A book that truly changed everything for me, I never realized how much I was hindering myself.
The Mountain is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery
I have way too many good things to say about this book definitely worth the read if you don't understand why your relationships go the way they do. Knowing your attachment style is very important.
The New Science of Adult Attachment
Great book alot of the tips in it actually work and make sense.
Side note: never pretend to be someone you're not it's definitely not worth the stress, if someone refuses to see your value screw them you