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Things that make me seem “so put together.”
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items Looking polished isn’t about expensive spa days—it’s about the everyday products and routines that quietly do the work for you. This list is filled with the body care, hair care, and self-care tools I actually use daily to look and feel more confiden...
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Body care
Hair care
Body care
This is the category that keeps the polish going beyond clothes and makeup. It’s not about being high-maintenance—it’s about small things that make you feel a little more pulled-together every single day. These are the products that smooth, hydrate, ...
My laser hair removal girl started recommending this to everyone after seeing how my skin just was flawless each time.
Bikini Shave Oil for Women | Cashmere Skin Collection by ...
Right after you get out of the shower. Pat your skin with a towel, make sure you’re damp, then massage this in. You’ll thank yourself
Vanilla Cashmere Body Oil
Want to know how I smell so good? I bathe in this stuff 🤣
Shea Better Vanilla Cashmere Body Lotion ...
Every night. And after every shower under my underarms for smooth pits!
Skin Therapy Face Oil - Cocoa Butter Formula Products
Every night, without fail. Baby soft lips in the morning!
Lip Sleeping Mask Nourish & Hydrate
Once a week in the shower. Not just for arms and legs. Get those underarms too!
vanilla shea sugar scrub
Of course in Vanilla. And of course I have a monthly subscription. And yes, there’s always a stick in my purse.
Lume Deodorant
Can’t have a shower without this pretty little one hanging on the wall. Highly comfortable, affordable and accessible. Also a bi monthly subscription.
The Razor Starter Kit
This is excellent for the weekly exfoliation, but this is even better for really sudsing up with your daily soap. Makes me feel even cleaner. Plus I throw mine in the dishwasher and give it a good rinse down before using again!
Antimicrobial Silicone Body Scrubber
Of course vanilla bean. And of course I have them all over (purse, coat pocket, night stand, car, everywhere)
Natural Lip Balm for Moisturized, Smooth Lips
Every night I do a side pony since I sleep on my back and I hate the way a scrunchie feels squished between my skull and the pillow. These scrunchies don’t crease and help actually give a nice “cool girl” wave to my hair
Multi Large Scrunchies - Slip
I buy these in bulk because we travel often and they are not just for hair!! I use them for shoes in a suitcase, my kids’ toiletries, everything. Game changer
Shower Cap
I am a buff city girl through and through. The silicone soap holder is life changing. And it’s great to throw in the dishwasher after a buff soap bar is done!
Dishes & Holders
I swear by their soap bars. Breathe, narcissist and my personal combo “sugar beast” (half pink sugar, half ferocious beast!) and the ones with Shea are even more moisturizing!!
Buff City Soap
My Stanley tumbler rarely leaves my side. I use it every day for water, coffee, and even iced tea while I’m journaling or working on creative projects. It keeps drinks cold for hours, fits perfectly in the car cupholder, and honestly makes it easier ...
Stanley 30oz Tumbler
I reach for this because it actually works in the amount of time I’m willing to give it—one minute. My hands take a beating between dishes, typing, and endless kid-related clean-ups, and this scrub resets them fast.
It’s loaded with shea butter, so ...
Shea One-Minute Hand Scrub
This is my go-to when my hands are dry or overworked. It’s rich without being greasy, sinks in fast, and actually keeps my skin soft for hours. A little feels like a reset—like I’ve taken care of myself even on the busiest days.
Moisturizing French Hand Creams
While the shower is warming up, start at the ankle, and brush up in long strokes. Circle motion around the belly button. Wrists into chest, long strokes. Aim towards the heart. Careful on your chest- sensitive skin!
The Dry Brush
Hair care
So weightless especially for fine thin hair!! And it smells so gentle, gives a nice cleanse- and it definitely FEELS like it’s clean
ghost™ shampoo | weightless + cleanse
Silk scrunchies are a little upgrade that make a big difference in my routine. I use them every day because they don’t tug or crease my hair the way regular elastics do, and they feel so much more comfortable. They’re gentle, stylish, and honestly ma...
Scrunchies | KITSCH: Designer Hair Products Online
My Kitsch silk pillowcase is one of those little luxuries that actually makes a big difference. I use it every night because it’s gentler on my hair and skin — less frizz, fewer sleep lines, and it just feels cool and soft. It makes my bed feel more ...
Shop Pillowcases | KITSCH Hair & Beauty Essentials with Free Shipping ...
There’s something quietly reassuring about having your hair feel smooth—without the weight. That’s exactly why this mini bottle rides shotgun in my travel bag. It’s light enough for daily use, tames frizz, detangles, and gives a soft shine—all withou...
ghost™ conditioner | weightless + nourish
This mini spray is my go-to when I need a quick refresh in-flight or before a night out. It adds grit and body without that crunchy feel, gives my flat hair a little lift, and stays light enough that I forget it’s there—until someone comments on my “...
volume dry texture spray | grit + light hold
I don’t overthink brushes, but this one makes brushing feel effortless. The IntelliFlex bristles glide through both wet and dry hair with less tugging, less pain, and noticeably fewer broken strands—even on a rough morning. It’s the kind of small upg...
Wet Brush Official Site - Pain Free Brushing for Every Occasion
This made the cut because it doesn’t just hold—it smooths. I spray it on after styling, and it guards against frizz and humidity for a full day without turning my hair into a crunchy statue. It’s strong yet flexible, adds shine, and smells subtly fru...
Garnier Fructis Sleek & Shine Hairspray
I toss this in whenever my hair’s feeling brittle or frizzy—what’s been nicked or snapped by styling or weather. It’s a quick five-minute pre-shampoo thing that truly gets in there: peptides and citric acid slip deep into the hair shaft—seven layers ...
Fructis Hair Filler Inner Fiber Repair Pre-Shampoo Treatment
I reach for this when my hair needs a quick reset—not just fluffed up, but actually smoothed and protected without fuss. This spray does ten things in one, from detangling and taming frizz to adding shine, heat and UV protection, sealing color, reduc...
It's a 10 Miracle Leave-In Conditioner
This one tool does the job of two—straightener and curler—in one. The lightweight design, built-in clip, and 360° airflow vents mean you lock in sleek, shiny hair or effortless curls with one pass. Titanium plates heat fast and glide smooth, the adju...
Le Duo 360° Airflow Styler in Standard or Grande Sizes