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Newborn & New Mama Starter Kit

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The early days with a newborn can be beautiful, messy, and a little overwhelming — this list is here to make it easier. These are my must-have essentials for both baby and mama, thoughtfully chosen to bring comfort, convenience, and calm to your new ...
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Must Have’s for Mama

 
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This is better than just your basic peri bottle. I love that it has the curve to spray water directly to the area all while being able to easily hold the bottle. This is such an essential to keep everything clean!
Frida Mom Upside Down Peri Bottle
 
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Do yourself a favor and grab a box of these for when you get home from the hospital. These are so much more comfortable and stretchy than what the hospitals give you. They also look way better under your clothes than the hospitals give ones. I would ...
Frida Mom Disposable Postpartum Underwear Boy Shorts Briefs - Regular 8ct
 
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This is perfect to pair with the ice pads! It helps to reduce inflammation as well and it promotes healing down there. Another must have!
Frida Mom Perineal Witch Hazel Healing Foam
 
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Do yourself a favor and grab some pajamas that button down for when you’re freshly postpartum and breastfeeding. This makes your night breastfeeding sessions so much more convenient when you’re exhausted.
Women's Cloud Knit Short Sleeve Notch Collar Top and Shorts Pajama Set - Auden™ Navy Blue XL: Modal-Spandex Blend, Button Down
 
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So comfy and adorable. Perfect for those long nights up nursing! Easy access and quick to get baby latched.
Drop Cup Nursing Maternity Pajama Set - Isabel Maternity by Ingrid & Isabel™ Pink XS: V Neck, Modal Blend
 
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When I tell you these saved me down below, I quite literally mean it. These greatly helped reduce swelling and brought so much relief. I’ve used these after having each kid and I will not go without for any future kids!!
Instant Ice Maxi Pads – Frida | The fuss stops here.

Breastfeeding Must Haves

 
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If you plan to breastfeed, you simply must have these! I had mastitis twice and I can promise you, you don’t want that if you can prevent it. Once I started taking these, I never got it again. You just take 1 a day and it’ll do the trick. No side eff...
Legendairy Milk Sunflower Lecithin - 60ct
 
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Thank God for these! You’ll want these in the first few weeks of breastfeeding. Give you SO much relief. For extra cooling effect, place it in the fridge prior to applying. I LOVED these.
Frida Mom Cooling Hydrogel Nipple Pads - 8ct
 
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I love this stuff for SO many reason. It goes on so easily, but most importantly… it’s all NATURAL. Completely safe for you and baby 🩷
Earth Mama Organics Nipple Butter Breastfeeding Cream - 2 fl oz
 
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You’re going to need a couple good nursing bras! This one is so comfy and wears well for a longgg time. Plus I love the racerback!
Women's Nursing Bralette - Auden™ White XS: Racerback, Pullover, One-Handed Cup Release
 
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This one wins over all other nursing bras for me! I actually still wear it and it’s been almost a year since I’ve last breastfed! It’s SO comfy. It gives great support and made my life so much easier.
Momcozy Hands-Free Nursing & Wearable Pumping Bra - Beige - XXL
 
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I’m not breastfeeding anymore and I still crave these. These are SO good. I would have 1 pack a day and noticed I pumped a couple extra ounces a day once I started using these. They’re so good that even my toddler would ask for some!
Munchkin Milkmakers Lactation Cookie Bites - Oatmeal Chocolate Chip - 20oz/10ct
 
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This stuff not only tastes good, but it works!!! I would have these once or twice a day along with my milk cookies and noticed a big spike in my milk production.
UpSpring MilkFlow Drink Mix Breastfeeding Supplement with Electrolytes - Berry Flavor - 16ct

Newborn Must Haves

 
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This is by far the best diaper paste. If my little ones had any sort of diaper rash this would make a huge difference just after ONE application and then it’d be completely gone in 1 day! Every momma needs this for their little ones.
Boudreaux's Butt Paste Baby Diaper Rash Cream Maximum Strength - 4oz
 
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I bought this monitor for my second baby and wish I would have bought it for my first! It is seriously worth every penny. I can sleep peacefully every night knowing that if anything were to happen, this monitor would wake me up. It monitors their bre...
Nanit Pro Camera and Wall Mount
 
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Once I started using this, I never looked back. It’s the only wash we use for our babies now. I love that it has safe and effective ingredients. This is a staple for a newborn.
The Honest Company Sensitive Shampoo + Body Wash Fragrance Free - 10 fl oz
 
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Love these! The Velcro works so well to keep baby nice and swaddled! The material is a nice material, not too thin and not too thick. These are a must have for every baby!
Swaddle Blankets for Baby Girl & Boy 3 Pack Sleep Sack Velcro by Comfy Cubs (Small 0-3 Months, Gray)
 
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These are so nice for newborns. They can’t see all the colors for the first couple weeks so the black and white contrast really catches their eyes and gives them something to focus on.
Tummy Time Toys Set: High Contrast Book, Toy Block, Crinkle Paper & Teether - Sensory Development Toys for Newborns & Infants 0-6 Months
 
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Love this sound machine. I love that I can control all the sounds, light, and volume right from my phone since it connects! This is honestly great for when they become toddlers too because then you can use the different colors to help teach them when...
Hatch Rest 2nd Gen All-in-one Sleep Machine, Nightlight & Sound Machine
 
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Love this kit. It is so helpful for their first sickness and then thereafter. Every momma needs this for their baby to help get them through their first colds. It really helps clear their sinuses to make breathing easier for them.
Frida Baby Breathe Easy Kit Sick Day Essentials with Vapor Wipes, Vapor Rub and Vapor Drops
 
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Thank goodness there is no more using your mouth to suck snot out!! This is so nice and works so well to gently remove all the snot to clear their noses. Can’t say how much I love this!
Frida Baby Electric NoseFrida Nasal Aspirator - 5pc
 
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This is truly a must. I hate taking sharp clippers to fragile little fingers. This works so well and is safe for baby and takes stress of the parents when it’s time to trim little nails!
Frida Baby Electric Nail Buffer - Baby Nail File, Nail Clippers + Trimmer Kit - 4 Buffer Pads, LED Light + Case
 
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I used this and the first time it took almost all the cradle cap off. I used it again and my baby’s head looked so clean and smooth. I love this thing!
Frida Baby DermaFrida The FlakeFixer 3-Step Cradle Cap System
 
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So helpful in removing cradle cap and keeping baby’s head nice and smooth. Simple to use in the bath and rinses well.
Frida Baby FlakeFixer Cradle Cap Scalp Spray + Scalp Mask Duo - 5 fl oz/2pc