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All things Curls ~ No frizz here

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Everything I use on my curls ,and stuff I recommend~ Use this list for frizz free defined curls, my hair is 3b/3c fine mixed porosity ( high and medium)  hair for reference ~ Enjoy !
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Leave ins!

A leave in condtioner is a must! Use the to apply moisture in your hair after showering ~

 
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Smells like literal blueberry candy ! Works well for moisturizing my 3c hair and my boyfriend’s 4c hair. If I could add something- make sure your hair is damp when you use this ! I get reminded of adding a light coating of water when my hair snags fr...
FAST FOOD Leave-On Conditioner
 
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My favorite~ this leave in~ This is so moisturizing and it smells so good. The light smell and the heavy moisturizing feel put it on top of my list for curly hair leave- ins~
Leave-In Conditioner
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Smells so good! gives berry vanilla fresh clean girl realness! Very moisturizing and perfect first step of my hair routine
All Eyes On Me 10-in-1 Hair Perfector
 
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Great leave in for all curl types~ It does not have an offensive smell and I like it when I feel a bit lazy and need one product for my wash n go!
Moisturizing Hair Milk
 
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Love adding this as the last step of a leave in or curl cream ~ it seals the moisture I just put in my hair and it helps to grow your hair because it is not getting dry and breaking off ^.^!
Blue Magic Indian Hemp Conditioner 12oz

Creams

 
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Worth every cent! Smells like sprite (lemon lime) and instantly moisturized my curls everytime, I love this stuff and you really don’t need much to form a curl with some water!
RE:COIL Curl Activator
 
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Best curl cream! Please use this with their curl defining gel for the best curls ever. Happy to say I haven't found  better curl styling system yet!
Strictly Curls® Curl Envy Cream - Marc Anthony
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Ok- if you have high porosity 3c hair this is a must have! Perfect for a wash and go- made my hair have a “wet” look even after diffusing it dry! Smell is very flattering not to in your face.
Coily Custard - Curl Refresher/styler
 
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A pretty good curl cream if you want to keep it simple, there is not much smell with this one so its a safe choice for fragrance sensitive people~
Curl Defining Cream

Gels/ Mousse

 
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Best gel, my curls last week. Make sure to use this with their curl defining cream for the juiciest curls ever~ TIP: After applying your gel go back and look for any frizzies and apply more gel to those parts !
Strictly Curls® Define & Hold Flex Gel
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Great hold with this gel - I would give it a 4/5 stars on hold. And I must add- it pairs really nicely with my curly cocktails. I never get flaking and it has a lighter smell compared to other AG care products ~ I recommend if yo like more of a hold ...
LIQUID EFFECTS Medium-Hold Weightless Styling Gel
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Great for a strong hold. Smells very vanilla-y and sweet. Has protein so be careful if your hair is sensitive to protein ~
Shea Moisture Black Castor Oil Styling Gel
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Love this Mousse so much ! It gives the best strong hold and sooo much shine~ Use this after your curl creams or even alone if you dare ^.^
CRAZYSEXYCURL™ Honey Setting Foam 7oz
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This is by far the best smelling mousse! I love the volume I get with this, and recomend using it with the curl defining cream from V&CO! When using this and a curl cream my hair last around 4-5 days ~
Plump for Joy Thickening Hair Lifter
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My Flax seed gel cast went viral on Tiktok-here's how I make it ~ Boil some water (~1 cup) and to the boiling water add .5 cups of flax seeds~ The water will continue to boil with the seeds for another 10-15 minutes. once there is a film from the fla... You will let this cool down and the mixture will naturally strains the gel from flax seeds!  While it's still warm (not hot) transfer the gel to a glass container and use it as gel for wash day! I add vanilla extract and cinnamon to make my hair smell good as well as dried rosemary for growth properties (These are added while the water is bo...
Sevananda Natural Foods Market
 
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Recently tried this and fell in love with the clean girl scent it gives off~ The cast given with this product is very shiny and last a couple days. I actually think like this one a bit more than the strictly curls gel!
Advanced Climate Control® Heat & Humidity Gel
 
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My favorite mousse! It has such a silky texture, that it just glides on the curl, I love how the cast you get from this is there but it’s extremely soft compared to something like the not your mother’s plump for joy which hm gives a crunchy cast. ...
MOUSSE GEL Extra-Firm Curl Retention

