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Obsessions + Must Haves
Beauty + Self Care
Body + Wellness
Mind + Soul
Style + Confidence
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Obsessions + Must Haves
All the little loves I’m currently obsessed with from products, treasures, + vibes. If I’m trying it, loving it, recommending it > IT'S HERE!
I was in love with the cookie butter cold foam and was so sad when it went away after being limited edition. But found this beauty and it taste SO GOOD! Now its not exactly the same but sure gives you the flavor you love without having to wait till n...
Coffee mate Non Dairy Butter Brown Chocolate Chip Flavored Cold Foam Coffee Creamer, 14 fl oz Bottle
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The best energy drink around- without all the yuckies! Ordering from here saves you a lil $$ compared to others stores. But will link Target for those who don’t have TikTok shopping
GORGIE Bestsellers Variety, Sugar-Free Natural Energy Drink Sparkling, - TikTok Shop
Have one in the car, my wallet and makeup bag >> its a top lippie of mine. Moisturizing + vanilla scent
e.l.f. Squeeze Me Lip Balm, Vanilla Frosting, 0.21oz
The perfect everyday nude 🫶
e.l.f. Glow Reviver Melting Lip Balm - Java Chip - 0.52oz
5 in 1 RF + EMS beauty treatment device. It’s discounted rn + has been part of my routine I look forward to!
CARER SPARK 5-in-1 facial massager for face and neck skin regeneration, lifting, firming and penetration, perfect gift for any season Christmas giftsLCD Rejuvenating Facial Massager compact travel design pore facial care#FallFreshness Black - TikTok Shop
Beauty + Self Care
No gatekeeping here! All skincare, makeup, hair, body care. What’s working on my skin, what’s earned my loyalty, what’s elevating my self-care ritual.
Shade Color: Espresso Your Inner Self the perfect fall/moody brown color. Think a chocolate color. I was skeptical if I'd like it but I am fully crushing on this hard. #espressoyourinnerself #opinailcolor #brownnailcolor
OPI Nail Lacquer, Purple Lavender, 0.5 fl oz
Not for ME but bought Amanda this for Vday! She already uses CREMO Body Wash and loves it so adding the NEWEST SCENT just made scents! Get it. LOL But seriously it smells incredible with notes of Italian Bergamot, Neroli Blossom and Fresh Vetiver. If...
Cremo Italian Bergamot Body Wash - 32 fl oz
I use to use the LOREAL Collagen Moisture Filler but found this as a cheaper alternative and fell in love with it. I've purchased and gone through 5 containers + is one of my most recommended products for glowy HYDRATION if you struggle with that lik...
Equate Collagen Moisturizer Day/Night Cream, 1.7 oz.
HYDRATION is key :) even for the skin. I am on my second bottle and love the hydration I receive from it. SMALL amount goes LONG way! Wake up to a beautiful glow. I have sensitive skin and do not have any issues with this product!
3 years using and ...
SheaMoisture Overnight Face Oil 100% Virgin Coconut
Tip: exfoliate till most beads are gone then shave 🪒 + silky smooth less razor bumps
Coco Colada Shea Sugar Scrub
LOVE LOVE - I have 3 different scents and really enjoy the experience that comes
Method Body Wash, Wind Down, 18 oz, Paraben Free
Your mini ultimate brow set! This has everything you need to keep up, trim, and shape your brows right from home! I pair with vaseline for the ultimate moisture restore from the micro razors! Spoolies are very helpful in brushing the hair if needed!
Molisaka Eyebrow Razor Pack, Face Razors for Women
Helps repair dead ends up to 94%, works incredible on my thick hair and leaves it soft, shiny and smells amazing!
Garnier Whole Blends Honey Treasures Hair Honey Repairing Leave In Serum, 5.1 fl oz
I use the both! I hair cycle (wash every 6 days) and love how clean this gets my scalp while leaving my hair hydrated and soft! Smells incredible.
