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Mom Life: Barely Surviving Edition✨️
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items Things I actually use as a mom of 3 when I’m tired, overwhelmed, and just trying to keep it together. Nothing unrealistic, nothing overhyped—if it’s here, it’s because I reach for it in real life.
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🧼 Cleaning That Actually Works
🧺 Laundry & Organization
✨ Self-Care That Feels a Little Extra
Mom must have essentials!!!
🧼 Cleaning That Actually Works
This is everything I actually use to keep up with cleaning as a mom — not perfect, just what works. I don’t use one thing for everything, I use different things depending on the mess. These are the products I reach for daily, from quick cleanups to d...
This is what I use for quick daily cleanups when I just want things to look put together fast. It’s lightweight, easy to grab, and strong enough to handle everyday messes without pulling out a full vacuum. It is definitely more of a splurge, so I kee...
Dyson V15 Detect Cordless Vacuum
This was actually a gift, and I didn’t expect to love it as much as I do. It vacuums and washes at the same time, and I can literally get my floors looking clean just using water, which surprised me. The battery life is really good, it self-cleans, a...
Dyson Wash G1 (vacuum + mop in one)
This is what I use for more detailed cleaning — like corners, baseboards, and even walls. It gets into places machines don’t, and I keep going back to it because it just works. You can also throw the mop head in the wash, which makes it super easy to...
Vileda Spin Mop (for detailed cleaning & walls)
This is the one I use for actual messes (food, crumbs, kid chaos) so I don’t have to worry about ruining my nicer vacuum. It’s not fancy, but it works, and I reach for it when I just need something that gets the job done fast.
Bissell Multi-Cyclonic Vacuum (for real messes)
This is one of those cleaning products I keep reaching for again and again. The Scrub Mommy Power Paste cuts through tough grease, soap scum, and stuck-on messes so easily — especially on my sink, stovetop, and bathtub. I love that it’s powerful but ...
Scrub Daddy PowerPaste Natural Cleanser
This feels almost silly to post because it’s such an obvious everyday staple, but I literally use Dawn Powerwash nonstop. I spray it, wait a few seconds, and grease and stuck-on food just wipe away. No filling the sink, no extra scrubbing — it just w...
Dawn Ultra Platinum Powerwash Dish Soap Spray, Assorted Scents, 473 mL | Canadian Tire Product Page
This little steam cleaner is a game changer. Heats up fast, actually cleans (not just wipes), and I love that I can use it on everything — couch, bathroom, carpets, even my car. No harsh chemicals, which is huge with kids. Makes me feel way more prod...
KOITAT Portable Handheld Steam Cleaner Kit
The Swiffer Sweep & Mop Pro Starter Kit is one of my favorite quick-clean tools when I don’t want to pull out the full mop and bucket. It works as both a sweeper and mop, which makes everyday messes way easier to deal with — especially in the kit...
Swiffer Sweeper Pro limited edition WICKED pink
These are one of my house hold staples that just makes life easier. The spin bucket keeps the mop perfectly damp (not soaking), the microfiber head picks up everything, and it’s super quick for everyday messes. As a busy mom, this is one of my go-to ...
Vileda EasyWring RinseClean Spin Mop Bucket System – Canadian Tire (1426350P)
🧺 Laundry & Organization
My go-to for real stains—food, dirt, mystery kid messes. I spray it, let it sit, and it does the work for me.
OxiClean MaxForce Stain Remover (for tough stains)
This is what I use for heavier loads or when clothes are actually dirty. I like using a cold water detergent so I don’t have to think about settings, and it still cleans really well. It’s just one of those basics I always keep on hand.
Tide Coldwater Liquid Detergent Heavier Loads
These are what I use for quick, everyday loads when I don’t feel like measuring anything. Super easy, and they leave clothes smelling clean without doing anything extra.
Tide PODS (April Fresh – everyday laundry)
I didn’t realize how much I needed these until I started using them—no more lost socks or ruined clothes. I use them for underwear, bras, and especially my lacy shirts so they don’t get snagged or stretched in the wash.
Mesh Laundry Bags Set for Delicates & Socks
This is what I use for my no-fold laundry system with fabric drawers, and it honestly makes life so much easier. Instead of folding everything, I just sort clothes into each cube and I’m done. It keeps everything organized without the extra work, whi...
IKEA KALLAX Shelving Unit (no-fold laundry system setup)
These are what I use for my no-fold laundry system with my KALLAX shelves. I just sort clothes into each bin instead of folding, and it saves so much time. They fit perfectly, are super affordable, and make keeping things organized way easier.
IKEA Fabric Bins (perfect for KALLAX no-fold system)
Same idea as my IKEA bins, just a more structured and aesthetic version. These are great if you want something that holds its shape more or looks a bit more put together while still doing the no-fold system.
Fabric Storage Bins - Structured & Aesthetic
These are one of those small things that make a big difference. I use them to cut down drying time and keep clothes soft without always needing dryer sheets. Everything comes out less wrinkled and dries way faster.
Organic Wool Dryer Balls - Natural Softener
✨ Self-Care That Feels a Little Extra
Some of these I bought, some were gifts, some were from sales, but they’re the ones I reach for when I want to feel a little more put together. Not everything I own, just the ones I actually use.
This saves me on days I absolutely do not feel like washing my hair. Makes it look fresh in like 30 seconds & it also is made specifically for DARK hair, no white cast!
Mini Dry Shampoo Dark Tones - Moroccanoil | Sephora
The Loving Tan 2HR Express Ultra Dark delivers a rich, airbrushed glow with that flawless, deep olive tone — no filters needed, just luxury skin in a bottle. 🤎☁️
Develops in just 2 hours for an instant, deep bronze
Natural olive undertone for a s...
