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The better sleep edit: ADHD essentials for deeper, restorative rest

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I used to struggle with sleep because of accumulated stress, constant multitasking, and my ADHD brain. These are the tools and small upgrades that genuinely helped me fall asleep faster and sleep deeper.
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Light сontrol (light = wake signal)

Light impacts melatonin production and can disrupt deep sleep cycles. Creating darkness signals safety and rest to the brain.

 
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Dim overhead lighting 60–90 minutes before bed. Switch to warm lamps only. Your brain reads this as a signal to start producing melatonin.
Ritual: “Lights Down” Rule
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A fully blackout mask with customizable eye cups. Ideal if you’re sensitive to light or travel often.
Manta Sleep Mask - 100% Light Blocking, Adjustable, Detachable Eye Cups
 
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Especially helpful in cities or during summer. True darkness improves REM cycles.
Joydeco Blackout Curtains 84 Inch, 2 Panels
 
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Soft, breathable silk option. Gentle on skin (great for 30+ skincare routines).
Alaska Bear Sleep Mask Silk Cover Eye Contour for Pressure-Free Sleeping, Upgrade Over Conventional Flat Satin Eye Masks, Machine Washable

Sound & nervous system regulation

Stress and ADHD often mean a hyper-alert nervous system. Reducing unpredictable noise and adding calming sound cues helps your body shift out of “fight-or-flight.”

 
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Before bed, write down everything still “open” in your mind. It reduces mental looping and next-day anxiety.
Ritual: 5-Minute Brain Dump
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Comfortable reusable earplugs for travel or noisy spaces.
Loop Quiet 2
 
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White noise, guided wind-down routines, and sunrise light to regulate circadian rhythm.
Hatch Restore 2 Sunrise Alarm Clock
 
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Consistent white noise blocks disruptions.
LectroFan Classic

3️⃣ Temperature control (deep sleep depends on it)

The body temperature naturally drops before sleep. If you’re too warm (very common after 30), your sleep becomes lighter and more fragmented.

 
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A warm shower 60 minutes before sleep helps trigger a temperature drop afterward — which naturally increases sleepiness.
Ritual: Warm Shower Before Bed
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Deep pressure stimulation to calm the nervous system.
Solid Cotton Weighted Blanket
 
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Actively cools or warms your mattress. Ideal if you overheat at night.
Cube: Entry-Level Heating and Cooling Mattress Pad

4️⃣ Stress reduction & wind-down support

If your brain runs on overdrive, you can’t force sleep. You have to signal safety and slow the nervous system intentionally.

 
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Slows heart rate and shifts your body from “fight-or-flight” into parasympathetic mode.
Ritual: 4-7-8 Breathing or Box Breathing
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Supports muscle relaxation and nervous system regulation.
NOW Foods Magnesium Glycinate 100 mg 180 Tablets | iHerb
 
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Helpful short-term support for travel or schedule shifts.
Sleep Blackberry Zen
 
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Lavender can promote relaxation and smoother sleep onset.
Soul & Scents Reed Diffuser Set – Lavender | 4.1 oz Refillable Scented Oil with 6 Fiber Sticks | Long-Lasting Home Fragrance & Air Freshener for Bedroom, Bathroom, Office | Gift & Décor Piece
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Use 10–20 minutes before bed to release muscle tension.
ShaktiMat Acupressure Mat for Relaxation

Bedroom comfort upgrades

Physical discomfort creates micro-awakenings you may not even notice — but they reduce deep sleep quality over time.

 
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No work, no emails, no scrolling in bed. Train your brain to associate your bed with rest.
Ritual: Bedroom = Sleep Only Rule
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Reduces friction on skin and hair.
Pillowcase - White - Standard
 
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Improves comfort without replacing your mattress.
TEMPUR-Cloud® Topper - Twin Long
 
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Customizable loft for proper neck alignment.
Original Adjustable Pillow