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The Only Things You’ll Need as A First Time Mom!
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items Don't make mistakes that I made, buying things that were absolutely unnecessary. This list should hopefully help you decide where you should spend your money on.
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For Baby
For Mom
For Baby
So many things sold out there that you don't really need, such as a changing table. Because once your baby can roll, I mean, that's it. I'm here to help you buy only what is absolutely needed.
I'm a big believer in co-sleeping because babies wake up every 2 hours and I want easy breastfeeding access, this way I don't have to get up and lose sleep. If you're uncomfortable with having them right next to you though, at least find one that is ...
JOYMOR 3 in 1 Baby Bedside Bassinet, Bedside Sleeper with Mattress and Sheet, Convert to Bassinet, Playpen
This one is on the smaller size, but it can sway side to side for nap time. Potty things can go in the compartment underneath.
Baby Bassinet Bedside Sleeper, Portable 3-in-1 Design,Grey
Another option for smaller bassinet with storage. Trust me this storage is very very important. It keeps everything you need from diapers, wipes, trash bags, to blankets.
Kinder King Baby Bassinet Bedside Sleeper, 3-in-1 Convertible Portable Infant Bed with Adjustable Height, Wheels, Mosquito Net & Storage, Beige
You know, you don't need a changing table to put a changing pad in. These can go on your bed, on the karpet on the floor, wherever basically. What you need is the mat! Not the table.
Munchkin Secure Grip Waterproof Diaper Changing Pad
Even if you're not always on the go, having one of this at home is just a lifesaver.
KeaBabies Ezee Portable Diaper Changing Pad, Portable Diaper Changing Mat, Waterproof Foldable Diaper Changing Pad (Woodland)
I love to have a few of them, not only for changing time but also for when they learn to roll over, sometimes they puke a little haha. Hence I need these to protect the bed.
KeaBabies Swift Portable Diaper Changing Pad, Portable Waterproof Diaper Changing Pad for Baby, Travel Changing Pad for Diaper Bag (Dino Ridge)
I thought this was just another “toy” to soothe the baby, but nooooooo this is so much more. This saves your lives momma, when you need to take a shower, pee, poo, and everything else.
Jool Baby Nova Motorized Infant Baby Swing
If you have the extra budget, this one is soooo so so so so worth it! Remote controlled and not only swings! Watch the video. It is a life saver truly.
Baby Trend Nu-Motion Infinity Swing with Interactive Display
I personally love this color better. Just choose between the two.
Baby Trend NuMotion Infinity Swing - Dash Gray: Adjustable Speed, Detachable Toy Bar, Reclining Seat, Electric, 5-Point Harness
For Mom
Mom's comfort during the first few months is CRUCIAL. Otherwise you won't be able to enjoy this journey as much as you're supposed to.
Nursing aka Breastfeeding is the one thing that you'll be doing about 12 times a day. You have to protect your back and posture while doing so. Hence, a good nursing pillow!
Inglesina Elysia Nursing & Breastfeeding Pillow
Breastfeeding twins in itself is already enough of a challenge. You might want to find something that helps make the whole process smoother. Also, the little pocket to put your drink in here is an absolute gem because you will be thirsty like you can...
My Brest Friend Twin Nursing Pillow
Not many nursing pillows have the back support such as this one. I find this very comfortable especially because you don't need to find another pillow for your lower back.
My Brest Friend Super Deluxe Nursing Pillow
I used to think, the more professional looking the machinery is, the better. WRONG! Especially for breastpumps. Big hospital pumps was slowing me down. Manual hand pumps hurts and restricting. Get yourself one that lets you still be able to do everyt...
Horigen AOV6861 Pink Double Electric Breast Pump, Wearable Hands-Free, Smart Memory, 3D Pumping, Portable Quiet
Now this one is a powerful one. All you need is a pumping bra to hook them into and you're good to go.
Evenflo Advanced Double Electric Breast Pump with Breastshields and Milk Storage Bottles, Lightweight
Well, if you're looking at one that is hospital grade and you have time to relax at home or you have help and is not really thinking of freeing your hands, this one is a classic that stands the test of time.
Spectra Baby USA S1 Plus Electric Breast Pump with Rechargeable Battery
They are very comfy to be honest, and fuss free. Nothing to snap anywhere, just a simple maneuver and you're there.
Larken Hands Free Pumping Bra for Breastfeeding
I can't find the ones I often wear because it's Indonesian made, but these looks pretty much like the one I had at home. They are beyond sturdy, will keep the cups in place. And best of all, these are women owned company, and who knows women's needs ...
Simple Wishes Hands Free Pumping Bra
I love these because of the cups. They keep my breast shape and the pads (yes you'll need pads) looking smooth and normal.
Momcozy Ultra Soft Nursing & Wearable Breast Pump Bra
Just trust me on this; You can never have enough breast pads! You won't want to have to keep changing your shirt, I mean who has the time?
Lansinoh Stay Dry Disposable Nursing Pads for Breastfeeding, Leakproof - 100ct: BPA-Free, Leakproof Lining, 4.5-Inch Diameter
I use the brand Pigeon in my country, but these ones look pretty similar. Just find ones that are gentle on the skin, otherwise it is itch-town.
Disposable Breast Pads - 60ct - up&up™: Nursing Pads, BPA-Free, BPS-Free
For those who prefers washable ones, this could be an option. Back in the day, I didn't have a washing machine so I didn't choose these because again, who had the time?
Lansinoh Reusable Washable Nursing Pads for Breastfeeding - 10ct
Healing is key. I know a binder could feel uncomfortable sometimes, but to me it really helps speeds the process of getting everything back to normal.
ChongErfei 3-in-1 Postpartum Belly Wrap
The brand stand the test of time for a reason. New mommas sometimes forget how much they have to stand on their feet carrying their babies, and at the end of the day your feet will feel the pressure the most. You want to stay cute yet safe and comfy ...
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