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What to Buy for Your Boyfriend

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This is essentially a catalog of my now-uniformed wardrobe to help you help your man level up his style. There are even a few pieces that you’ll want to steal for yourself, which is always the best approach to gifting.
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Shirts

You can never have too many great-fitting tees. Cherry LA makes the best t-shirt. This is not up for debate. The heavier weight and boxier fit looks great on anyone and keeps it shape over time and after many (many) wears.

 
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The best.
Cherry LA | Classic Tee
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For a boxier fit.
Cherry LA | Basic Boxy Tee
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James Perse quality for half the price.
Buck Mason | Pima Classic Tee
 
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The gold standard.
James Perse | Clear Jersey Crew
 
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A denim shirt is a closet staple.
Nudie Jeans | George Denim Western Shirt
 
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Look to Portuguese Flannel for well-priced quality shirts. Corduroy shirts are great on their own or as a light layer.
Portuguese Flannel | Lobo Button-Down Collar Cotton-Corduroy Shirt
 
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Perfect for the summer, yes. But linen works across seasons to add materiality to any outfit.
Portuguese Flannel | Linen Shirt
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Beams Plus | Green Tartan Shirt
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Sebline has recently become one of my favorite designers for shirts. The French brand combines sartorial tailoring with western styles that can be dressed up or down.
Sebline | Safari Pinstriped Cotton-Poplin Shirt
 
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If I had to get all of my shirts from one brand, it would be L.E.J.
L.E.J. | 2 Pocket Selvedge Shirt
 
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Perfect for transitional dressing. Also one to steal.
L.E.J. | The Shell Collector

Jeans and Pants

I am a firm believer that it's always worth investing in quality denim. A great pair of jeans lasts forever and never goes out of style. And nobody does quality denim like the Japanese. OrSlow and Moussy make high-quality, rigid denim that wear in wi...

 
OrSlow | 107 Slim-Fit Selvedge Denim Jeans
 
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My curent go-tos for any occasion in any season.
OrSlow | 107 Ivy Fit Denim - White
 
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Open his eyes to a raw hem.
Moussy Vintage | Delwood Tapered
 
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Contemporary cut and perfect middle ground between slim and straight fits.
Moussy Vintage | Eastpointe Wide Tapered Jeans
 
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These instead of Carhartts
Save Khaki | Drill Double Dungaree
 
imogene + willie | oliver military trouser in olive
 
imogene + willie | oliver military trouser in black
 
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Heavy-weight and durable yet flattering task pants.
Entire Studios | Brown Task Trousers

Lounge Pants and Shorts

I famously do not wear sweatpants or atheleisure and instead live in any of the following. They're just as comfortable, look nice, and are thus far more versatile.

 
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The most-worn item in my closet by far.
Save Khaki | Twill Easy Short
 
Save Khaki | Corduroy Easy Short
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imogene + willie | canvas lounge short
 
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Lesser-known Australian brand, P. Johnson makes slightly dressier pieces that can be styled for any occasion.
P. Johnson | Olive Carpenter Shorts
 
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The closest I'll get to sweats.
James Perse | Cotton Linen Work Pant
 
imogene + willie | the lounge pant
 
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Dress 'em up with loafers or stay casual with slippers.
imogene + willie | fethiye in hand-loomed coastal stripe
 
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Linen is really just all-season loungewear isn't it?
James Perse | Relaxed Linen Pant

Sweatshirts and Knits

Go-to gifts that you'll want to steal. LA-based Cherry makes great understated sweatshirts with cache that exceeds the better-known likes of Aime Leon Dore and Kith. In knitwear, Quince makes great cashmere pieces at a really affordable price point. ...

 
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Cool points for Cherry.
Cherry | Best Quality Crewneck (Vintage Black)
 
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The brand releases several collections each season with different western-inspired graphics, but I prefer the classics.
Cherry | Embroidered Cotton-Jersey Sweatshirt
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Noah | Core Logo-Embroidered Cotton-Jersey Sweatshirt
 
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Heavy-weight cotton that doesn't pill or stretch. Check out Online Ceramics for some whimsical prints.
Online Ceramics | Green Long Turtle Hoodie
 
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The comfiest hoodie in my closet.
Les Tien | Gray Heavyweight Hoodie
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Every man needs a cashmere polo in his rotation. Get one in every color at Quince.
Quince | Mongolian Cashmere Polo Sweater
 
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~$100 that you can steal if he ever takes it off.
Quince | Mongolian Cashmere Full-Zip Hoodie
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The softest sweater in my closet that happens to be under $100.
Quince | Mongolian Cashmere Fisherman Crewneck Sweater
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Sleeper hit from LL Bean. Cashmere is great, but there's something to be said about a classic cotton sweater.
LL Bean | Men's Signature Organic Cotton Rollneck Sweater
 
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Another affordable staple that works well over a dress shirt or styled here with a white tee. I prefer the latter.
J.Crew | Cashmere V-neck sweater
 
J.Crew | Midweight cashmere crewneck sweater
 
Beams Plus | Brown Crewneck Sweater
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I would like to live in this.
Le 17 Septembre | Knitted Zip-Up Cardigan
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Quiet $$$
Allude | Cashmere sweater in brown
 
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Fits slightly large, so I recommend sizing down for a more standard fit.
Lemaire | Brushed-Wool Sweater
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Peep the stripe detail on the sleeves.
Our Legacy | Merino Wool Sweater
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Bathing Suits

If your boyfriend is anything like me, he forgets that he needs a new bathing suit until right before a summer trip at which point, spending $200 on a new pair is a hard pill to swallow. Swimwear can be an annoyingly large expense due to its seasonal...

