Abby Swider

A running list of the things I wear, use, and swear by that people actually stop me to ask about. From outfits and accessories to beauty favorites and everyday essentials—if it consistently gets me a compliment when I leave the house, it’s on here 💌✨

With internships starting June 1st and summer approaching I have curated a list of clothing items and products that will make you look and feel like such a girlboss. I want to empower women to look and feel their best in a primarily male dominated field! Enjoy!

Everyone knows shopping on Zaras website is a nightmare. So I am saving y'all the headache and motion sickness by picking out some summer zara finds! Perfect for business casual summer fits. Right out of the office to happy hour!

Not your average Amazon list 💋 This is the stuff that keeps showing up on your TikTok FYP at 2am and somehow ends up in your cart five minutes later. Think “where did she get that?” energy — viral beauty finds, ridiculously cute gadgets, cozy girl essentials, trendy fashion pieces, apartment decor, and little products that make life feel more put together. Every item is handpicked to be aesthetic, useful, and worth obsessing over ✨ Basically the internet’s favorite girl-coded finds all in one place.

Wedding guest dresses that are guaranteed to get compliments 💅🏼 I put together all of my favorite finds—from flattering, classy dresses to more fun and flirty options for when you want to be that wedding guest. Perfect for summer weddings, black-tie nights, destination weddings, and everything in between. Basically, if I’d wear it to a wedding and immediately want pictures in it, it made the list. 💋🥂

The skincare products I would genuinely be upset if they ever discontinued. These are my repurchase-before-I-run-out, always-have-on-hand favorites—the products that actually earned a permanent spot in my routine. From glowy-skin essentials to the little extras that make all the difference, this is the skincare I swear by and recommend to everyone. 🧴💌

I had way too much fun putting together this Bikinis & Martinis theme for my best friend’s 21st! 🍸👙 It’s the perfect mix of beachy, girly, and a little boujee without feeling like a theme you’ve seen a million times. I pulled together everything you need to bring it to life—from martini-inspired decor and party details to the cutest outfit and accessories for the birthday girl. Most of it is from Amazon, so it’s super easy to recreate too! Perfect for a 21st birthday, beach weekend, pool party, or bachelorette trip. Cheers! 🫒✨

Had to come up with a theme and decorations for my 21st birthday party! I just winged it and it turned out super cute. I had my party in February so this is definitely a more wintery theme. Feel free to change the colors around!

The most relaxing squishes. TikTok viral. The best dupes.

A curated Father’s Day gift guide featuring the things I’d actually give (and my dad would actually use)—from everyday essentials to upgraded classics. If it’s thoughtful, practical, and guaranteed to get a smile, it’s on here 🎁✨

Everything you actually need for the perfect college dorm room ✨ From cozy bedding and space-saving organizers to trendy decor, study essentials, beauty favorites, and everyday lifesavers. This list is packed with cute, practical, and TikTok-approved finds that make dorm life easier, more aesthetic, and way more fun 💕 Perfect for freshmen, apartment living, and anyone wanting that Pinterest dorm vibe.

The ultimate 21st birthday outfit inspo guide 💌 from sparkly dresses and classy heels to trendy going-out looks perfect for dinners, bars, rooftops, girls trips & everything in between. Cute, confident, trendy, and perfect for your main character birthday moment 🤍. I have everything covered for you. From outfits to accessories!

Went to Fort Lauderdale for Spring break and LOVEDDD everything in my shein order. Such good summer staples i got so many compliments and took the cutest pics!

Everything you need for that effortlessly cute summer aesthetic without spending your entire paycheck. Think beach days, sunset dinners, little white dresses, bikinis, gold accessories, woven bags, and all the fun extras that make an outfit feel so summer. These are the affordable finds that look way more expensive than they actually are and give major vacation energy—even if you’re not going anywhere. 🍸🌊✨

Cute decor and useful things all from shein that will have everyone post gaming at your house until 5am!