Oils/Serums

 
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A great dupe for Santal 33, smells just like the perfume and leaves my hair feeling oh so soft~ recommend this one for all hair types especially curls and coils!
LONGTAKE Sandalwood Perfume Hair Oil 40ML
 
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Smells like heaven~ I apply this after my gel cast has fully dried to reveal soft juicy curls.
Coconut Miracle Oil Penetrating Oil | OGX® Beauty
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A good scalp serum is an underrated tool in growing long hair. This one is custom scalp serum from the haircare company “Prose”.          I Really enjoyed how my hair feels after applying this serum. A bottle last approximately a month. My hair felt so thick after using this daily ~
Custom Scalp Serum
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Glass skin but hair. This makes my hair so shinny, do not over use this as it is a bond building hair product ~ I find 1`~2 pumps for the whole head is good enough
COSRX PEPTIDE-132 Ultra Perfect Hair Bonding Oil Serum
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Love the shine I get from this oil. It is not so thick that its uncomfortable but it gives me some moisture with that shine~ I love the look always makes me feel so cute doing my routine with cute looking products <3
Honey Infused Hair Oil
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Shampoo/Conditioner

A good shampoo/ contioner can make your wash day so much easier, here are a few that I know and love <3

 
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A good curly shampoo ~ Love this line, and it's pink ! How could you not love them ~
Curly Pop Curl Defining Shampoo
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Great for retaining your growth, it also smells amazing like Prada Candy ~ I think this has helped in my hair growth journey :D
Elvive Shampoos, Conditioners & Hair Treatments
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Love how this makes my hair feel afterwards. It is not stripping at all instead it feels like it leaves my hair silky and moisturized !
COSRX PEPTIDE-132 Ultra Perfect Hair Bonding Shampoo
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A classic~ I use this all the time and my curls really love it. Their conditioner is super good too- if you haven't picked this up, they are usually at CVS/kroger etc. and super affordable !
Sulfate-Free Curl Nourish Shampoo for Healthy Hair - fructis
 
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Great shamooo and conditioner! Scent isnt offensive, shampoo isnt stripping at all~ the conditioner makes my hair soft that I am able to detangle without loosing soooo much hair. When using the whole system I do find my hair is less susceptible to ge...
Advanced Climate Control® Defrizzing Shampoo
 
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The folks over at Aromatica, a Korean company all about clean hair products, sent me over this shampoo. I tried the shampoo and I have to say I was pleasantly surprised! The shampoo was extremely light on my hair, but it was tough on my product b...
AROMATICA Rosemary Scalp Scaling Shampoo
 
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Love this shampoo, leaves my hair feeling clean but never dry! I usually only do one wash with this and follow up with a moisturizing shampoo afterwards because it is clarifying. They have a great hair oil that I like to pair with the shampoo, ch...
Sandalwood Hair Perfume Clarifying Shampoo 10.1oz
 
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Such a good hack if you are scared to use hair dye~ This is a color depositing contioner that will leave your hair soft and glossy. I have dark brown almost black hair and this gave me a fresh out of the salon shine. Love it so much!
Overtone Chocolate Brown Color Conditioner 4.5oz
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Styling tools

Things that will help style your curls so you do not dislike them ~

 
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I use the “oval” version that makes for a great curly hair styling product. Also can be used to blow-dry your hair :D
RED by Kiss Dry Vent Detangling Hair Brush
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Please use this to protect your curls after working so hard on them ! Use this nightly or whenever your curls are not out~
Bonnet
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Any silk scrunchies will work but this is good for when you want to put your hair in a ponytail. Do NOT use the regular hair ties- these rip out our hair, basically thinning out our curls over time and creating spilt ends!
Multi Large Scrunchies
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I have the dollar tree version that works so well! I went for a bad brush (the plastic bristles were bent up!) to this amd instantly started loosing less hair when I would do detangling seshes ~
UNbrush Detangling Hair Brush Collection
 
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The blow dryer I use; I love it so much it’s so cute(I have the pink version). It blow-dries to straighten good on 4b/4c hair and for my 3c curls it diffuses very quickly!
Turblow Pro - Fast Drying Hair Dryer