2 HR Express Mousse ULTRA DARK - Loving Tan |
✨ Weightless bronzing water mist for a natural, golden glow
💦 No rinse needed — just spritz and glow
🌿 Infused with hyaluronic acid & green mandarin water for deep hydration
🌞 Gradually builds a customizable, sun-kissed tan
🤎 Streak-free, tra...
“Sunshine in a spritz ☁️💦 The St. Tropez Purity Face Mist is my secret to that effortless, golden glow ✨️
Love the st tropez self tanning mitt so soft & makes the application flawless 😍
Double Sided Luxe Tan Applicator Mitt - St. Tropez | Sephora
“Deep, dark, and ready in 2 hours—your glow just leveled up with Loving Tan Platinum.”
“Fast tan, flawless finish, endless radiance.”
2 HR express platinum dark || LOVING TAN ❤️❤️
After using a body / sugar scrub I always go in with this exfoliating mitt and literally exfoliate everywhere! Getting off all the dead skin to prep my body for a fresh new tan! 🥳
Tan Build Up Remover Mitt - St. Tropez | Sephora
This actually works SO well. Removes old self-tan without harsh scrubbing and doesn’t dry out my skin. Left me smooth and ready for a fresh tan. Super gentle but effective — love it! 🧴✨
Purity Excel 60 Second Tan Remover (440ml)
Perfect for prepping your skin before self-tanning. This dry brush gently exfoliates, removing dead skin so your tan goes on smoother and more even. Helps prevent patchiness and streaks, especially on elbows, knees, and ankles.
Easy to use, not too h...
2 Pack Dry Brush for Lymphatic Drainage
✨️✨️Always Exfoliate 24 hours before – Use a gentle body scrub or exfoliating mitt to remove dry skin and old tan. Smooth skin = streak free glow ✨️✨️
Tree Hut Tropic Glow Firming Sugar Scrub exfoliate 💦
This is one of those quietly effective shampoos that just works. The caffeine formula leaves my scalp feeling super clean and refreshed, and my hair looks stronger and less flat at the roots with regular use. It has a fresh, clean scent (not overly p...
Alpecin Coffein-Shampoo C1 - 8.45 oz /250 ml - fresh from Germany
I'm not promoting gambling, but this is definitely my favorite site to play on when I do play. The first 3 pictures are pictures of my actual winnings. This site has literally 5 minute withdrawals e transferred right into your bank, or you can also u...
Stake: Online Casino & Sports Betting - IN MY PERSONAL OPINION, playing here & there is a perfect way done wind after it's been a LOONG day
I’ve always had fine/thinning hair, so I wear extensions pretty often, and this is one of the few oils I’ll actually use with them. A lot of oils either make my natural hair look flat or make the extensions feel too heavy, but this one doesn’t. I use...
Kérastase Elixir Ultime Hair Oil (Refillable Bottle)
Just the refill for the Kérastase oil I use — I prefer this over rebuying the full bottle.
Kérastase Elixir Ultime Refill Oil (The one I actually repurchase 🤍)
I’ve always had thinner hair, so I use this when I’m dealing with shedding or just want my hair to feel a bit stronger. It’s lightweight, doesn’t make my scalp greasy, and easy to keep up with.
Nioxin Hair Fall Defense Serum (for thinning hair)
Mom must have essentials!!!
A mix of things I’ve bought, been gifted (even random Christmas gifts), or just ended up loving. Some are practical, some are a little extra, but they all make my day-to-day life easier.
The ninja slushie has literally changed my mornings, im not a huge coffee drinker but still need the energy during school days, so with this i can literally make Starbucks ice caps in less then 30 minutes & the ingredients are all sold at my loca...
Ninja Slushi ™ Professional Frozen Drink Maker
I didn’t understand the Stanley hype… now I’m emotionally attached. My water stays cold forever, I barely have to refill it, and the handle is perfect for my mom-on-the-go life. It fits in my cup holder, doesn’t leak, and lowkey forces me to drink wa...
The Activate Shaker Bottle | 20 OZ | 0.59 L
I use these when I clean or just need a break. Sound is good and they don’t fall out, plus the noise cancelation literally makes it feel like a mini party is going on in my head 🥳
Beats Powerbeats Pro 2 - High-Performance Earbuds - Jet Black, High-Performance Earbuds - Quick Sand - Walmart.ca
I honestly love this bento lunchbox for busy mom life. The separate compartments make packing lunches so much easier — no soggy snacks and no food touching that shouldn’t be touching 🙃. I also love that it saves me from wasting a million little Zipl...
Bentgo Pop Leak-Proof Lunch Box with Removable Divider - Periwinkle/Pink
❄️✨ Manitoba Mukluks ❄️✨️— where heritage meets luxury comfort. Handcrafted with love, made to last through every winter adventure
Ultra-warm & insulated: Designed to withstand extreme cold while keeping your feet cozy.
Genuine materials: Made ...
Waterproof Snowy Owl Mukluks
Slip into the UGG Baily Bow || — your everyday companion for warmth and style
Soft and plush: Premium UGGshear™ lining keeps feet warm and cushioned.
Flexible comfort: Lightweight construction for all-day wear.
Cute bow detail: Adds a playful, fem...
Chic comfort meets cozy vibes 🌸✨ UGG classic Baily Bow ||
I love my Apple Watch Series 11 mostly because it makes busy-mom life easier. I can check texts, set timers, and see reminders without constantly grabbing my phone (which is usually in another room or buried in a bag anyway).
It also helps me stay a...
Apple Watch Series 11 (GPS) 42mm Rose Gold Aluminum Case ...