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Books on getting your shit together
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items This list is for moments when you’re done circling the problem.
Not overwhelmed—decided.
These books are about order, not inspiration.
Clarity, not comfort.
They help you stop leaking energy, end self-sabotage, and move from scattered effort to deli...
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How to develop self-love and positive self concept. Self esteem and standards mindset for a soft life
People skills
Pussy Power; For women only
Money Mentality
How to develop self-love and positive self concept. Self esteem and standards mindset for a soft life
Self love and positive self concept are the main factors in getting a soft life.
Teaches how to Believe in yourself and in everything you do
The Power of Positive Thinking: 10 Traits for Maximum Results|Paperback
Helps overthinkers get out of their own heads.
Don't Believe Everything You Think (Expanded Edition): Why Your Thinking Is The Beginning & End Of Suffering|Hardcover
Why we need to not be so hard on ourselves.
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma|eBook
People skills
Tired of “dealing with people’s bs?” Let’s start making the, deal with OUR bs instead. It’s more fun that way. Dontcha think? 😏
This one is pretty self-explanatory
How To Be Slightly Condescending & Get away with it|eBook
They Push Your Buttons, Drain Your Energy, and Make Life Miserable-Here's How to Stop Them
Dealing With Difficult People: A Survival Guide to Outsmart Manipulators, Set Boundaries, and Take Back Your Peace and Power
Love.
Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things|Hardcover
Getting out of my people pleasing ways , this was my first book on it.
Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling ...
No more people pleasing
Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power|eBook
I gotta stop anticipating other peoples needs before taking care of my own. This book helps.
Are You Mad at Me?: How to Stop Focusing on What Others Think and Start Living for You|Hardcover
Let them and see what they choose to do. You decide from there whether to detach or not based on your standards.
The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can't Stop Talking About|Hardcover
This book changed my life by teaching me about following my intuition . Great read. Try it.
The Alchemist (25th Anniversary Edition) by Paulo Coelho, Paperback
This book changed my life by teaching me about following my intuition . Great read. Try it.
The Alchemist (25th Anniversary Edition) by Paulo Coelho, Paperback
This book changed my life by teaching me about following my intuition . Great read. Try it.
The Alchemist (25th Anniversary Edition) by Paulo Coelho, Paperback
This book changed my life by teaching me about following my intuition . Great read. Try it.
The Alchemist (25th Anniversary Edition) by Paulo Coelho, Paperback
I love How to Win Friends and Influence People 🤍📘
Not because it teaches manipulation.
Not because it’s about “influence” in a loud, salesy way 🚫📣
I love it because it teaches respect 🧠
Real listening 👂
And the quiet power of making people fe...
How to Win Friends and Influence People|Audiobook
I love How to Win Friends and Influence People 🤍📘
Not because it teaches manipulation.
Not because it’s about “influence” in a loud, salesy way 🚫📣
I love it because it teaches respect 🧠
Real listening 👂
And the quiet power of making people fe...
How to Win Friends and Influence People|Audiobook
Pussy Power; For women only
Embracing your rage, getting what you want, pussy power.
I’ve been meaning to read this for so long!
Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship|Paperback
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I was tired of being “nice” to everyone at the expense of my own sanity. This book helped say fuck it. It gave me the game plan to change my whole mentality about my own divine feminine rage
How To Be A BITCH|eBook
What if every choice you made wasn’t truly your own? Every day, unseen psychological triggers shape how you think, feel, and act, whether it’s a persuasive smile in a meeting, the phrasing of an ad, or the charm of a leader’s words. The disturbing tr...
Mind Control Strategies: Master Dark Psychology, NLP, Emotional Intelligence, and Body Language to Analyze People, Detect Lies, Influence Thoughts, and Use Covert Manipulation Without Being Detected|eBook
A positive self concept book? Yes please!
Be Your Own Bestie: A No-Nonsense Guide to Changing the Way You Treat Yourself|Hardcover
Allowing my feminine rage to express herself from now on after this book
Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women's Anger
Letting my inner rebel out
Crash Baby Crash: Living Dabrowski's Theory of Positive ...
Want to learn how to stand up for yourself, stop over explaining, stop people pleasing? Read this.
The Cost of Being the Good Girl|eBook
Love reading about the psychology of SEX
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships|eBook
funny nice nasty comebacks for stupid people
How To Be NICE NASTY|eBook
Money Mentality
Books on money mindset changes for the better.
Wisdom Takes Work reminds us that the pursuit of wisdom is lifelong, challenging, and ultimately, the most worthwhile work we can undertake. As I've learned through years of study and re-reading, there's always something new to uncover, always anothe...
Wisdom Takes Work: Learn. Apply. Repeat.|Hardcover
Doing well with money isn’t necessarily about what you know. It’s about how you behave. And behavior is hard to teach, even to really smart people.
The Psychology of Money: Timeless Lessons on Wealth, Greed, and Happiness|Paperback