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It was never a phase, Mom 💀🤘🏻

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Truth be told, I’m still very much in my emo phase. I am a Warped Tour girl, through and through. My nostalgia feels most at home in stores like hot topic, zumiez, vans, Tilly’s, etc. so treat this list as a way to find those nostalgic pieces that we...
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Shoes

The good the bad and the glorious of shoes. I’ll give you the classics, and the updates that are better for your feet and back lol.
 
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I can’t believe I didn’t know about these sooner. A little more cushion than the classics, a little sporty, but still has that vans feel. These are perfect for my 31 year old knees.
Shop UltraRange Shoes – Comfort, Lightweight, Traction
 
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Another staple for elder emos is a good pair of chucks. So many color options. Be totally prepared that these soles never got better.. lol. Maybe add some cushion. But these go with everything, to this day!
Converse - Tillys
 
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Simple. Basic. Timeless. Easy to thrash, but just as easy to replace. I always keep a pair or two on hand.
Vans Authentic
 
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I LOVE the style of the old skools. Little more cushion and a little more to the look than the authentics or the slip ons. These are actually my day to day shoes.
Shop Old Skool Shoes - Vans
 
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A classic pair of slip ons is easy for around the house, out and about, or anywhere in between. Do not be mistaken. Arch support is non existent in these like most other vans, so if you do wear them. Consider some inserts and save your back! We’re el...
Shop Classic Slip-On Shoes - Vans

Accessories

An outfit is in the details.. the accessories, if you will. Let’s throwback!
 
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Okay so maybe it won’t be allowed in at a “clear bag only” festival.. but look how cute these are! I personally don’t carry too much on me because i hate purses, so these are a perfect and minimal addition to my wardrobe!
Lil Pergs Checkerboard Tote Bag in Antique White / Black | Vans
 
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You can’t go wrong with a classic black beanie. Pairs well with any casual outfit, duh!
Vans Classic Cuff Beanie in Black
 
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Backpacks are the simplest go bag around (aside from a good duffel). Sticking with the vans theme, there are plenty of checkerboard color ways to choose from here
Old Skool Classic Backpack in Black| Vans UK
 
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There are SO many to chose from now, and they are all so dang cute. Check out the entire stock instead of being tied down to the hot topic best hits, or whatever Disney is over pricing these days.
Shop Mini and Full Size Fandom Themed Backpacks at Loungefly
 
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I still shop the amazing deals at Spencer’s. Buy so many and get one for free, on top of whatever deals they run, tends to leave me with some amazing options.
Body Piercing Jewelry - Spencer's
 
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Goes without saying, but pins are a must. Band themed. Cartoon themed. Music themed. You name it. Spencer’s has a huge selection.
Pins & Buttons - Spencer's
 
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Talk about a staaaaple. One. Jelly bracelets overall. But two. I love boobies bracelets are an amazing cause, and therefore timeless
KEEP A BREAST I Love Boobies! Classic Bracelet - BLACK/WHITE

Misc.

Extras!
 
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Are you really an elder emo if you don’t own a vinyl yet? This link will take you to targets selection. Sometimes they have target collections that have different color vinyls than normal. Check those out, or through the band websites directly!
Vinyl Records | Music at Target
 
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If you didn’t dye your hair in some crazy shade at least once.. I don’t think your emo phase counted.. but don’t worry! Arctic Fox Semi-permanent hair color still exists.
Homepage | Arctic Fox - Dye For A Cause

Clothes

Some additional sources for clothing if you don’t want to test out the thrift stores like we did.. 😉
 
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Okay so technically this is labeled as a gothic shop on SHEIN, but the clothes are decent quality and super cute
Fashion ROMWE Goth | SHEIN USA
 
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I’m pretty sure this goes without saying, but band tees are timeless 🖤
Band & Music Shirts - Hot Topic