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Becoming Her Before 30 🤍 (Life Reset + Glow Up)
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items I’m turning 30 soon, and this is me rebuilding my life with God 🤍
Everything here is what I’m using (or growing into) to become more disciplined, more peaceful, and more aligned.
If you’re in a season of starting over or becoming a better version of...
Sections
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Morning Routine 🤍
Mindset + Discipline 🧠
Peaceful Space ✨
Night Reset 🌙
Morning Routine 🤍
Slow mornings, God first, and setting the tone for my day 🤍
This is what keeps me grounded and consistent.
I really love a prayer journal when my mind used to be all over the place. I used to always love to read a psalm and write out what God is trying to tell me and it brought me a lot of peace as well as lotta open doors I will be going back to that I w...
One Thing I Ask | Prayer Journal - Hosanna Revival
I love highlighting, emphasizing where the scripture connects with your everyday life so important. I don’t want to write up on my personal Bible, but this is a great alternative to preserve the Bible. All while putting in keynotes.
Bible Highlighters And Tabs - Amazon.com
When my first male high jump training partner passed away at just 24, my heart was shattered. That same year, I moved to a new city 🌆 and everything felt overwhelming. What helped me get through the grief was focusing on my blessings and intentional...
Gratitude Journal - Amazon.com
Consuming high-quality teas makes such a big difference. I love adding it to my morning routine. A nice cup of warm water with herbal tea supports aging, boosts your immune system, and helps with recovery.
I’m really leaning into it, ideally once a ...
Herbal Tea - The Republic of Tea
Using a glass water bottle has really helped me stay on top of my hydration. Drinking more water is key 💧 it keeps my skin clear, my hair nourished, and allows nutrients to flow through my body, which supports recovery.
I’m really leaning into this...
bkr: Reusable Glass Water Bottles with Silicone Sleeves
A sunrise alarm clock is honestly one of the best things, especially if you live somewhere with long winters. It’s such a natural way to regulate your cortisol levels and ease into your mornings.
If you’re trying to become more of a morning person, ...
Wake Up Light Sunrise Alarm Clock for Kids
I opened this app every single morning before I even get out of bed. The one time I break the phone rule
Read the Bible online. A free Bible on your phone, tablet, or ...
Mindset + Discipline 🧠
Discipline is the real glow up 🤍
This is everything helping me stay focused and level up my life.
This is a book I really want to read. I wanna start into reading more, especially as a black woman devotionals speaking to us from perspective that we understand is perfect.
The Devotional for Black Women: 52 Weeks of Affirmations
These affirmation cards for Black women are just fire 🔥
They’re beautiful, uplifting, and honestly such a vibe. You can use them in the morning to set the tone for your day, at night to reflect, or even with your friends just going through them tog...
Affirmation Cards For Black Women - Amazon.com
I really feel like taking blue light glasses seriously has made a huge difference for me. As someone who’s always on screens, it’s helped reduce my headaches and protect my vision.
It’s such a simple habit, but it actually goes a long way in prevent...
livho High Tech Blue Light Glasses
Super helpful to stay, consistent and locked in
How to Bullet Journal: The Absolute Ultimate Guide
As a black woman, I’m always going to root for us and work on encouraging others to thrive
Self Love Books For Black Women - Amazon.com
This guide has helped me so much during a time i wasn't sure what was going on in my life if you are in the same places lock in !
Jeremiah 29:11 Bible Study Bestie
Peaceful Space ✨
I’m obsessed with candles 🕯️
Lighting a candle just romanticizes everything. Whether I’m cooking, getting work done, creating content, or hanging out with my girlfriends… even when I’m alone, it just sets the whole vibe.
I already know this is goi...
Scented Candles: 3-Wick and Single Wick | Bath & Body Works
I love me some pink 💕
It’s giving girly pod, it’s giving cozy, it’s giving soft life. A cute pink lounge set just makes everything feel put together while still being comfortable.
It’s like I’m stepping into that soft, healed, feminine energy… and...
Women's Pink Lounge Sets | Soft & Comfortable Sleepwear - Target
When I say I love pink, I’m not kidding 💕
This pink silk robe is so Barbie-coded and I’m obsessed. It’s soft, it’s luxurious, it’s that effortless feminine energy.
I’m fully in my pink girl era… who’s gonna stop me? ✨
Pink Silk Robes For Women - Amazon.com
Make your space the ultimate pink space super cute 
barbieisgaming's pink storefront's Amazon Page
This pink vinyl wall is everything 💕
It’s giving aesthetic, it’s giving girly pop, it’s giving main character energy. A whole wall of pink vinyl records? Yeah… that’s a statement.
It’s playful, creative, and honestly just makes the space feel so a...
HAUS AND HUES Pink CDs Wall Poster 12x16
Night Reset 🌙
If you’re not sleeping on a silk pillowcase… you’re doing it wrong 💕
Switching to silk really changes your skin and your hair. Less friction means less breakage, better moisture retention, and smoother skin especially if you have sensitive skin.
T...
Silk Pillowcase - Standard/Queen - Slip | Sephora
No matter your hair type, you should always sleep with a bonnet 💕
Stay with me… always protect your hair at night. A bonnet helps reduce breakage, keeps your hair moisturized, and preserves your style so you wake up ready.
It’s a simple habit, but...
Bonnet - Amazon.com
Obsessed is an understatement 💕
I love my teas from DAVIDsTEA. Becoming her means choosing the right routines that actually pour back into me, and this is one of them.
This is definitely about to be a staple in my nighttime routine. I can’t wait t...
Wind Down 3 Tea Sampler
Collecting your thoughts and putting them on paper is powerful 💕
It helps you take control of your mind, organize your ideas, and stay grounded as you grow. That daily and nightly reflection? It’s key.
This is something I’m fully locked in on for ...
Nighttime Journal - Amazon.com
Calming lamps are everything 💡💕
The soft lighting instantly shifts the mood. It helps you slow down, relax your mind, and feel at peace especially after a long day.
Whether I’m journaling, praying, or just unwinding, this is part of creating that...
Calming Lamp - Amazon.com