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Kids Autism essentials
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items These are kids essentials that keep little ones focused and calm. You will also find skin products for kids and other things that makes motherhood easy.
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Toys
These toys helps kids with autism to stay calm and reduces anxiety
Color sorting sensory balls. Helps with fine motor skills + visual tracking. Smooth texture is calming for stimming. Kids love squeezing + sorting by color. Visual stim lava lamp. Slow-moving glitter is soothing f...
Autism Toys for Kids, Teens and Adults on the Spectrum
Story projector with sound + lights. Projects images on wall/ceiling for visual stim + bedtime routine. Buttons + dials build fine motor skills. Calming routine toy for sleep/anxiety.
Learning Toys
LED light drawing board. Glowing colors + drawing motion is calming for sensory input. Reusable surface reduces anxiety about mistakes. Builds focus + creativity for quiet time.
Ultimate Light Board, White, Kids Drawing Tablet, LED Drawing Board for Kids, Holiday and Christmas Gift for Boys and Girls, Toys for Kids, 6+
Rainbow balance stepping stones. Walking and balancing provides proprioceptive input to calm the body. Textured surface helps foot awareness and coordination. Great gross motor tool for energy and focus.
B. toys Sensory Balance Beams for Active Play Balance and Build Set
These will definitely make your toddler busy and concentrating on them. Curated autism sensory toys for toddlers 3+. Each toy provides calming input, builds fine/gross motor skills, and reduces meltdowns. Tested by my child for focus, stimming relief...
Best Toys for Toddlers with Autism - Fun & Educational
Safe silicone chew necklaces for kids who chew clothes and pens. Helps with anxiety, focus and BPA free. My nephew wears his all day and it's easy to clean.
Chew Necklace - Amazon.com
Loud sounds trigger meltdowns for my nephew. These noise-canceling headphones block background noise but he can still hear us talk. He wears them at church, funerals, and when the generator is on. Soft padding, fits kids age 4-10. Battery powered and...
Kids Noise Cancelling Headphones for Ages 3-15 | ProCase
Weighted lap pad helps my nephew sit still during homework. The gentle pressure calms him when he feels restless or anxious. 3kg weight, perfect for ages 5-10. Fits on lap at table or on couch. Washable cover because kids are messy. His teacher notic...
Weighted Lap Pad
Pop-it fidget toy is my nephew’s go to when he’s overstimulated. Pressing the bubbles gives his fingers something to do instead of biting nails. Silent, so it works in class and church. He brings this one everywhere car, waiting room and school desk...
Pop It - Amazon.com
I recommend this because for my nephew bath time was screaming and fighting every everyday. These dino toys light up and squirt water, so he focuses on play instead of fear of water. Now he asks “bath time?” For moms: LED lights mean no batteries...
Dinosaur Bath Toys - Amazon.com
Kids Products
These items are the things I bought for my kids and they love them so I wanted to recommend to other moms.
I bought this beanie for my cousin's son because he hates anything touching his head - sensory issue. This knit is soft and it has no scratchy tag inside, so he wears it all day during Lusaka winter mornings. The pom-pom makes it fun, not “medical”. ...
Kids Hats - Amazon.com
Why I recommend these kids sneakers:
• Super lightweight - My son wears them all day at creche in Lusaka and no sore feet • Velcro strap - Perfect for autism kids who can’t do laces. He puts them on himself • Breathable mesh - Keeps feet cool in Zambian heat + no sweaty smell • D...
For moms: Velcro = no meltdowns during dressing time. 1 pair lasts 2 terms at school.
• Super lightweight - My son wears them all day at creche in Lusaka and no sore feet • Velcro strap - Perfect for autism kids who can’t do laces. He puts them on himself • Breathable mesh - Keeps feet cool in Zambian heat + no sweaty smell • D...
For moms: Velcro = no meltdowns during dressing time. 1 pair lasts 2 terms at school.
