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My Hair Routine Staples (aka the Products I’d Cry Without)

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These are the products I swear by for soft, healthy, freaking good-smelling hair. I’ve tried so many over the years, but these are the ones that actually work—and I keep repurchasing. If it’s on this list, I’ve used it, loved it, and probably told y’...
 
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This is my weekly treat yourself hair moment. I use Soulfood once a week and it never fails to leave my hair feeling soft, hydrated, and smooth without weighing it down. It smells amazing (like all things Amika) and brings my ends back to life every ...
Amika Soulfood Mask – Weekly Hair Therapy 🍯
 
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I use this about 3–4 days after my Soulfood mask and it’s exactly what my hair needs between washes. It’s a lightweight overnight treatment that hydrates without making my hair greasy, and I wake up with softer, smoother strands every time. It keeps ...
Amika Dream Routine – The Midweek Moisture Boost 💧
 
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I do not stand for Pantene slander. This duo brought my hair back from the literal brink. It’s affordable, super hydrating, and makes my hair feel soft, clean, and manageable every single time. If you’re sleeping on Pantene because of the internet—do...
Pantene Moisture Shampoo & Conditioner
 
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This is what I imagine heaven smells like. It’s sweet, soft, and SO good it makes me excited to brush my hair. It detangles like a dream, adds a little shine, and makes my hair feel silky without being greasy. One of those products that just makes yo...
Kenra Platinum Pearl Detangler Milk
 
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This is my go-to anytime I’m using heat. It protects my hair so well without feeling heavy or sticky, and it smells warm and cozy—like a hot drink on a cold day. Whether I’m blow drying or curling, Hot Toddy is always in the mix. Keeps my ends from f...
Drybar Hot Toddy – My Heat Styling Sidekick 🔥
 
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This is the only hairspray I’ve found that holds my style without making my hair crunchy or stiff. It’s buildable, brushable, and perfect for those days when I want movement but still need my hair to stay put. It always comes through.
Living Proof Flex Hairspray – Soft Hold, Strong Results 💨
 
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This stuff is like a root-lifting magic trick. Just a few sprays and my hair has volume, texture, and that perfectly tousled look without feeling sticky or heavy. I use it when I want my hair to look fuller and have that soft, effortless lift—especia...
Kenra Dry Volume Burst 3 - Instant Lift
 
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This is the one I’ve used forever and still trust to save a greasy hair day. It actually cleans my hair—not just masks the oil—and adds a little volume without that chalky buildup. I haven’t switched to the Advanced version (yet), but I’m not against...
Living Proof Dry Shampoo – The OG That Still Hits 🫧