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Trauma Informed Books that center research, science and inclusive care
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Instead of The Body Keeps The Score, read...

Alternatives to Bessel Van Der Kolk's work that provide a more inclusive, integrated lens on healing trauma and how the body metabolizes our lived experiences. 

 
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Explores racialized trauma and healing
My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma
 
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A memoir detailing healing from complex trauma
What My Bones Know: Memoir of Healing
 
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Addresses historical trauma and practice
Decolonizing Therapy
 
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Explores inherited family trauma
It Didn't Start with You: Inherited Trauma
 
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Reflections on childhood trauma
What Happened to You?: Trauma & Healing
 
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Focuses on the body's instinctual capacity to heal trauma
Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma by Levine

Instead of She Comes First, read...

books on sex, pleasure and intimacy

 
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Essential for understanding female sexual response and debunking myths
Come as You Are: New Science to Transform Sex Life
 
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For maintaining intimacy in long-term relationships
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
 
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Celebrates self-love and masturbation
Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving - Betty Dodson
 
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Uses mindfulness to overcome sexual blocks
Better Sex Through Mindfulness: Women’s Guide
 
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A mind-body guide for sexual trauma survivors to reclaim desire
Healing Sex: Mind-Body Approach to Sexual Trauma
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Practical tools for survivors to find pleasure and safety
Reclaiming Pleasure: Sex Positive Guide
 
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Explores diverse queer experiences
Queer Sex: Trans & Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy
 
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Science-backed insights on sexual desire
Tell Me What You Want: Science of Desire

Instead of How to do The Work, read

books that center evidence based healing instead of pop psychology and pseudoscience

 
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A great introduction to IFS and parts work
No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma & Restoring Wholeness
 
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Focuses on deep trauma healing
Transcending Trauma: Healing Complex PTSD
 
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Empowers survivors of child abuse
The Mosaic Mind: Empowering Tormented Selves
 
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Applies IFS to intimate relationships
You Are the One You've Been Waiting For
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IFS from the lens of working with intimate relationships
Intimacy from the Inside Out
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Integrates IFS with spirituality for deeper healing journeys
Parts Work: Healing Journeys with IFS & Spirituality
 
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Focus on how boundaries create an invitation on how to engage, not keep people out
Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide
 
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A must read for anyone that has the expereince of a parent with a personality disorder
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
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