 
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The best-looking classic boardshorts.
Birdwell Britches | 310 Boardshorts
 
Birdwell Britches | Birdie Boardshorts
 
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Frescobal Carioca makes a lot of great printed/patterned trunks that aren't too loud.
Frescobal Carioca | MEDALHAO SPORT SWIM SHORTS
 
CDLP | Straight-Leg Mid-Length Shell Swim Shorts
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Thorsun | Blurry Stripe Printed Swim Shorts
 
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Expensive but great for any occasion and will never go out of style.
Orlebar Brown | Bulldog Mid-Length Swim Shorts
 
Orlebar Brown| Vermillion Current Shorter-Length Swim Shorts

Sunglasses

A category worth splurging on. If you really love him, you can't go wrong with a pair of classic frames from Oliver Peoples and Garrett Leight. If he already has those covered, consider a more contemporary style from slightly more affordable brands l...

 
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Akila's wide array of frame-lens color combos adds a playful twist to enduring styles.
Akila | Brown Logos Sunglasses
 
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Comes in a number of frame-lens color combos.
Retrosuperfuture | Black Lazarus Sunglasses
 
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Dare I say that Persol is coming back?
Persol | PO3291S
 
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A slightly more affordable option from the brand.
Saint Laurent | SL 675 round sunglasses in beige
 
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He's seen these before, but they aren't overdone.
Moscot | LEMTOSH
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A more stylish alternative to Garrrett Leight's well-loved and oft-seen classic frames.
Garrett Leight | Sherwood D-Frame Acetate Sunglasses
 
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A more stylish alternative to Garrrett Leight's well-loved and oft-seen classic frames.
Garrett Leight | Gilbert Round-Frame Acetate Sunglasses
 
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The geometric frames in my rotation. I also love them in green.
Ahlem | Grenelle
 
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The yassification of John Lennon.
Eyevan 7285 | 717E Round Acetate-Wrapped Metal Sunglasses
 
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Girlfriend of the Year Award
Native Sons | RYDER 2.0

Shoes

‘You can tell everything you need to know about someone by their shoes’ - Chinese Proverb. This one skews suede.

 
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Hardly an original idea, but a pair of Chucks in a fun color puts a twist on a timeless classic.
Converse | Brown Chuck 70 High Top Sneakers
 
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A lesser-known London-based brand. Great everyday sneakers that he won't see other guys wearing.
Stepney Workers Club | Dellow Suede S-Strike Sneaker
 
Stepney Workers Club | Dellow Suede Sneaker
 
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An enduring classic for good reason.
New Balance | Made In USA 993 Core sneakers in grey
 
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If he's a sneakerhead.
Tom Sachs x Nike | NikeCraft General Purpose Shoe 'Archive'
 
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Truly the most versatile and comfortable shoe that looks great with any outfit. I'm on my third pair.
Sabah | Ashmore Grey
 
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A more contemporary style from a classic brand. Lug sole at a great price point.
GH Bass | Weejun 90 Larson Suede Penny Loafers
 
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For a more casual yet versatile slip-on loafer.
Jacques Soloviere | Alexis Loafer
 
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I prefer boots that comes up a bit higher, but these are the coolest Chelsea boots right now.
Our Legacy | Camion Leather boots
 
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Burgundy for some variation from classic black or brown loafers.
Morjas | The Penny Loafer - Burgundy Calf
 
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Always active in the rotation.
Rubinacci | Marphy suede loafers in brown
 
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Can never have too many Belgians.
Rubinacci | Marphy Tasselled Leather Loafers
 
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These have been at the top of my wishlist for too long.
Lemaire | Leather slip-on shoes in black
 
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Both my most worn and most complimented shoes. The two may or may not be related. I bought them for wedding season but now I wear them everywhere.
Bode | House Shoe leather loafers

Fragrance

Byredo or bust.

 
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This is my everyday scent made by a dear friend. It's a roll-on oil with musk and amber notes that's unisex and smells incredible.
Adenah | Amber & Musk Perfume Oil
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This has been my scent for a few years now. Byredo makes some of the best unisex fragrances, but this one is masculine with notes of bergamot, geranium, and patchouli.
Byredo | Sunday Cologne Eau De Parfum, 50 mL
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I recently started wearing Mixed Emotions and absolutely love. Nice and light with notes of black tea, violet, and birch.
Byredo | Mixed Emotions Eau De Parfum, 50 mL
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Byredo | Super Cedar Eau de Parfum, 50 mL
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Le Labo | Another 13 Eau de Parfum, 50 mL
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Accessories

Less is more, but a little goes a long way.

 
Tom Wood | Curb M sterling silver bracelet in silver
 
Miansai | Zane Rhodium-Plated Multi-Stone Beaded Bracelet
 
Mikia | Heishi Silver Multi-Stone Bracelet
 
Luis Morais | Gold and Malachite Beaded Bracelet
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All Blues | Snake bracelet
 
Kapital | Nadeshiko Champetre Fastcolor Floral-Print Selvedge Cotton-Voile Bandana
 
Mr. P | Knitted Silk Tie
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Acne Studios | Elmas Logo-Print Leather Cardholder
 
Loewe | Puzzle leather card holder
 
Our Legacy | Leather belt in black
 
Mr. P | 3.5cm Suede-Trimmed Woven Belt