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Country Mama Must-Haves for Toddlers

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Out here where life moves a little slower, I’ve learned to lean into toddlerhood with intention, patience, and a few trusty tools. These are the things that help me raise secure, joyful littles—products I actually use and love as a country mama. From...
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Parenting Philosophies

 
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A game-changer in understanding what’s going on in your toddler’s brain. This one gave me practical tools that actually help when the big feelings roll in.
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Strategies to Nurture
 
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This book is like a warm hug and a wake-up call all at once. Helps me reframe tough parenting moments and show up with more connection and less frustration.
Good Inside
 
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This book educates and confirms your mama instincts to be with your child day and night! Bed sharing and breast sleeping is natural and beautiful.
Safe Infant Sleep: Expert Cosleeping Answers
 
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Powerful stories of child birthing to empower you on your journey to bringing your little one into the world? Yes, please!
Ina May's Guide to Childbirth Updated

Food Time

 
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These little cups go everywhere with us—on walks, in the car, backyard playtime. Spill-proof (except for when the toddler chooses to be savage, obviously) and easy for tiny hands to manage.
Mushie Baby Silicone Snack Cup
 
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Easy to clean, cute enough to leave out, and tough enough to handle country messes—mud, food, and all.
Silicone Baby Bib
 
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Hydration is a full-time job with toddlers. A spill-proof, easy-to-carry water bottle helps keep them drinking—especially while playing outside.
Fimibuke Kids & Toddlers 10oz Spill Proof Cup
 
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This lets them safely help at the counter during cooking or baking. Some of our sweetest slow moments happen while they “help” stir, pour, and snack along the way. And this one folds away so the toddler doesn't go on too many unwanted adventures!
COSCO 2-Step Kitchen Stepper™ Folding Stool

Play Time

 
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Open-ended toys like this keep little hands busy and minds curious. No batteries, just imagination. We love how they blend into our simple home too.
Stacking & Sorting
 
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Thoughtful, Montessori-inspired activities that support natural development. Worth the investment, especially when you’re trying to cut down on screen time and overstimulation.
Monti Kids Amazon Alternatives: 4-6 Month Play Set
 
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Simple puzzles are such a lovely, screen-free way to build confidence and focus. We love ones made from natural wood with soft colors and chunky pieces.
Wooden Puzzles For Toddlers
 
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This 32-piece suction cup bath toys are a game-changer for bath time! They easily stick to the tub, tiles, or windows, allowing endless creative play. Safe for little hands and easy to clean, these toys not only entertain but also help develop fine ...
32 PCS Silicone Ocean Animal Bath Toys
 
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Engaging in pretend play with this set not only entertains but also helps develop motor skills and hand-eye coordination. It’s an excellent way to introduce toddlers to basic chores, fostering a sense of responsibility and accomplishment.
Battat Kids Cleaning Set - Pretend Toys

Sleep Time

 
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We keep a rotating basket of cozy board books by the rocking chair. It’s our wind-down ritual before naps and bedtime, and it’s honestly one of my favorite parts of the day.
Baby Book Basket Gifts
 
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From newborn to toddler and beyond, night wakings are tough for any parent. I choose to use a red light as a night light to have less disruptions to both baby and me while still seeing what I need to do.
U4GLORY Red Night Lights 2 Pack, Dusk to Dawn Sensor

Health & Hygiene

 
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These homeopathic drops have saved our days (and nights) during tough teething stretches. Super easy to use, gentle, and fast-acting—every country mama needs these on hand.
Boiron Camilia Teething Drops for Pain Relief
 
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A must-have in our natural medicine cabinet. This herbal blend is great for calming teething pain and fussiness—plus, I feel good knowing exactly what’s in it.
Teeth Tamer- For Teething and Oral Wellness
 
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Chapped cheeks and little red noses are just part of life out here, especially with all the outdoor time. This balm is gentle, safe, and super healing—we use it all winter.
Organic Baby Face Nose & Cheek Balm
 
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Designed for external use, this oil can be gently warmed and applied to the ear to support comfort during occasional ear irritations. It’s a natural choice for parents seeking a holistic approach to their child’s ear health.
Kids mullein garlic ear oil by Herb Pharm
 
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This tincture has saved my household during cold and flu season! It really does what the product is banned after.
Earthly: Feel Better Fast Tincture
 
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When the little one isn’t breathing well from congestion, use these to push saline up and through their little nose to help get that gunk out. Add with the snot sucker and you’re golden during cold and flu season!
Baby Nasal Aspirator Sinus Rinse System 4-Pack
 
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A more hygienic way to help suck out those boogies than those old bulbs they used to use.
Frida Baby NoseFrida SnotSucker Nasal Aspirator with 24 Filters