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The Intentional Couple's Playbook
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items In the beautiful chaos of family life, it's easy to slip into 'roommate mode.' We've learned that a thriving partnership doesn't happen on autopilot; it's built by thousands of small, intentional choices. This list is our personal playbook—the simple...
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The 'Get Talking' Toolkit
The 'Shared Experience' Hub
The 'Explore Together' Itinerary
The 'Get Talking' Toolkit
A strong partnership is built on great communication. This section is all about our favorite tools for sparking those deeper, more meaningful conversations that go way beyond just planning out the week.
This is so much more than a box of questions. It's a beautifully designed game of storytelling that prompts you to share memories and perspectives you might not otherwise think to. It’s our favorite tool for sparking the kinds of deep, meaningful con...
Where Should We Begin - A Game of Stories
We absolutely love this app! It sends a fun, thought-provoking question, quiz, or game to both of us each day. It’s a simple and modern 5-minute way to connect and learn something new about each other, even on the most hectic of days
Paired - App For Couples
This doesn't have to be a complicated craft project. For us, it’s as simple as grabbing our big dry-erase board, some colorful markers, and maybe a few printed-out pictures. We'll spend an evening mapping out our goals—big and small—for the next year...
Dream/Goals Board
The 'Shared Experience' Hub
Doing things together creates the memories that become the bedrock of your relationship. Here are our go-to activities for an amazing date night in, perfect for connecting and having fun without ever leaving the house
We love this because it takes all the mental energy out of planning a creative date night. A themed box with fun, connection-focused activities just shows up at your door, ready to go. It’s a perfect way to ensure quality time h:appens, even when lif...
Happily - Date Night in a Box
These kits are designed for couples who want to be more intentional about exploring romance and physical intimacy. Think of them as a playful toolkit for a spicy date night in—just know that the contents are definitely for adults only
Mystery Toy Kit - For Couples
This is our absolute favorite for an at-home mixology night! Each month, Shaker & Spoon sends a themed box with everything you need to become master bartenders—artisanal syrups, unique bitters, mixers, and garnishes. You just add your own bottle ...
Shaker & Spoon
The 'Explore Together' Itinerary
The best way to break out of a routine is to have an adventure! This is our blueprint for getting out and exploring side-by-side, turning a simple afternoon or weekend into a memory you'll talk about for years
This is the ultimate cure for the "what should we do tonight?" rut. The challenge is simple and so much fun: plan 26 dates, one for each letter of the alphabet (A is for an Arboretum trip, B is for Bowling, C is for a Comedy show...). It’s a playful,...
Alphabet Dating Challenge
We turn this into a fun little adventure: the mission is to find the absolute best spot in our area to watch the sunset. We’ll look at a map, pick a new park, hill, or lake we’ve never been to, and try to get there for that perfect golden-hour moment...
Perfect Picnic Ideas: Enjoy the Beauty of Sunsets
: The first date is making the jar itself! We spent an evening brainstorming dozens of fun, local adventures and writing them on colorful craft sticks. Now we have a whole jar full of our own pre-planned ideas, ready at a moment's notice. It’s the pe...
Spontaneous Road Trip Jar
