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Glow-Up Essentials: Soft Girl Era Must-Haves
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items These are my personal faves that help me feel confident, pretty, and powerful—without breaking the bank. From my bust-down units to my soft glam staples, this is the list for any girl who’s stepping into her glow-up era with grace, beauty, and intent...
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The Hair That Starts It All
Soft Glam Staples
Pretty Details That Elevate You Instantly
Vibes, Mindset & Manifestation
Self-Care Sundays
The Hair That Starts It All
Let’s be real… the inches matter.
My glow-up starts with a laid bust-down—because when my hair’s flowing, so is my confidence.
These are the exact products I use (or dream of using soon!) to achieve that Rapunzel-coded look that makes me feel like ro...
Wearing this exact unit in the photo!
32” HD lace, beginner-friendly, and the definition of melted. I always say my glow-up starts with inches—and this is the hair that gets the compliments every time.
If you're in your soft girl era but still like t...
Fadaina 32" 13x6 Deep Curly Lace Front Wig
Turn heads and step into your baddie era with this bold 30-inch red lace front wig! Pre-plucked for a natural hairline and full of soft, flowing human hair. Perfect for glow-up photoshoots, soft girl transformations, and boss moves all year round.❤️...
30 Inch Red Lace Front Wig | Baddie Essential
Soft Glam Staples
I’m a firm believer that you don’t need a full glam squad to look like that girl. These are the must-haves I use for my soft glam looks—whether I’m taking content pics, painting, or just feeling myself in the mirror. It’s giving glowy skin, nude lips...
A soft glam essential—this foundation gives that lit-from-within glow while still letting your skin breathe. It’s lightweight, buildable, and perfect for natural baddies who love a flawless, dewy finish without looking cakey.
Light Reflecting Advanced Skincare Foundation - NARS Cosmetics
This is the eyeliner for a sharp, snatched eye look that lasts all day. The pigment is rich, jet black, and glides on smooth—no skipping, no smudging. Whether you’re going for a bold wing or tightline drama, this MAC eyeliner pen delivers precision a...
Eye Liners | MAC Cosmetics
This peel-off lip stain is a game-changer for soft glam baddies. The shade “Neutral Mauve” gives that plush, natural pout vibe that lasts all day—no reapplying, no smudging. Perfect for that clean girl aesthetic with a little extra attitude.✨
Sacheu Lip Liner Stay-N - Peel Off Lip Stain
If you grew up on beauty supply baddie vibes, these glosses are a must. Hydrating, non-sticky, and packed with nourishing oils like rosehip, mint, and coconut—this 5-pack gives you that girl shine on a budget. Swipe over your liner or bare lips and g...
Ruby Kisses Vita-Lip Clear Gloss 5 Pack
Pretty Details That Elevate You Instantly
It’s the little things. Jewelry, nails, fragrance—these are the final touches that complete the glow-up.
This is the exact nail tip set I used for my green French set (yes, that one!).
I did these myself at home and got so many compliments—they look and feel like salon nails but way more affordable. The shape is chef’s kiss, and the 15 size options made...
Misssix 150Pcs French Gel Nail Tips Long
Vibes, Mindset & Manifestation
You can’t glow-up without the right energy. These are my favorite tools for staying soft, grounded, and focused on the bigger picture.
This song feels like a spiritual reset. The lyrics, the energy, the softness—it’s like the universe speaking directly to you. I discovered it during a low point in my journey and instantly knew it was a sign. Perfect for your glow-up playlist, mornin...
Aqyila - Hello (Official Audio)
I keep these by my bed or desk and pull one when I need a mindset boost. Soft girl glow-ups start from within, and these help me stay grounded, confident, and inspired—even on off days.
Mindful Affirmations - 52 Positive Cards
A soulful release for the baddie who needs to feel it to heal it.
“Cranes in the Sky” by Solange is for the soft girl moments when your spirit is loud, but your voice is quiet. It’s a gentle reminder that real strength is sometimes found in stillness...
Solange – Cranes in the Sky | Soft Healing for the Soul✨
Self-Care Sundays
Sundays are sacred around here. Whether I’m doing a full skincare routine or soaking in the tub with candles lit and soft music playing—this is my time to reset, refocus, and love on myself. These are my go-to must-haves for the ultimate self-care ni...
This is my go-to lotion for Sunday reset vibes. After a long shower, fresh sheets, and soft music playing, I lather this on for that warm, sweet, vanilla-cloud energy. It’s giving soft, moisturized, and ‘don’t touch me unless your energy is pure.’ A ...
Shea Better Vanilla Cashmere Body Lotion by eos
This song is like soul therapy in audio form. Franchesca’s ‘Inner Me’ is calm, feminine, and healing—a soft girl anthem for anyone on a journey back to themselves. It’s perfect for journaling, painting, meditating, or simply being present. Whenever I...
Franchesca - Inner Me
I use this 2–3x a week for smooth, glowing skin. It smells like summer and leaves my body baby soft—plus, it’s affordable and easy to find. A must-have for that radiant soft girl energy.✨
Tree Hut Vitamin C Shea Sugar Scrub, 18 oz
This helps keep my space cute and organized. I love having all my glosses, lashes, and everyday faves in one place—it makes getting ready feel like a luxe routine, not a mess.
Makeup Organizer with Transparent Cover
Smells like luxury without the price tag!
Yara by Ard Al Zaafaran is a sweet, creamy, soft girl scent that gives vanilla, musk, floral, and femininity all in one.
If you love pretty, powdery perfumes that linger all day and make people ask what you'r...
Yara Perfume by Ard Al Zaafaran