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The 2025 Gift Guide!
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items Welcome to the most magical time of the year - Holiday Season! This year I've crafted a digital gift guide, filled with items for everyone on your list! And, head to www.weaimtoslay.com to grab my downloadable gift guide to bring with you on all of your shopping excursions!
Sections
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Hair Care
Fashion
Skincare Secrets
Manicure Must Haves
Makeup & Beauty
Fur Babies
Hair Care
Everything I'm using to care for my natural curls!
Want to nourish your curls, WHILE styling them? Then you need the Love Ur Curls Black Label collection! Formulated with hydrating ingredients, these products were formulation specifically for us #CurlyGirls!
The Black Label Line
Since this product debuted in April 2025, it has become my go-to product to touch up my curls between wash days! Lightweight and nourishing, this mousse delivers lift while helping to seal the hair cuticle!
Love Ur Curls Volumizing Foam & Kit
By far the best shampoo I've ever used to gently cleanse and maintain my curly hair!
Sulfate-Free Shampoo
The Love Ur Curls Step 2 Conditioner is the perfect product for nourishing your curls, and protecting them during the detangling process!
Fragrance-Free Conditioner
For those wash days when you can feel the product and debris built up on your scalp, I reach for the Love Ur Curls Exfoliating Scalp Scrub! Not only does it thoroughly cleanse my scalp, but the added peppermint oil leaves my scalp feeling squeaky cle...
Exfoliating Scalp Scrub
This is a product I didn't know I needed until I saw the results speak for themselves! I suffer from frequent split ends due to over manipulating my hair, and in just a few uses I saw a visible difference!
Split End Mender
This is truly one of the most revolutionary curly hair products I’ve ever tried! This product helped to cut my curly routine down because it does the work of a styler and a gel all in one! There are formulas for all curl types, but this is the versio...
All-in-One: Curly
Whether you're touching up next day curls, taming your edges, or styling your wash-and-go the LUS Volumizing Foam gently nourishes your hair while providing gravity defying volume!
Volumizing Foam
My 3B-3C-4A curls tend to be very sensitive to oils, finding many of them to be too heavy which weighs down my hair. Love Ur Curls' Elixir Oil is the holy grail of oils! Made from a blend of Vitamin E & 7 pure oils, this product deeply nourishes ...
Elixir Oil
A scalp massager can help exfoliate built up products off the scalp, as well as aid in hair growth by promoting blood circulation & healthy cell turnover!
Scalp Massager
I've used many techniques and tools to detangle my mixed type curls, and nothing has proven to be as gentle & effective as this detangling brush!
Detangle & Style Brush
A bonnet large enough to fit all of your hair (or even a styling tool such as heatless curlers), and adjustable - meaning you can tie it tightly or loosely enough to be comfortable while sleeping!
Silk Bonnet for Sleeping
A satin scarf is one of the most versatile items a person can own! I use one every night for extra protection beneath my bonnet, and I frequently use one as a hair accessory during the day!
Love Ur Curls Scarf
The BEST deep conditioning treatment mask I've ever used!
Don’t Despair, Repair!™ Deep Conditioning Mask
Fashion
My guide to the perfect capsule wardrobe!
No matter what color, pattern, hem/sleeve length, or material, you can never go wrong with a classic button down. Perfect for wearing to work, layering, and adding a bit of refinement to any look!
Classic Button-Down Shirt | Old Navy
A classic trouser pairs perfectly with any kind of blouse! Perfect for chic comfort while running errands or catching up with friends, and easily dressed up with a pair of heels!
High-Waisted Billie Straight Plaid Ankle Trouser | Old Navy
A well tailored blazer is the perfect item whether you're headed into a boardroom or an interview or even a networking event!
Taylor Fitted Suit Blazer | Old Navy
A straight leg jean (in your choice of wash, but I prefer a medium wash for this fit!) can be worn almost anywhere! And, can be paired with any of the shoes listed below!
Women's Ultra High Rise 90s Straight Jean
No matter what length, color, or material, a slip dress is an ideal layering piece for your capsule wardrobe! It also doubles as a fantastic going out item that keeps you comfortable and totally chic!
