Rebecca Joens

You ever meet a bag that doesn’t just hold your stuff but basically introduces you before you even say hi? That’s what “Bags That Speak for You” is all about…..pieces that match your vibe, flex your energy, and carry a little attitude on your arm. And if loud logos aren’t your thing, you’re in the right spot…..understated doesn’t mean unnoticed. I cover the best of both worlds when it comes to handbags: from iconic investment pieces that hold their value to budget friendly finds that give you the same luxe look without the hefty price tag. Think of it as your go-to edit for all things arm candy: timeless designer staples, smart splurge-worthy bags, and chic options that prove you don’t need to spend a fortune to look polished.

As a bonafide fashion junkie with a lifelong love affair for clothing, shoes, and accessories, I take my closet seriously. If you’re looking for quality pieces that actually last (and make you feel like “that girl” when you put them on), I’ve got you covered. From staple basics to statement gems, these are the recommendations I swear by: and I promise, your wardrobe will thank you.

Your skin deserves better than green rings, babe. Yes, I love pretty things…but let’s be clear, not all jewelry is created equal. I’ll sprinkle in a few middle of the road pieces here and there, but when it comes down to it, I prefer sterling silver or 14k solid gold. Why? Because it lasts. It doesn’t tarnish, you can wear it in the water, in chlorine, wherever….and it stays beautiful. I’d rather invest in a few timeless pieces than buy piles of throwaway fashion jewelry that turns green after two wears. In the long run, I spend the same (if not less), but I’ve got quality over quantity every time. And I’ll show you exactly how to build your collection the smart way.

Whether it’s shoes, belts, scarves, or sunnies…..it’s the little details that pull the whole look together. Period. I’ve got all the goodies, and I’m here to share the pieces I actually love and wear. Think of this as your very own Devil Wears Prada list: the kind of finishing touches that make an outfit unforgettable. Because sometimes it’s not about the clothes themselves, it’s about that one perfect accessory that makes you feel unstoppable.

Because your face card should never decline. I’m all about that natural, fresh makeup look that makes you feel like you, but elevated. As a makeup artist and PMU pro, I’ve got it down to a science…..and I’d love to help you look (and feel) like the best version of yourself. These recs aren’t random: they’re my tried and-true, everyday go-to’s!

After way too much trial and error (aka smelling like a Sephora sample aisle), I’ve finally nailed down a few signature scents that get me complimented literally everywhere I go. And because I don’t believe in gatekeeping, I’m sharing them all right here. Everyone deserves to feel delicious in their own skin, period.

Your hair deserves more than bargain-bin suds. Yes, I do recommend salon-quality hair products…..because let’s be real, you cannot get salon quality results with Dollar Tree shampoo. Investing in good products isn’t about being bougie, it’s about keeping your strands healthy, strong, and shiny. Trust me, once you level up your routine, you’ll never look back.

As I started creeping up on 40, I finally got serious about my skincare (and honestly, I hope you’re doing it way sooner than I did). My esthetician—who also happens to give the best facials ever: introduced me to Epicuren, and let me tell you… it changed the game. Over the last two years, their Vitamin C serum and Retinol have completely transformed my skin. We’re talking oily, sometimes textured skin that’s now smooth, glowy, and borderline radiant. The combo of those two products? Pure fire. Skincare is serious business for me now, and Epicuren is officially my ride or die.

Self-care isn’t optional….it’s survival. Especially if you’re a mom, you know the drill: everyone else gets a piece of you, all day, every day. That’s why carving out time for your own body care routine is non-negotiable. My Body Bliss List is packed with the products and rituals that help me recharge, reset, and actually feel like myself again (instead of just “mom” on repeat). Because when your body feels cared for, your mind follows: and trust, your whole family benefits from that glow-up.

No, girl….you do need to be showering every day. And not the half-hearted rinse, I mean really getting all those bits and parts clean. Period. But here’s the upgrade: turn it into a ritual instead of a chore. The right body wash, scrubs, oils, and towels can make your shower feel less like “ugh, hygiene” and more like a full-blown spa moment. Daily showers aren’t just about being clean: they’re about resetting, refreshing, and stepping out feeling unstoppable.

Listen, as much as I’ve gotten serious about my skincare, I’ve learned the lips deserve their own spotlight. Enter: Laneige. After way too many nights of waking up with dry, cracked lips (cute, I know), I finally tried their lip sleeping mask…..and I’ve been hooked ever since. It’s like eight hours of beauty sleep, but just for your mouth. The balm, the gloss, the mask… all of it keeps my lips soft, plump, and smooth no matter the season. If you want lips that stay kissable 24/7, Laneige is the one.

When my nail tech retired, I thought my perfect mani days were over. Spoiler alert: they weren’t: they just moved to my kitchen table. That’s when my DIY gel nail journey began, and honestly? I haven’t looked back. With the right products, a little practice, and my tried-and-true tricks, you can get salon-level nails at home that actually last about three weeks without chips or breakage. If I can pull it off, trust me…you can too.

I love to decorate! Always have, always will. My husband and I have been renovating our 75-year-old antique home, and it’s been such a labor of love. I’ll be updating this list often with my favorite finds: cool antiques, vintage treasures, and yes, a few Amazon goodies too. All seasonal. Right now, it’s all about cozy fall vibes….so enjoy these autumn finds that bring warmth and character into any space. 🍂

Two dogs, three boys, three cats, and a pet pig… yeah, sometimes my house gets a little less than fresh. That’s where my secret weapon comes in: scent therapy. I swear by lavender and peppermint oils: try vacuuming with a cotton ball dabbed in lavender oil in your vac canister and you’ll thank me later. Total game-changer. And don’t even get me started on Antique Candle Co. candles… they’ve absolutely changed my life. The jars are reusable (hello, cute storage), they burn forever, and the scents linger in the best way: not overwhelming, not headache-inducing. Just cozy, lovely, and perfectly balanced. Basically, the vibe is fresh, not funky.

OCD mom here: with three cats, two dogs, and three feral teenage boys running wild. Cleaning isn’t a hobby in this house, it’s survival. My brain simply cannot (and will not) function in chaos, period. That’s why I’ve built a daily routine and a list of tried-and-true products that keep me sane(ish) and the house somewhat livable. Here are my go-to recommendations I use every single day…because around here, mess doesn’t stand a chance