was almost overwhelming. Here are some ideas to make meal times a bit easier but not a chore.
Fresh food being dropped off the first few days after loss is great. But having a food giftcard for the days a few weeks after loss when the day is a heavy day and you just can't even think about cooking is a blessing
DoorDash Gift Card
Sometimes warm bowl of soup can express support better than words. We were gifted this and it was so nice to have such a comforting meal. And it can be eaten fresh or can be frozen for later.
Spoonful of Comfort
If you know the grieving person has a favorite takeout spot, the gift being able to order their favorite meal can be the perfect pick-me-up
Gift Cards - Local Resturants
I found a gift basket with individually wrapped treats a very nice gift. Being about to have a little treat here and there in grief is a must for us.
Harry & David Gift Baskets
Self Care
Maintaining self care in grief can be difficult. Giving a gift card to a favorite spa or salon can help remind someone that there is still a person behind the grief. They deserve to be taken care of too. Getting their nails done won't take away the p...
Spa or Salon Gift Cards
We were gifted a journal when our son passed and I didn't think much of it at first. But a few days later it became my favorite gift. We turned the journal into a “Letters to our son” journal. Writing can be such an outlet for grief and is an inexpen...
Journal - for all the thoughts
Sleep can be hard when grieving and yet it is one of the most important things we can do during a difficult time. This sleep detergent and spray can help lull into much needed rest.
The Laundress Beauty Sleep Laundry Detergent 8oz
We were gifted this exact box and we love it. Its a perfect combination of things that just bring comfort. *Make sure you select the gift tag option when ordering. We didn't know who sent us this for a week!
A Warm Hug Gift Box for Women - Cozy Self Care
Crying can do a number on your skin. But having a 12 step routine to follow may not be possible in the throws of grief. Getting gifted a simple skin care routine was enought to remind me to take care of my skin but not overwhelming so
BYOMA Hydrating Starter Skincare Kit - 2.01 fl oz
We were gifted this candle and it has a really calming scent. And like it says, there are no words. But the gift of calm can be more comforting than words
LUMELOOM 9oz Lavender Sympathy Candle
Memorial Gifts
Gifting personalized or memorial gifts can be tricky. Some people have not problem with them and some like to select the ways they honor their loved one themselves. Always consider who you are gifting to. Remember not everyone is religious. Some may ...
Having a living tangible item like a plant or tree to remember someone can be very comforting to some people.
Plant with Love Memorial Tree
We were gifted a few candles and I really enjoy them all. Everytime we light them I feel like it is a little ritual to honor our little boy.
Child Loss Support Candle
While our son was not a miscarriage or stillborn, just too premature, I received a piece of memorial jewerly that carries a lot of sentiment.
HOPE LOVE SHINE Baby Loss Memorial Necklace
Hot Drinks fix things
I am a huge tea drinker. My husband loves coffee. Sometimes the gift of a warm drink can help you feel better. I have no scientific findings of this but i just know its true.
Herbal tea just brings such a peace to my body when I drink it. Something I need while navigating this hurt
One Day at a Time Herbal Tea
I was gifted this tea and it is the perfect pre-sleep drink
Yogi Cinnamon Horchata Stress + Sleep - 16ct/1.12oz