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My 2025 Favourite Wedding Guest Outfits

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Wedding Season - I feel like I'm living in Four Weddings and a Funeral I go to so many weddings, so here's my favourite picks for outfits for guests this year at various types of weddings.
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No Dress Code UK (Afternoon Wedding at a County House Hotel)

This wedding is at a upmarket country house hotel Wedding at 1pm followed by meal and reception at the hotel until late.

 
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Elegant, stylish and perfect for lots of different venues, can be dressed up or down.
Lace Midi Wrap Top Full Skirt Dress
 
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A hat or a fascinator are a must at a classic UK wedding and to me this one is perfect for the outfit - classic, compliments the dress but isn't shouting “look at me”
Hair Accessories | Side Facing Structured Fascinator | Coast
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Comfortable and compliments the dress
Riley Suede Sandals
 
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Delicate, complimentary and delightful to wear
Genuine Sea Glass Necklace Sterling Silver, Sea Glass Jewelry, Sea Glass Pendant, Beach Jewelry, Sterling Silver Seaglass Necklace For Women
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These earrings are beautiful and look just as great with lots of different outfit styles so I would expect to get a lot of use out of these beyond the wedding.
Sea Glass Chalcedony Isla Drop Earrings
 
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A complimentary bracelet completes the look
Genuine Scottish Sea Glass Wirework Bracelet Turquoise Aqua Seafoam Blue White Green Ombré Handmade Silver Wrapped Beach Glass Swirl Spirals
 
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A smart clutch completes the whole look
Bags & Purses | Envelope Clutch Bag | D2C
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Formal Wedding in Italy (Positano)

Beautiful Church wedding then reception in a hotel with breathtaking views over the bay - a chance to push the boat out

 
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Can't go wrong with Ralph Lauren.
Ralph Lauren
 
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A shawl or other wrap is essential for a Church wedding
Luxe Merino Silk Shawl Dark Navy
 
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Sheila Fleet is my absolute go to for jewellery, always stunning and Rowan in Frost goes perfectly with this outfit.
Rowan in Frost
 
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New brand for me but I like what I've seen so far.
Darcy Clutch Bag
 
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A simple navy shoe is all you need to compliment the rest of the look
Classical - Navy

No Dress Code UK (Town Hall, then Restaurant)

Relaxed wedding, not too formal but still want to look like it;sa. celebration!

 
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A lot of jumpsuits are either too loud or too pale or too dark for weddings in my experience - this one is great, reflects the more relaxed atmosphere of the wedding and really comfortable.
Phase Eight Vanessa Lace Bodice Jumpsuit, Light Blue
 
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Haven't tried the brand before but they seem perfect for the look
Silver Elissa Stiletto-Heel Court Shoes | Lotus
 
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Picked the bag which matched the shoes and reflect the look I'm going for.
Silver Zahara Clutch Bag | Lotus
 
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Sweet little necklace to match the relaxed theme of the outfit
Pandora White Rose in Bloom Collier Necklace
 
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Earrings to match - I could see these becoming a favourite
Pandora White Rose in Bloom Stud Earrings
 
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A silver cuff just finishes the whole look.
Sterling Silver Twist Cuff Bracelet

No Dress Code Uk - Castle Wedding in Scotland

Castle/Mansion wedding in Scotland - probably in a marquee

 
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Love this dress - elegant, beautiful and very summery. Also hopefully good for dancing at a ceilidh.
Phoebe V-Neck Maxi Dress (Coral)
 
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As this is due to be at least partially outside I'm choosing low block heels with the grass in mind.
Ginette2 Heeled Leather Sandals - GINETTE2 / 325 061
 
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Cute fascinator to match the dress. I can't resist any chance to wear a fascinator
Salmon Pink Fascinator
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Something a little whimsical for the jewellery for this look.
Rose Gold Pink Pearl Drop Bridal Earrings Necklace and earring set Blush Wedding Earrings Boho Leaf Earrings Petite Earrings Wedding Jewelry
 
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Again for me a clutch is the only bag to take to a wedding
Bellaria - Gold

Christmas Wedding 2025

This wedding is a bit different - in that it's being celebrated on two different days AND combined with Hogmanay. The actual wedding will be at a small chapel, followed by a meal at a very nice restaurant, while the reception will be three days later...

 
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Gorgeous jumpsuit in a seasonal colour for the wedding and meal at the restaurant
Alinda Jumpsuit | Phase Eight UK |
 
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Warm Ruana and the russet sets the green off beautifully (and yes, it's festive)
Celtic Knot Russet Ruana
 
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Plain Dark Green Shoes - stay simple for the wedding.
Classic Floret Dark Green Leather Heel Courts | Work Shoes | Shoes | Collections | L.K.Bennett, London
 
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Simple gold clutch for the wedding and meal
Bags & Purses | 'Bellini' Clutch | Dune London