Here are popular Lifestyle party themes. Themes help your guests know what to wear, and what to expect, and give you a reason to dress up. I am a fan of keeping themes simple. Remember people are spending money on outfits to attend so be considerate.
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Pajamas
Fire and Ice
Rave
Robes
Bring a Toy
Sleepover
Pajamas
Simple theme when you can't think of another theme. Everyone shows up in their favorite comfy pajamas.
The trick for pajamas, go soft and light. You will overheat in thick pajamas.
Amazon.com: Pajamas For Women - Prime Eligible
For men, long pants are sexy
Amazon.com: Mens Pajamas
Pillow fight! Get cheap pillow cases, fill with clothes and boom, soft and playful
Amazon.com: Pillowcases
So comfortable and soft. Great for cuddling on a couch.
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Easy spin on pajama party. Onesies!
Amazon.com: Onesie
Fire and Ice
Fire and Ice Is a classic LS party theme. Couples can mix and match, and decorations are easy to figure out. The trick with Fire and Ice is balance. You want to represent both elements in your decorations.
Start here. Be creative.
Amazon.com: Fire And Ice Party Decorations
Outfits!
Women's Rave Outfits and Festival Clothing - iHeartRaves
Also applicable for raves
Rave Wonderland
Rave
Who doesn't love a good rave? Decorations are easy, a couple of lights and neon glowing stuff.
Start here. You can go cheap on the swag and glow lights
Amazon.com: Rave Decorations
Lights! Lights are what you need for a good rave party. I recommend at least two backlights, a spinning ball light, maybe a few laser effects.
Amazon.com: Rave Lights
For clothes for a rave, ask yourself are you ever going to wear this stuff again or in public? Go cost effective.
Amazon.com: Rave Clothes
Good speakers are an investment that you can use for multiple parties. Whatever speakers you go with, make sure they can link together so you can play music everywhere.
Speakers | JBL
Suggest body-safe, UV-reactive paints for creating glowing patterns and designs. Ideal for hands-on body art sessions!
Amazon.com: Glow Body Paint
Robes
Everyone arrives, disrobes and puts on their favorite robe. Caution this will get frisky fast.
Men's Robes. Go light. You don't want to be bundled up in a thick hot robe all night.
Mens Robes | Amazon.com
Whatever robe you get, make sure you are okay with it getting dirty.
Women's Robes - Amazon.com
Cheap towels for the win. Something for your naked guests to sit on.
Amazon.com: Best White Bath Towels
Bring a Toy
Everyone brings their favorite sex toy to share. Make sure you have cleaning wipes on hand for this one.
I can't recommend every single possible sex toy out there. But I can recommend you clean them between sessions
#ToyLife Misting Toy Cleaner, All-Purpose
Spoil your guests. Think fancy spa for what you might need
Massage Table Sheets, Blankets, Warmers, and Spa Towels
You could get a dedicated squirt blanket…
Waterproof Blanket for Bed Intimacy
Or get a pet blanket…same thing, but cheaper
Amazon.com: Waterproof Pet Blankets
Sleepover
Recreate the fun of an 80s sleepover with your sexy friends. Bonus, everyone gets to stay the night.
Nothing says sleepover like sexy loungewear! Opt for silky camisole sets for her and comfy yet flattering joggers for him. Look for pieces that are easy to slip on—and off.
Keep the theme fun with matching pajamas for couples or cheeky prints like “Naughty & Nice.” Bonus points for tear-away options that make things easy when the action starts.
Women's Pajama Sets
Couples matching underwear sets. Sexy and cute
About | MeUndies
Create cozy nooks for mingling or more with soft, oversized blankets and pillows. Look for washable options for easy cleanup after the fun.
Amazon.com: Plush Blanket
Set the scene with LED candles or string lights for a soft glow. Dimmable options add a touch of romance while keeping things practical.
Amazon.com: Campfire Light
Two words…glow twister
Amazon.com: Glow In The Dark Body Paint
Add glow paint. Good thing, that mat is waterproof.
Amazon.com: Twister Game
Perfect for sensory play or just enhancing anticipation. Choose satin or leather options to match the mood.
Sleep Masks - Sleep & Snoring Aids
1980s candy!
1980's Retro Candy Gift Box - Decade Basket
Find a two person sleeping bag. Have fun.
Amazon.com: Camping Sleeping Bags - Camping …
You are an adult. You can play seven minutes in heaven all you want.
7 Minutes- Sand Timer
Decades
Pick a decade, any decade. Do outfits and decorations to match.
Bring out the flapper dresses, pearl necklaces, and suspenders! Opt for fringe, feathers, and fedoras for a seductive Gatsby vibe.
Roaring 20s Fashion: A Timeless Trend That …
Fabulous 50s: Greaser & Pin-Up Style
50s Fashion for Women (How to Get the 1950s Style)
Channel your inner flower child with tie-dye, fringe vests, and peace sign accessories. Body glitter and face gems add a bit of sparkle!
Groovy 1960s Hippie Music - Pop Culture Madness
It’s all about sequins, bell-bottoms, and platforms! Suggest sparkly jumpsuits and gold accessories to keep things glitzy.
Studio 54 Fashion: The Most Iconic Looks from the Legendary Club
Neon fishnets, mesh tops, and fingerless gloves scream 80s. Big hair and leg warmers seal the deal!
The Popularity of Neon in the 80s | 80s Fashion Blog - About the 80s
This exists!
Amazon.com: Pop Up Photo Booth
Mardi Gras
Mardi Gras can be any time of year. Plus decorations are on sale after Mardi Gras
You can't do Mardi Gras without a mountain of beads! Choose metallic purples, greens, and golds for a classic look. Bonus points if guests have to earn them.
Amazon.com: Mardi Gras Bead
Lace, feathers, or leather—masks are a must for that mysterious vibe. Opt for Venetian styles or half-masks to keep things sultry.
Amazon.com: Masks Mardi Gras
Sazerac, Hurricane, or a Voodoo Daiquiri? Suggest themed glassware and mixology kits to get the party shaking.
15 Best Mardi Gras Drinks for a Boozy Sip of New Orleans
Shine all night with body glitter and Mardi Gras-themed temporary tattoos. Opt for hypoallergenic and body-safe options.
Amazon.com: Mardi Gras Tattoos
Suggest feather boas in traditional Mardi Gras colors or silky capes for that Bourbon Street flair.
Amazon.com: Boas Feather
Skip the plastic baby and hide risqué prizes in your King Cake. Think mini vibrators, flavored lube, or suggestive tokens.
Traditional King Cake Recipe | Explore Louisiana
You have to have purple, gold and green
Amazon.com: Mardi Gras Decoration
Superheroes
Sexy superheroes for the win. Did you know Marvel owns the word “Superhero”?
No superhero party is complete without capes. Suggest satin, leather, or even tear-away options for dramatic reveals!
Amazon.com: Satin Cape
From domino masks to full-face options, suggest masks to keep things mysterious and fun. Choose satin or leather for a sultry twist.
Amazon.com: Superhero Masks
Suggest superhero insignia temporary tattoos and body-safe paint for those who want to go all out. UV-reactive options add extra flair!
