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Books That Changed My Mindset, Standards & Perspective
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items Books that changed how I think about love, money, discipline, adulthood, boundaries, and myself. 📚✨ Not just books I liked—books that actually stayed with me.
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See that line? Keep it.
Saying no isn't selfish—it’s necessary. This book completely changed how I see boundaries, relationships, and protecting my peace.
Boundaries -Dr. Henry Cloud, Dr. John Townsend
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For the girls figuring life out. đź’Ś
A beautiful, honest take on friendship, love, dating, heartbreak, and growing up. One of those books that feels like a conversation with a friend
Everything I Know About Love: A Memoir
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This made me more conscious about what I actually want vs. what I actually need. It changed how I think about money—and honestly, rich and anonymous sounds like the dream
The Art of Spending Money: Simple Choices for a Richer Life
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Your 20s are not just a waiting room for “real adulthood.”
This made me think more intentionally about the choices I'm making now—and how they can shape the person I become later
The Defining Decade- Meg Jay
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A reminder that what we put into our bodies matters. I loved how it connects food, health, and science in a way that made me appreciate eating well even more.
Almond babies, where you at?! 🥜
Eat to Beat Disease: The New Science of How Your Body Can Heal Itself
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You can only manifest what you believe you deserve.
This one is all about intention, clarity, self-belief, and taking action. I loved how it made “manifesting” feel more intentional rather than just wishful thinking.
Manifest — Roxie Nafousi
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Ever freeze when you need to speak? Same.
If you struggle to organize your thoughts, speak confidently, or find the right words under pressure, this is worth reading.
Think Faster, Talk Smarter — Matt Abrahams
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This book helped shape the disciplined version of me.
It reminded me that motivation comes and goes, but discipline is what keeps you moving anyway. Definitely one of my favorites.
The Power of Discipline — Daniel Walter
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Ever wondered what happens when you chase your dreams? The Alchemist is all about following your heart and figuring out life along the way!!
The Alchemist — Paulo Coelho
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Growing up also means unlearning.
A powerful memoir about breaking away from the versions of yourself that were shaped by other people's expectations—and learning who you are for yourself.
I'm Glad My Mom Died — Jennette McCurdy
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Not everything in life needs to be romanticized.
This book captures the pressure, burnout, frustration, and fear that can come with modern life. Strange, uncomfortable, and definitely not your typical “everything happens for a reason” read.
RIPE — Sarah Rose Etter
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I Who Have Never Known Men- Jacqueline Harpman
A girl wakes up in a world with only women, locked away from everything she knows. When freedom comes, the world above is nothing like she imagined!!
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I Who Have Never Known Men — Jacqueline Harpman
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What if you discovered that your life mattered more than you thought?
After dying, Eddie meets five people who reveal how his choices—and even the smallest moments—connected to something much bigger
The Five People You Meet in Heaven — Mitch Albom
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A classic if you're curious about the power of your mind. đź§
A great starting point for understanding how your thoughts, beliefs, and subconscious patterns can influence the way you see and approach your life.
The Power of Your Subconscious Mind — Joseph Murphy
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For the girls who have always wondered: “What happens after this life?” ✨
An intriguing exploration of what may exist beyond our physical lives and how those experiences could shape the way we understand our present life. Definitely one for the curio...
Journey of Souls — Michael Newton, PhD