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Manifesting your other half!
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items The things I did to manifest the man of my dreams! I say “manifest” but really I changed my habits and broke the stigma of bad relationships in my family. Finding the right person doesn’t happen overnight. You have to put in the work, but the benefit...
Make a vision board. I made one right around the time I did the grapes. I put a lot of intention behind it. I used the SHUFFLES app and I made it my phone screen saver. Everything on it came true (this was my love board)
Vision board
Love: hey this worked for me! If are emotionally mature and ready for a healthy relationship this is what you’re gonna do. At midnight on NYE you will eat a dozen grapes under a table. For every grape, you will make an intention of what the person of...
Grapes
Journal. Journal. Journal.
You should be doing this anyways for everything in your life. But for this reason (love) you want to journal about what you expect in your other half. For example, “my partner will speak softly to me, will be a great liste...
Journals
Dream. Before you go to sleep, think about the type of person you desire to lay your head next to. Sometimes they will appear in your dreams. Not very clearly, but the more you think about the safety you want to feel, the more you will attract it.
Dreams
When you realize that you attract what you want, you will see the cycles. If your body still craves chaos, that is the relationship you will have. If your body still craves self sabotage, you will attract that. Do you get it now? So if you want to at...
Metaphysics (frequencies)
Positive words attract positive outcomes.
Positive daily Affirmations
You must find peace within yourself. Can you go to a restaurant alone? Will you take yourself on a date? Does reading a book give you satisfaction? You must take care of yourself before you expect someone else to do it along side of you.
PEACE
Speak softly to yourself. Never speak negative words about yourself out loud or to anyone EVER. You must understand that the little voice in your mind cannot hear anyone but YOU. So if you are always negative, it will believe you are negative and wha...
Words
You must care for yourself. Your body, your mind, your sleep, your skin, everything. Take yourself on that trip, try the new hobby, and make friends!
Self-Care
In my 30s I realized I didn’t grow up around healthy relationships. I had to look at some of my friends and their partners and understand what a healthy relationship looks like. Taking a look at what that means to you is crucial.
What Does a Healthy Relationship Look Like?
GO ON THE DATES 🗣️ the more you date the more you will realize what you like and tolerate. Do you want someone that is a homebody like you? Do you want someone adventurous? Do you want someone who prefers to eat out or cook at home?
Dating
Your dream person will not find your address and come to your door. Unless he works for Amazon! But no, you need to put yourself out there too. I was on Match for about two weeks, turns out my other half lived 2.5 hours away from me but a year later ...
Match.com