Cowl Neck Slip Dress - Jet Black
A cable knit sweater is a winter-wardrobe staple for me! Not only do they look lovely on their own, but then can easily be layered to keep you warm and cozy throughout the coldest season of the year!
Women's Cable Knit Crewneck Sweater, Created for Macy's
A platform sandal can elevate any casual look, giving you all the perks of a heel with the comfort of a flat!
MIA Maya Platform Sandal
A classic black pump (this one, specifically, features a kitten heel!) is a work wardrobe staple! And, a kitten heel is perfect if you'll be on your feet!
Kelly & Katie Jamet Pump
The classic Dr Marten 1460 boot is perfect for literally every setting! I've had mine (in maroon!) for 12 years now, and I wear them all year long!
1460 Women's Smooth Leather Lace Up Boots in Black | Dr. Martens
A brown knee high boot can be worn anywhere and with anything! I recently found a beautiful pair at TJ Maxx!
Unisa Lanna Wide-Calf Boot
A leather moto jacket is classic, edgy, and function - the perfect addition to any wardrobe! I opt for a size bigger in order to layer sweaters beneath!
FAUX LEATHER CROP BIKER JACKET
Perfect for those warm & rainy spring days, a classic trench coat adds an old school glamour to every look!
Trench Coat | UNIQLO US
The backbone of my wardrobe - you can never go wrong with a white, tank top bodysuit!
Ribbed Knit Seamless Scoop Neck Sleeveless Bodysuit
Skincare Secrets
My recipe for photo-ready skin!
I’ve been using this cleanser for just about 3 years now and I’ve seen great results! Not only does this cleanser leave my skin feeling fresh and clean, but it doesn’t strip away moisture!
The Rice Wash
This is designed to be used as a moisturizer, but I love to use it as an eye cream! This lightweight and ultra hydrating formula feels silky going on, and doesn't disturb my makeup!
The True Cream Aqua Bomb
This lightweight moisturizer absorbs quickly and doesn't leave a residue, while still deeply hydrating!
Natural Moisturizing Factors + HA
One of my favorite sunscreens! It features “no white cast” formulation, that absorbs quickly and lays nicely beneath makeup!
Daily UV Defense Sunscreen – Broad Spectrum SPF 36 Face Protection
I never leave my house without the Jack Black Lip Balm in the Shea butter & Vitamin E formula! I currently have three open tubes; one in my work bag, one in my purse, and one in my car!
Intense Therapy Lip Balm Shea Butter & Vitamin E | Jack Black
One of my favorite ways to help my lips bounce back after the cold and dry winter months!
Soap & Glory Pout About It Hydrogel Lip Mask
I use this as a full body lotion all year round! I first learned about this product through my great-great-grandmother - she used this cold cream to cleanse her face morning and night!
Dry Skin Cream Face Moisturizer
I love using a loofah to exfoliate my body while in the shower!
Bath Loofah
I recently started using Method Body Wash when my mom introduced me to the rose & peony scent. As someone with super sensitive skin, I was super impressed by how silky smooth this wash left my skin, so I immediately went back for the coconut scen...
Body Wash - Simply Nourish
One of the most used items in my bathroom, and something I use at least three times a week! This steamer also includes a kit of pore extractor tools!
EZBASICS Facial Steamer
I store this mask in my freezer, and enjoy using it in tandem with an eye masks!
The Vintage Cosmetic Company: Eye Masks
TONYMOLY is my favorite sheet mask brand! They offer a wide array of treatment options, and are super affordable!
I Am Sheet Mask (Set of 2)
One of my favorite pore clarifying masks! This formula has a light cooling sensation as it dries, and features little exfoliant bits to help deeply cleanse as you wash it off!
Super Volcanic Pore Clay Mask – Deep Cleanse & Clear Face Pores
Manicure Must Haves
Ready to start doing your manicures at home? Here's exactly what I'm using to create my mani and keep it looking its best!
The strongest top coat, with the glossiest finish!
Gel Top Coat
Do you get tired of seeing the same manicure design day after day? Then I recommend a peel-off base! Gentle on the nails, and made to last a few days, this base polish allows you to quickly change up your polish shade whenever you want!