Elvive L'Oreal Paris Total Repair 5, Floral Creamy & Juicy Green Scent, 12.6 fl oz
I loved the foundation more than I thought I would. It not full coverage but has a way of making you look like you have a filter on without one. It’s lightweight and don’t need much to apply unless you want to build coverage a lil. Gives the perfect ...
Rimmel Multi-Tasker Better Than Filters, 003 Light, Face Primer, Glow Booster and Highlighter, Vegan Formula, Anti-Ageing Benefits, Light-Reflecting Pigments, Giant Soft-Touch Wand, 1oz C57
Ultimate go to grab for an at home SPA NIGHT, to refine texture and promote a radiant glow! Highly recommend pairing with a shaving oil. (I’ll have my favs linked)
Tree Hut Moroccan Rose Shea Sugar Body Scrub - 18oz
Been using for over a year and absolutely love the product! I use to have issues with strands getting stuck between the hot plates and pulling my hair - I don’t have that with this straightener.
I was also highly impressed to learn what temperature...
Kristin Ess Titanium Flat Iron Hair Straightener and Curler - Dual Voltage - 1.25"
HANDS DOWN THE BEST! This was a gift and mine are still going - incredibly strong I may say. LONG HAIR GIRLIES - where you at? These help with keeping your out of your face when doing skincare or applying makeup! Washable. I want a pack in every colo...
SINLAND Spa Headband for Women, 3 Counts
Easiest brush to clean, easily remove hair buildup on brush, helped tremendously with growing my hair out! Have long hair and this help cut the time down 🙌
KISS COLORS & CARE 9-Row Detangling Hair Brush, Red
Great for girls who have eczema I like to keep it in my car or my bag when I'm having flareups!
Aveeno Daily Moisturizing Lotion with Oat for Dry Skin, 2.5 fl. oz
Get compliments ALL the time. And lasts all day. My IT GIRL pick ifykyk
SJP Born Lovely Lush Amber Floral Eau
Love! Learned the best template for my hair type (200 degrees less) and my hair has never looked or felt better.
My hair doesn’t get stuck or tugged like I’ve experienced in the past and love that is. 3:1 options
Kristin Ess Titanium Flat Iron Hair Straightener and Curler - Dual Voltage - 1.25"
The fact that this serum isn’t talked about more - blows my mind! I have long thick hair and this helps with softness, shine + frizz! It also smells like a high end hair product 👏
L LUSETA 100% Pure Argan Oil Hair Serum 3.38oz
The best for soft luxurious hair on a budget! The system is incredible at repairing and leaving your hair in the best condition. Smells great
Garnier Whole Blends Honey Treasures Shampoo and Conditioner Set, For Damaged Hair, 1 kit
The best for tangles while helping protect your hair
It's a 10 Haircare Miracle Leave-In 10oz
I am not a pro when it comes to brows - I am grateful for how easy E.L.F. has made it. with a 2:1 brush/liner making it a breeze to do at home/orrr on the go! I use the shade Deep Brown
e l f Instant Lift Brow Pencil Deep Brown
Wet N Wild Dewy Foundation - I have the hardest time finding a fair enough shade to to not only match my skintone but actually work for coverage. You can pick your coverage with this + the multiple shades makes it a top used product in my every GRWM ...
Wet n Wild Photo Focus Dewy Liquid Foundation Makeup, Nude Ivory, 1.0 fl oz
I love to use under my eyes as a brightenr and over my concealer for a glowy medium coverage look. It is used in my GRWM Routines and have repurchased
Rimmel Multi-Tasker Primer & Highlighter 002
Its my EVERYDAY go to mascara. I am use fan of the wand and love the curl aspect and how bold it makes eyes pop. No flaked or itchy irritation to wearing all day (10+ hrs) and still gentle enough while removing I don't have burning
Nu Skin Mascara
Very similar to the vanilla balm - was gifted one for my birthday and have loved it as an everyday wear. Its moisturizing and non sticky
e.l.f. Glow Reviver Melting Lip Balm, Vanilla Soft Serve, 0.52oz
Bath & Body Works: Body Care & Home Fragrances You'll Love | Bath & Body Works
Blackberry Sorbet ✨
e.l.f. Glow Reviver Melting Lip Balm - Blackberry Sorbet - 0.52oz
Body + Wellness
My journey from 302lbs to 135lbs was just the start. Here are movement tools, nutrition finds, routines + tips that keep me thriving as my best self daily.
