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Mom approved clothing & fashion

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As a mom of 3 in my 40s, I want to share fashion that makes sense for all of us in this CRAZY stage of life!
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Tops

Tips for those of us who still like our bellies covered, but need to be stylish and comfy!
 
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I have this in cream and love it, though a nude bra or undershirt is necessary with the light color. But it’s super flattering and soft!
Women's Short Sleeve Ruffle Blouse
 
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I have this floral print and love it! It is loose fitting, soft, comfortable, but professional enough for my zoom meetings!
Women's Printed Top
 
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Adorable print with ¾ sleeves. Another comfy, yet professional top for my work meetings.
Women's Printed Blouse
 
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You need this in EVERY color for the colder weather!
Women's Long Sleeve Henley Mock Neck Tunic T-Shirt
 
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The comfy, yet stylish tee that every mom needs!
Women's Crew Neck Heather Top
 
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Another must have for dressing comfy but still looking like you care!
Women's Long Sleeve Crew Neck T-Shirt

Underwear, Bras, and more!

Because no joke, at 41, I care more about comfort than cute, but these recs check both boxes!
 
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This is the perfect every day bra! I love it because it is comfortable, padded, and doesn't dig in. It doesn't have a ton of “lift,” but for a t shirt, scrubs, or anytime you don't need that extra lift, you can't go wrong with this one.
My everyday go to bra
 
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I reserve this bra for when I need a little extra lift or structure compared to my daily SOMA bra. This one is still just a comfy and holds you in nicely.
When I need a little more support bra
 
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Literally the only kind of underwear I wear these days. They are comfy, wash well, keep the shape, and literally don't so the panty lines, even in leggings. 10/10 everyday!
Goodbye panty lines and wedgies!
 
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This was a splurge for me, but I fell in love and had to buy more. It has held up great through washings, even the elastic, the material is so soft, and I stay cool at night.
No regret splurge on these PJs
 
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Mom approved swimsuit you can wear and still look sexy!
SUUKSESS Women Cutout Push Up Bikini Set

Dresses

Dresses that can go from day, to night, to church on Sunday!
 
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Perfect dress for moms! Comfy yet stylish with quality material that isn’t super thin.
GRECERELLE 2026 Women Casual Maxi Dress

Bottoms

Rolling in my 40s looking for pants that look nice but feel comfortable and don’t hug in the wrong places!
 
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You'll want these in EVERY color! Soft, flowy, and the elastic wasitband is easy on the mom pooch!
Women's Pull On Gauze Cropped Pants

Sets

Because who doesn’t love a good matching set! Even better - my recs are comfy!
 
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This is the PERFECT set to lounge in, run errands in, or hit the school car line! Material is well made, holds up through many washings, and color is vibrant!
AUTOMET Womens 2-Piece Lounge Sweatsuit Set

Random finds

Just a list for those things I love but couldn’t pick a category for!
 
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Great quality, long lasting, stylish, and 100% worth the price!
technical apparel + athletic shoes | lululemon
 
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I love this watch! It even comes with tools to easily adjust the band. It’s been an everyday staple for me for months now!
V-MORO Resin Band for Apple Watch 42-46mm

Shoes

 
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These are so comfortable! The older I get, the less I can wear heels for a long time, but these allow me to do that! Concert, shopping, etc, these give me all the support and comfort.
Dr. Scholl's Women's Be Flex Wedge Pump | Women's Casuals
 
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These are so comfortable! The older I get, the less I can wear heels for a long time, but these allow me to do that! Concert, shopping, etc, these give me all the support and comfort.
Dr. Scholl's Women's Be Flex Wedge Pump | Women's Casuals
 
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These are perfect for those casual outfits, but still give you the support and comfort you need.
Dr. Scholl's Women's Madison Slip On Sneaker | Women's Sneakers
 
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These are my favorite summer wedges! They are cute and stylish, but still give me comfort and support, without rubbing a blister on my feet. A must have for sure!
Dr. Scholl's Women's Barton Band Wedge Sandal | Women's Sandals