Peel Off Base Coat
Olive & June makes it easy to protect your nails while crafting the manicure of your dreams with the newly released Builder Gel collection! This kit comes with all the necessary tools to successfully use the Builder Gel at home!
Builder Gel Kit
Olive & June has created the perfect one-stop-shop for all things cuticles!
Cuticle Care Set
This is the first cuticle removing product I've tried, and honestly, I can't believe it took me this long to try! Simply apply a bit of product along each cuticle, rub in, and allow to sit for about 5 minutes before wiping away!
Cuticle Remover
I keep this in my manicure kit and use it almost every day!
Vitamin E Nail & Cuticle Oil | Sally Hansen®
Nothing gets those hard-to-reach cuticles and under-the-nail spots like the Precision Beauty portable nail file! Perfect to use on the go or even during your DIY nail days!
5 In 1 Manicure Pedicure Nail Drill Set
I recently started using the Olive & June Gel System and, hands down, it's the best at home gel system I've ever used! Not only are the polishes super high quality, but the curing lamp is both effective and attractive!
The Olive and June Gel Mani System
When I was a kid my mom worked at a nail salon and I used to love using this style of nail remover – this little pot (filled & refillable) contains acetone and a sponge, allowing you to thoroughly clean your nail and remove excess oils!
Nourishing Remover Pot
Makeup & Beauty
My go-to makeup products!
One of the best setting sprays on the market, in my opinion!
Continuous Setting Mist
I’ve been wearing this foundation (in shade WN-94) for years!
Even Better™ Makeup Broad Spectrum Foundation SPF 15 | Clinique
The best cream contour on the market! I use the shade “Truffle”!
Fenty Beauty by Rihanna Match Stix Contour Stick | Sephora
The Sailor Moon X ColourPop blush in shade “Cat’s Eye” is a beautiful peachy shade featuring gold flecks!
Shop Cat's Eye - Pressed Powder Blush | ColourPop® x Sailor Moon
My favorite powder bronzer and contour product!
park ave princess™ face & body bronzer
My all time favorite brow wax!
Milani Stay Put Liquid Brow Wax
By far, the best neutral-hued palette!
The Nubian Palette - Juvia’s Place
Want to experiment with your eye makeup? Then this is the palette for you!
The Zulu Palette - Juvia’s Place
My favorite concealer to use when I'm on stage or filming content for the We Aim To Slay YouTube channel!
shape tape™ full-coverage concealer
My all time favorite full coverage, long lasting, matte foundation!
Stay-Matte Oil-Free Foundation Makeup
The key to flawless base makeup? Using an effective primer! This one by e.l.f., creates a picture-perfect base that lays smoothly beneath foundation, and perfects the skin for makeup-free days!
Velvet Finish Face Primer - Elf Cosmetics
I’ve been using this mascara for nearly 15 years! I like the waterproof formula to ensure my lashes look their best all day and night!
Voluminous Voluminous-Waterproof-Mascara
My favorite liquid eyeliner, featuring a very fine felt tip applicator for precision and ease!
Stila Stay All Day® Waterproof Liquid Eye Liner – Smudge-Proof, Long-Lasting Eyeliner
The clear eyebrow gel is the best way to style your brows and ensure they'll stay put all day!
Milani Stay Put Brow Gel - Brunette 0.24oz
For a natural brow look, I prefer to fill in my brows with this ABH powder! I use the shade “Ebony”, and use the darker of the two shades!
Brow Powder Duo
There are three eye shadow palettes I use to achieve my winning pageant look, and this is one of them! I use these cool toned greys for almost every look!
Shop Of Quartz Shadow Palette | Shadow Palettes by ColourPop®
I swear by this palette for the sheer neutral shades alone! But, I do use the shimmery colors to create my highlighter eye looks! (This is one of the three palettes I use to create my on stage look!)
Shop Pretty Guardian - Shadow Palette | ColourPop® x Sailor Moon
My all time favorite pencil liner! I use the shade “black brown” to fill in my eyebrows for stage, but I also use it for less intense day time looks! I also own this pencil in black, white, blue, purple, and green!
