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My Healing Library: Self-Help Books That Changed My Life
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items A hand-picked collection of self-help books that guided me through healing, self-discovery, and transformation. Each one offered a different kind of peace — from rewiring my mindset to rediscovering self-worth.
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A timeless guide that reshaped how I set priorities, protect my energy, and live with purpose. It’s less about productivity and more about integrity in action.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
A short but powerful mindset shift: stop chasing, start allowing. This book taught me the calm confidence that comes from letting people and situations reveal who they really are.
The Let Them Theory: Life-Changing Tool
A deep, compassionate look at self-responsibility in love and healing. Jillian’s words remind me that emotional maturity isn’t about perfection — it’s about awareness and choice.
It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
Poetic and grounding, this book turned self-reflection into a love language. Every page feels like a gentle reminder that growth and connection always start within.
How to Love Better: The Path to Deeper Connection Through Growth, kindness, and compassion
A breakthrough book on attachment styles and emotional patterns. It helped me understand not only my relationships but also how safety and intimacy are built — not found.
The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--and Keep Love
Equal parts memoir and philosophy, it’s about trusting detours and embracing chaos. I highlighted nearly every page — it’s raw, funny, and surprisingly spiritual.
Greenlights
Short, digestible essays that hit straight to the soul. I open this one whenever I need clarity, perspective, or a reminder that growth can be both beautiful and uncomfortable.
101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
A story about destiny, intuition, and the courage to follow your own path. It reminded me that what we seek is often already within us — we just need to listen.
The Alchemist: Modern Classic of Magic
A deeply insightful guide on how self-awareness and emotional intelligence shape our connections. It helped me see that healing isn’t just about self-love — it’s also about learning to honor, understand, and grow with the people around us.
The Value of Others: Economic Model of Relationships
Written by a divorce lawyer who’s seen every side of love, this book reveals what keeps relationships alive — honesty, effort, and daily choice. It reminded me that love isn’t something you find once; it’s something you keep choosing every day.
How to Stay in Love: Divorce Lawyer's Guide
A brutally honest look at why relationships fall apart, told by a divorce lawyer who’s seen it all. It taught me that protecting love means paying attention long before things break — awareness is the real act of care.
If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late
A powerful reminder that wealth isn’t just math — it’s mindset. This book reshaped how I think about success, patience, and emotional balance when it comes to money and life decisions.
The Psychology of Money