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💌 Bestie-Coded Buys for Emotional Support
18 items
By
Erin Carlin
Soft things that feel like care—whether you’re caregiving, creating, or just trying to make it through the week.
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🕯️ For When You Need a Soft Reset
📔 For Gentle Clarity & Emotional Check-ins.
🧦 For Cozy Comfort & Wind-Down Rituals
🎁 For Gifting Emotional Support
🕯️ For When You Need a Soft Reset
Products I use that help when needed to pause, breathe, and come back to myself ✨
I light this when I need a soft reset. It’s not just a scent—it’s a signal to slow down and breathe.
🕯️ Blush Clay Candle
For my quiet mornings or late-night spirals. Just one page can shift the whole vibe!
📚 Mini Manifestation Book
I use when needing a scent to slow me down, and help calm my mental chatter 💬
🌿 Calm Essential Oil Roll On
For my stressful days, or waking myself up in the morning - this is my go too ✨
🧊 Ice Face Roller
📔 For Gentle Clarity & Emotional Check-ins.
Tools that help you organize your thoughts without pressure.
Not only do I love using pens that look cute, but these glide like a dream and make even to-do lists feel less intimidating.
🖊️ Pastel Pens That Feel Like a Hug
I tuck these into my planner, mirror, and phone case. Tiny reminders that I’m doing enough—even when it doesn’t feel like it.
💬 Affirmation Sticker Pack
I didn’t ask for perfection and this journal gave me just that. Just a few gentle lines when your thoughts need a soft landing. 🥹
📓 Sage-Toned Journal with Warm Prompts
Whenever I need a little positivity, I keep these on my desk, in my purse, or any place that is easy to reach 🥰
🪞 Positive Pocket Mirrors
🧦 For Cozy Comfort & Wind-Down Rituals
Little things that make real life or surviving feel softer.
These are for my “I survived days” - soft, stretchy and emotionally safe ✨
👚 Cozy Loungewear
I use these for the days where I just need to put my hair up & relax after a long day of work 😍
🎀 Soft Scrunchies
When I need a cozy cup of tea, these are my go-to; while I wind down and watch my fav. nightly tv show!
☕️ Clay-toned mug for warm drinks
After working all day, or running every day errands - changing into a pair of fuzzy slippers just elevates my mood ✨
Fuzzy Slippers
I’m definitely a cozy blanket girlie, so everyone needs a blanket to make those tough days a little easier to manage 🥰
✨ Cozy Blanket
🎁 For Gifting Emotional Support
Bestie-coded picks that say “I see you” without saying a word.
Something about using cute affirmations cards to make someone special - brightens my day ✨
💌 Affirmation Cards
I use this to tell my bestie “hey, I see you 👀” and brighten their day ☀️
💆♀️ Self Care Bundle
When my house smell good, I want to share the love and give this to someone I love 💕
🕯️ Yankee Candle Pink Sands Wax Melts
Sometimes every girl needs one of these - I always use these & gift them to my girlies 🥰
✨ Headbands for washing faces
I love the smell of this, and feel like every girl needs one to complete her spa days ✨
🥥 Coconut Scrub