Long wear Slim Eye Pencil | NYX Professional Makeup
This is my favorite style of lashes to wear in my everyday life! They are a half lash style and give a wispy effect – perfect for adding a little extra glam to an otherwise simple look!
The Muse
This latex-free lash adhesive is super gentle on the skin, and removes easily with a makeup remover! The glue is clear, and dries clear as well!
HOL® Clear Lash Glue
Never worry about losing a lash again! House of Lashes recently introduced your perfect lash duo – the Bonding Glue (for initial adhesion) and the Sealant (to lock in place all day long)!
HOL® Sealant
Bundle & save! House of Lashes offers their new Bonding Glue & Sealant as a combo purchase, allowing you to set-and-forget your eyelashes all throughout the day!
Bond & Seal Set
House of Lashes' newly released Bonding Glue is exactly what you're looking for to keep your falsies on all day long!
HOL® Bonding Glue
The best lip product for everyday! It’s very hydrating and quite sheer, but also buildable. And, this berry shade looks different on everyone!
Clinique Almost Lipstick - Black Honey
I can't function with dry, chapped lips but frequently love to wear a lip color - which makes Aora Makeup's Acariciame Solid Lip Serum the perfect compromise! This product is deeply hydrating, while also offering a flush of color, perfect for everyda...
AORA ACARÍCIAME Lip Serum
I recently learned about the brand, Aora Mexico, and quickly fell in love with their environmentally friendly practices and this hyper pigmented palette!
Mírame
I’m not usually a lip liner person, but this twist up pencil is so good that I bought two - Very Berry & Rich Brown!
Huda Beauty Lip Contour 2.0 – Velvet Matte, Transfer-Proof | HUDA BEAUTY
I’ve been wearing the shade Very Berry for nearly 15 years! This is the perfect everyday brown shade for us medium skinned girlies!
Neutrogena MoistureSmooth Color Stick Lipstick, Wine Berry,.011 oz
Fur Babies
Everything I count on to make my dog's life the best it can be!
I prefer an around-the-waist leash when we go hiking, as it allows me to use both of my hands!
Tuff Mutt Dual-Handle Reflective Dog Leash
Taking my dog for a hike is easy when we have a prepared bag! I keep mine stocked with extra poo bags, treats, a travel water bowl, and even extra hair ties!
Crossbody Bag/Fanny Pack
I keep a bottle like this in our hiking bag so we can take frequent water breaks!
VILA Portable Water Bottle Dog & Cat Travel Dispenser ...
For the dogs that don't like to drink out of a bottle/bowl combo, there are collapsible water bowls! And, this one comes with a clip which makes it easy to keep attached to your bag!
Silicone Collapsible Travel Bowl for Pets
This ice cream holder and mould are a huge hit with my dog, and all of his doggy friends! One of their favorite recipes is a mixture of Atlantic char and beef broth!
2 Pack Interactive Dog Toys
Our dogs love these chews! And even though they last quite a long time, once the chew is about 2 inches long you can soak it in warm water and microwave it for a minute and a half to make a delicious puffed treat!
Himalayan Pet Supply Himalayan Dog Chewy
Since adding a hammock-style seat cover in the backseat, traveling has become much more enjoyable for my dog!
Waterproof Hammock Stand/Strap, Nonslip
Lifestyle & Homewares
The little things that make my house a home!
These are my favorite kinds of hangars - gentle enough for all materials, and strong enough to prevent slipping!
Slim, Velvet, Non-Slip Clothes Hangers
The easiest way to keep my pants and skirts organized!
Non Slip Pants Hangers
Nothing gets more use in my home than this steamer! Perfect for getting rid of creases or wrinkles without damaging your clothing!
Conair Handheld Garment Steamer
Here in New England, winter means cold and dry weather – so I combat the elements with a humidifier! And for an extra flare, add a few drops of essential oil!
Humidifiers
While you may associate a kettle with tea drinking, I've found mine to be incredibly useful! Especially headed into the busy holiday season – I know I'll have boiling water in a few minutes!
Amazon Basics Electric Kettle