Kids Shoes, Sneakers, Slides, & More | Kids Foot Locker
Every kid's favorite shoes.I bought these Jordans for my cousin in Lusaka because he loves the Jumpman logo. The lace-up design keeps his feet secure and they’re tough enough for playground running. For moms: Real Jordans = 1 pair last. Kids feel con...
Kids Jordan Shoes. Nike.com
Baby activity jumper with toys. Bouncing provides vestibular input to calm and regulate. 360 rotation and hanging toys build motor skills + focus. Seat support helps core strength for sensory development.
Bouncers And Jumpers For Kids - Toys & Games
I recommend this because my son only drinks water if it’s COLD. Hydro Flask keeps water cold all day and lt leaves no leaks in his school bag. The handle is perfect for his small hands and he decorates it with stickers so it’s “his” bottle. For moms:...
Kids Bottle Bundle - Hydro Flask
I bought this for my daughter . She hates sleeping on bare mattresses at creche, too much noise + light. This nap mat has pillow + blanket attached, so it’s portable and she feels safe. We roll it up and carry to church too. For moms: 3-in-1 means le...
Moonsea Toddler Nap Mat with Pillow & Blanket
Crown silicone pacifier clip + 2 travel cases. Blue + grey crowns for boy/girl. Clips to baby clothes so pacifier never drops on dirty floor. Cases keep it clean in diaper bag/car. Life-saver for moms outside Lusaka - no more buying new pacifiers ...
Pacifier Accessories: Baby Products - Amazon.com
diaper backpack worn as backpack. Hands-free for moms with autistic kids who need holding. Lots of pockets for headphones, fidget toys, snacks, spare clothes. Doesn’t look like “baby bag” - dads use it too.
Unisex Baby Bags - Dagne Dover
I bought this for my nephew because he refuses food if it touches. This lunch box has separate sections and small cup for soup. He can see “all food at once” so no surprises = no meltdown. The box also keeps food warm 4hrs because classrooms get col...
Kids Lunch Boxes in Lunch Boxes & Lunch Bags(1000+) - Walmart
I use these adventure books for bedtime with my son in Lusaka who has autism. The big pictures + short sentences keep him focused without overload. Reading this 10 mins before sleep stops the meltdowns and helps him transition to bed.
Amazon.com: Children's Books
Skin products
These products are skin friendly and they make your baby's skin smooth, soft and clean.
I use this bathing gel for my girl and I love how soft her skin is. The no-tears formula means no screaming during bath time - huge win. Gentle smell doesn’t overload him like other soaps. For moms: 1 bottle lasts 2 months even with daily baths the ...
Newborn Baby Shower Gel - Amazon.com
I use this Cetaphil lotion on my son in Lusaka after bath time. He has eczema and most lotions sting or smell too strong. This one absorbs fast, no scent overload and stops the scratching at night. For moms: 1 pump covers full body. Pediatrician te...
Kids Moisturizer - Amazon.com
I use this Cetaphil 2-in-1 for my baby in Lusaka with sensitive skin. No-tears shampoo = zero screaming in the shower. Light scent doesn’t trigger meltdowns like other soaps. 2-in-1 saves time during rushed mornings. Pediatrician tested for eczema.
Baby Shampoo And Body Wash - Amazon.com
I keep this Boudreaux’s Butt Paste for my baby. Diaper changes can trigger meltdowns and he gets rashes fast from Lusaka heat. This Max Strength works overnight - wake up with no crying, no rash. Thick zinc = instant barrier. For moms: 1 tube lasts m...
Boudreaux's Butt Paste Max Strength Diaper Cream
I use Cristina’s Curls set for my baby who has 4c hair. Hair wash day used to mean 2hrs of crying + fighting. This shampoo + detangler slips through knots with zero tears. Light scent doesn’t overload him. This set saves time 1 set lasts 3 months.
Baby Products - Cristina's Curls