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For the Alt Teens Who Don’t Do Beige🦇🖤

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Inspired by my teens for your teens or my fellow alt moms ! This list is for the bold, the spiked, the eyeliner-smudged icons Whether you’re a parent looking to understand your alt teen’s style or you're rediscovering your own, this collection is her...
 
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Ok. This tote is a must. A need and a want ! I literally screamed when I saw it ! 🖤🖤
Lil Pergs Tote Bag in Fairway Green| Vans US
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These shoes said: soft goth but make it fashion. Chunky heel, double strap, and just the right mix of cute + rebellious. They give vintage school uniform vibes one day and full-blown concert fit the next. 🖤 Dress ‘em up, wear ‘em with fishnets, or ...
Ulalaza Women Mary Jane Lolita Platform Pumps
 
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👜 Skull Embossed Rivet Shoulder Bag – For the Ones Who Carry Boldness With Them This bag is for anyone whose style leans a little darker and a little louder. The embossed skulls and rivet details make it a standout piece, but it’s also practical, du...
BelonYou Women Punk Skull Rivet Handbag
 
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Affordable option ! Got this for both my son and daughter .. If you don’t have a studded belt, are you even in your alt era? This one’s giving full Warped Tour flashbacks. Chunky metal, pyramid studs, and just enough ✨attitude✨ to tie a whole fit tog...
SNCEAW Studded Metal Punk Rock Rivet Belt
 
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Another teen approved purchase .. Leather, chain, a little vintage edge they add just enough attitude to any outfit without trying too hard. Perfect for stacking or wearing solo, depending on the vibe. 🖤 For the teen who’s all about that throwback ...
Eigso Leather Punk Rock Chain Cuff Bracelets
 
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Something about black obsidian just feels right. Grounding, bold, and handmade this bracelet adds that subtle, earthy edge to any alt fit. Whether they're into energy, aesthetics, or just like a solid stackable piece, it fits the vibe. 🖤 Adjustable...
QOGIR Handmade 4mm Black Obsidian Bracelet
 
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🖤 Goth Shirt | Fake Two-Piece Grunge Long Sleeve Top – Alternative Clothing Must-Have 🖤 Serve dark energy with this gothic long sleeve top that looks like a layered two-piece without the bulk. It’s the perfect blend of grunge vibes and streetwear ...
Gothic Fake Two-Piece Long Sleeve Top
 
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DC Gaveler Skate Shoes , Timeless Style for Alt Guys Who Keep It Real These classic DC skate shoes are more than just a throwback they’re a staple for teens (and adults) who lean into comfort, individuality, and timeless street style. Whether your te...
DC Men's Gaveler Skate Shoe, 10 Black
 
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🖤 Alt-Approved Kicks for Every Fit Whether you're going for skater-core, 90s grunge, or just classic cool, these Converse-style sneakers are the ultimate wardrobe chameleons. Blacked-out, crisp white, or somewhere in between throw these on and go f...
Adults' Converse Chuck Taylor All Star Canvas Hi Sneakers
 
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🖤 Gothic Mary Janes With Heart Buckles These darling platforms are everything. My daughter spotted them and immediately gasped, “😱 I love them!!” so they’ve officially been added to her birthday wishing . Edgy but still sweet perfect for the alt t...
FOREADA Kawii Bow Pearl Lolita Heels
 
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Because no alt outfit is complete without a choker 💀🖤 My daughter and I both agreed this 10-pack of velvet chokers is such a steal. Whether she’s going for soft goth, grunge, or that early 2000s Hot Topic vibe, there’s a style in here for every mo...
PAXCOO 10PCS Black Velvet Choker Necklaces
 
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Already on my teen’s wishlist 🖤 This plaid mini skirt with the corset-style waist was an instant yes from my daughter. She’s got a bold, alternative style and loved the edgy, yet wearable vibe. It’s cute with fishnets, sneakers, boots you name it. ...
IDEALSANXUN Gothic High Waist Plaid Mini Skirt
 
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These boots? Absolutely everything. The look of the Doc Martens Molly without the price tag? Yes, ma’am. Chunky sole, shiny finish, and that perfect edge that pulls an outfit together. Whether you're an alt teen, a baddie on a budget, or a mom trying...
Dr. Martens Women's Molly Combat Boot
 
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🖤 KANT (like CAN’T… but more dramatic) For those days when you literally just KANT. Whether you're over it, done, or just embracing the chaos this embroidered beanie says it all without you having to say a word. 🧵 High-quality stitching 🖤 Soft, co...
Beanie Hat, Dramatic Sarcastic Funny Embroidered Knit Cap, Winter Headwear, Winter Accessory, Gift for Him, Gift for Her, Winter Fashion
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Hot Topic – the OG for all things band tees, chains, anime, and edgy teen-core
Hot Topic
 
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🌿 Forest-core but make it alt. This corduroy shoulder bag from Hot Topic is giving mushroom girl meets campus goth. The deep green color and embroidered forest creatures make it perfect for cozy alt fits, forest walks, or hauling your crystals, jour...
Forest Creatures & Mushrooms Green Corduroy Shoulder Bag
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🖤 For the inner emo that never left. This Pierce The Veil “Skeletons Collide” tee is a full vibe dark, raw, and nostalgic. The maroon shade hits different, and that skeleton artwork? Chef’s kiss for anyone still in their fearless girl era. It’s giv...
Pierce The Veil Skeletons Collide Girl Boyfriend Fit Girls T-Shirt | Hot Topic
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Got this for my son who’s stretching his septum it’s got all the sizes, and it didn’t cost a small fortune. Solid quality, especially for the price. He liked the spike horseshoe the most (of course 😅). If your teen is experimenting with piercings or...
LOLIAS 16G-6G Septum Pincher Tapers Rings
 
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If your kid’s stretching anything ears, septum, patience 😅 this is the good stuff. 100% organic jojoba oil, travel-size, cold-pressed, and no weird ingredients. We use it for ear stretching and it helps with dryness, irritation, and sliding jewelry ...
USDA Organic Jojoba Oil 1oz - Pure, Cold Pressed
 
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If your teen is deep in their “dark graphic phase” or you secretly never left yours, Affliction is where it’s at. Think bold prints, distressed details, and that IDGAF energy. Pricey? Yeah, a little but the quality actually holds up. Great for gifts,...
Affliction Clothing – Live Fast
 
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Zumiez is like a rite of passage for alt teens graphic tees, oversized hoodies, skater shoes, and enough chains to trigger every school dress code. If your kid lives in band tees and Vans, this is their playground. Great place to grab gifts or let th...
Zumiez: Clothing Stores for Skate shoes, Skateboards ...
 
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Did you know Ross stocks Affliction style tees and big name skateboard brands like Vans and Element? Budget baddie jackpot. 🖤🛹
Ross Dress for Less
 
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Adding this bag to my wish list ASAP! My daughter may even be able to use it for school?! Yes please!
Angelkiss Large Daily Hobo Satchel Bag
 
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This bag! 😍 with the wallet 😍😍 a little pricey but Christmas is around the corner right now?! 😉
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