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Testing the Waters with Strangers
18 items
By
Natalie Yim
some people just need unsolicited relationship advice in the form of activities
11
Sections
3
Getting to Know Them
Getting Personal
Getting Lovey Dovey
Getting to Know Them
acquaintances to friends era
find out their mannerisms and what they like to eat
All-You-Can-Eat-Buffet
assess how they handle discomfort while having fun!
Cold Plunge
observe how you both communicate and solve puzzles
Escape Room
see how you both engage in solo activities but stay in each other's company
Swimming or Running
see how you both communicate and handle logistical problems
Hiking or Walking
observe how you both collaborate to make this activity special
Weekend Cruise
similar to Weekend Cruise but bring a third-party to see how the social dynamic changes
Amusement Park
even if they're not a gym rat like you, you can teach them how to spot and just hangout
Gym Spotting
find out about that person's mannerisms and what they like to eat
Food Festival
Getting Personal
friends to closer friends era
invite that person over to a party and observe their mannerisms around others
Host a Potluck Party
invite that person to your house for lunch or dinner and observe their mannerisms
Host Lunch or Dinner At Home
observe how you both collaborate, communicate, and handle logistical problems
Road Trip
similar to Road Trip
Travel to a Different Country
find out their daily eating habits
Grocery Shop
Assess their ability to commit to a new hobby or a schedule
Attend Pottery Class
see how you both communicate and handle logistical problems
Camping
Getting Lovey Dovey
closer friends to lovers era
a hotel buffet.. And maybe straight to the hotel?
Hotel Buffet
classic sober-girls-around-me-they-be-acting-like-they-drunk-k-k
Nightclub or Bar