I absolutely LOVE my set! I have the blue, grey and black and want them in ALL colors. Very fitting even IF you think it wont be. Butt forming as well - I really can't compliment this set enough! I get compliments everytime I wear a pair.
OQQ Women 3 Piece Yoga Shorts Ribbed V Waist
From 302lbs to 125lbs booty bands were a must! I used on different exercises to practice form and to build strength in area that were weaker when I first started working out.
4 Fabric Booty Exercise Bands with Workout Guide
The best energy drink around- without all the yuckies! Ordering from here saves you a lil $$ compared to others stores. But will link Target for those who don’t have TikTok shopping
GORGIE Bestsellers Variety, Sugar-Free Natural Energy Drink Sparkling, - TikTok Shop
Mind + Soul
Because the inner world matters MOST! Tools, books, routines, practices that sustain me when life gets busy
Sis - Life gets busy I get it. But we all know if you don't have someone pouring into you sometimes things can get lonely. This non judgement newsletter sends candid conversations + advice right to your inbox. No force just there if/when you need it....
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I couldn’t stop recommending this book if you paid me to.
“What will people think?”, to “I am enough” was something I struggled with for years and those closest to me didn’t understand or relate in order to help in the ways I needed. This book brok...
I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn't) - by Brené Brown (Paperback)
The GIFTS of imperfection! Highly recommend if you struggle with your mind and yourself on being perfect for everyone all the time
The Gifts of Imperfection - by Brené Brown (Paperback)
“Reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering”
The Four Agreements - (Toltec Wisdom) by Don Miguel Ruiz & Janet Mills (Paperback)
Style + Confidence
ITS GIRL FASHION - Look I'm not your PG kinda gal. IT GIRL FASHION - looks I love, make me laugh or even make me feel sexy. HELLO your the IT GIRL what makes you feel 🔥 no worries I got you!
So stretchy and LOVE IT!! Fitting in all the right areas but able to move and do my job without feeling like I'll rip my pants! Staple in my closet for a dark jean!
AE Next Level Super High-Waisted Jegging
One of my absolute favorite bundles definitely for summertime. It’s a mystery three pack. They are buttery, soft and absolute. Great quality. I have purchased three times.
Alexander Jane Essential Crop Bralette Bundle - TikTok Shop
Book BESTIES Unite
This was the most unhyped read of 2025 so far! Made it to a top 5 fav of mine and have even gifted it to book besties because its that good!
The Stillwater Girls
This is not for everybody so do check trigger warnings before - but this book and series had me absolutely hooked!
It is a dark, psychological smut book. 10/10
Haunting Adeline (Cat and Mouse Duet)
Not meant for everyone would check trigger warnings beforehand!
This is the second book of the series, and as I noted on the first book, the series had me hooked from book one.
It’s a dark psychological smut book -cat and mouse style
Hunting Adeline (Cat and Mouse Duet)
LOVED! Also a great selection for spooky season. Its a twisty, chilling story set in a former Magdalen Laundry in Manhattan that explores today’s #MeToo complexities.
The Stranger Behind You: A Novel
4/5 ⭐️
Family Across the Street
I couldn’t stop recommending this book if you paid me to.
“What will people think?”, to “I am enough” was something I struggled with for years and those closest to me didn’t understand or relate in order to help in the ways I needed. This book brok...
I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn't) - by Brené Brown (Paperback)